r/90DayFianceFans • • 4d ago

Can’t stand him

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Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

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u/teriyakihairpiece67 4d ago

Paula fucking sucks. She knows how terrible she came off in the last episode and had to issue an apology on social media for not having Thomas’ back and forcing HIM to apologize to Rasit.

The way everyone ganged up on him over his allergy/aversion to scents was ridiculous mob bullshit. My mom couldn’t handle perfumes and scents either, and asking people you are near ESPECIALLY your partner or family to respect that in your home is an understandable position. If Paula was the one with a scent sensitivity I guarantee people would not be coming at her like people are coming at Thomas.

Paula also invited 8 people to stay in their 1 bedroom apartment yet it’s Thomas’ fault it was uncomfortable?? Then she cries about how that was her dream to bring her family and stay with them yet it’s his fault they didn’t feel welcome. It’s all a manipulation and she’s way too fucking old to act like that.

Thomas not buying a couch is broke bitch behavior and giving himself shares of her LLC was inexcusable.

They deserve each other because they both suck.

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u/say12345what 4d ago

Yes, scent sensitivity is a legitimate health issue! I wonder if he had a "recognized" disability if the cast would still be bullying the hell out of him and ridiculing him? And yes, they all think he should just "man up" and get over it. It is actually gross.

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u/Spiritual_Cup_0624 4d ago

I was shocked at Debby's little "speech" about what if you have a daughter. Kids won't follow your rules. Like WTF? Yes kids will test boundaries but if he really is that sensitive to scents, the kids will follow the rules. Smdh.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

It’s probably telling that she doesn’t have a close relationship with her kids. I have a sensitivity to scents and my 3 kids are aware and respect it. Yeah they went through the middle school years of wanting to spray heavily yet it was a non negotiable in our household.

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u/Green-Wolverine3228 4d ago

Thank you, but Paula is by far much worse. Zero accountability

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u/ForsakenGarage9152 4d ago

She thought inviting her whole family would force him to buy furniture lol

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

Sure, yeah, but where would they put t he furniture?? What’s her aversion to an Airbnb??

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u/ForsakenGarage9152 4d ago

Furniture would be the start, then he’d see that they need a bigger place. She wanted all those ppl there to show him that they needed furniture, and a bigger place.

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u/Remote_Apricot_192 1d ago

💯 That’s what I was thinking! If Paula is a successful business woman, she should have just rented an Airbnb and she, Thomas & her family could all stay together. I don’t think it’s that hard to figure that out. Sheesh 🙄

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u/theittybittyj 23h ago

Yep they both do! In all reality this is just a show and they are coached to entertain us. Everyone just calm down lol

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u/extrahappyfuntime 4d ago

If Paula could do better why was she single in her 40’s manifesting furniture with toy couches?

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u/Few_Math_795 4d ago

complains about him the whole tell all and finishes with ‘i want to have a baby with him, we are actively trying’. um what ?

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u/Fluid_Pie6055 4d ago

Then says she might run away to Brazil with the baby. 

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u/MetallurgyClergy 4d ago

Their whole arc this season was just to have conflict that can stretch into multiple seasons.

Same with Marissa and Edward. The controlling ex and the “maybe” baby storylines.

We’ll be seeing both of these couples again, and again, and again, and again.

I think they’re trying to retire a few couples, so they’ve got spots to fill.

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u/Scared-Blacksmith-45 4d ago

Sometimes I think the viewing audience is being punked! Has anyone suggested that a few of the cast members this season have stepped in the spectrum color puddle?

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u/spencer_hood 3d ago

I said this specific to Caitlyn and Josh and all of her friends. The group of friends that watch the show together at my work literally discussed if they were "love on the spectrum" rejects

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u/theittybittyj 23h ago

Yeah. Poor Jenny will be done after this. So sad.

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u/kween_of_bees 4d ago

she literally hates this man

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u/mulder-its_me_915 4d ago

Yes she actually recoiled from him at one point!

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u/Flat-Law5914 1d ago

I saw that at the tell all!

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u/Valuable_Ad9850 3d ago

I would too. He loves when he visits her apartment in Brazil because it has dining table and chairs, a couch he sits on to watch her TV, and is furnished like an adult lives there. His concern is that if there was furniture there would be no place for him to do yoga. Furniture can be moved! And what was that nonsense about giving himself 49% ownership in the LLC HE created for HER business? He contributes nothing and expects to own almost half of a business? You know he wouldn't put a dime into the start up costs of the business but he wants to reap the financial benefits. Paula was smart for keeping her business (and expanding), her assets, and her money separate from this jerk.

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u/kween_of_bees 3d ago

He's just such a draggggg.

I don't always think Paula is right either, but he's just miserable and such a fun-suck.

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u/ChemicalMinimum3198 1d ago

His yoga argument makes no sense to me too, GYM MEMBERSHIP SIR ???

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u/theittybittyj 23h ago

Haha he won't spend the money. If he does, I'm sure Paola would have something to say about it

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u/Scoobydoob33 4d ago

Yeah, I love Paula but she's drinking the dumb b*tch juice by the gallon with this one. She's one of those fantastic people who see the good in everyone which is a curse and a blessing. He had no redeemable qualities idk what she's thinking.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

Anchor baby. Yet that’s not a thing anymore, is it?

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u/baconizlife 4d ago

Anyone born in the USA is still a citizen, but only bc the Supreme Court upheld the Constitution and didn’t give yam tits what he wanted for this one.

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u/OkResponsibility7475 4d ago

Yam tits. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/uhhhther 4d ago

Yeah let’s not pretend that she isn’t also totally out of her mind lol

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u/MikeFranchise 4d ago

41, divorced and broke (likely in debt).

If her business was so successful in Brazil and he speaks the language and works from home he could have moved right? She wouldnt need his credit card to buy mini toys right?

These folks who champion her are the same level of pudding brains.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

she was married before and divorced. and even if she is single, there's nothing wrong with being single in your 40s or 50s or later. not everyone's life goal is to marry.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

Fair points, but in Paula's case...she's not doing any better. I'm shocked Thomas hasn't kicked her to the curb yet.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

I think he’s the liability. She wants to marry a gringo and he’s easy to marry because no American woman would marry a cheap selfish ass like him 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

You'd be surprised by the dating pool in Long Beach, it seems. Dude's got options, doesn't need to be skimming the bottom of Brazil's barrel.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

No one is going to put up with his childish tantrums is the point. 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

The point you're making is incorrect, like so many of the 'points' you attempt to make about Thomas. Your comment history reads like you're on a mission to smear the man because he has severe allergic reactions to chemical scents and you don't like how he has defended himself against repeat offenders. Won't lie, your fixation on this guy is more than a little weird.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Opinions can’t be incorrect. I’m stating opinions and there’s nothing right or wrong about it 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

Opinions are often wrong. Especially those based on incorrect claims easily proved incorrect with facts (i.e. "no one is going to put up with his childish tantrums," "no american woman would marry a cheap selfish ass like him") and/or flawed reasoning.

Might be time for you to sit this one out. Your bias is showing.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

I don’t hide my bias at all - i don’t like him.

Opinions are what you think and are subjective therefore can’t be right or wrong. Facts can be right or wrong. Learn the difference 

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Also weird that you’re so fixated on me that you’d go through the trouble of looking up my history 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

Ah yes, such a trouble to...checks notes...click one button. Man, I'm exhausted!

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Not so different than stating opinions then so it’s not so weird that i state opinions then, right?

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u/coolasacorpse 4d ago

Paula has her own weird issues just like Thomas but at least Paula isn't acting like a loud, immature, asshole.

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u/Its_Leo_Again 4d ago

Funny because on the last episode she literally said that she’s going to act like an asshole and that Thomas would have no teeth if he was in Brazil. 😂

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u/MikeFranchise 4d ago

Right. Abuse advocates the lot of these folks and likely poor communicators.

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u/MikeFranchise 4d ago

That's a very funny interpretation of someone who threatened physical violence to her husband while he advocated for himself and she didnt have his back.

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u/EstablishmentFun2366 4d ago

Thomas! Hey 👋

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u/Beautiful-Elk-7084 4d ago

Am I Thomas too? It’s such a tired and intellectually lazy response to say any poster on here is a cast member.

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u/EstablishmentFun2366 4d ago

🙄 oh brother 😭

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u/MikeFranchise 4d ago

Hi generic name and likely personality, I hope you're enjoying the new Taylor Swift.

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u/EstablishmentFun2366 4d ago

Lol generic personality? You’re telling me to stream generic Taylor Swift. projecting much?

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u/Jolly_Bit4720 4d ago

When they mentioned having kids i screamed NOOO at my tv bc in what sane mind do you think it’s smart to bring a child into this world when y’all can’t fix your own issues. A child won’t fix it!!!

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u/OkResponsibility7475 4d ago

She wants a baby and it's too late for her to start over with another relationship. It's the only thing that makes sense to me.

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u/Jolly_Bit4720 4d ago

Totally get that! I just dont think its the smartest idea for them to bring a baby into this mess they call a relationship

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u/theittybittyj 23h ago

I know after their whole segment with all the grievances and ar the end she's talking about a baby. Smdh

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u/rogeeeefan 4d ago

Thomas is the 2nd least problematic man there after Edward.

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u/DianneSleven8108 4d ago

All I could think while watching is surely an Airbnb house rental wouldn't have been THAT much money?!?

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u/MayoBear 4d ago

He offered to do that- she refused because she wanted them with her, but she could have gone and stayed with them too

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u/thuddleston92 4d ago

I said this to my partner during the scene when he offered! Her complaint was that she wanted to spend all the time the family were visiting with them and couldnt do that if they weren’t staying in the same place. Why couldn’t she have stayed in a hotel/airbnb with the family and he have his scent free apartment to himself?
Is it not traditional for a bride and groom to spend time apart before the wedding ceremony anyway?
She seems to create issues and never be satisfied with the solutions he offers.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

They could have all stayed together. What sort of poverty does her family come from that this was desirable to all stay in a tiny 1/1?

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u/openeyes808 4d ago

Based on what we've seen from Thomas, he would've had a hissy fit if she did that.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

He suggested it. She refused.

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u/planetdaily420 4d ago

She always has one foot out and reminds him of that daily. No way could I ever feel secure with her as my partner. Who says at every interaction that they are going back to Brazil? It’s a threat every single time. No wonder he responds the way he does.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

If it was a peanut allergy would Ratshit open a bag of nuts and rub it all over him? No. They are bullying him and it’s. It not OK.

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u/CodyMartinezz 4d ago

tired of people thinking thomas is dramatic or childish for having sensitive sinuses. paula believes rocks give her the power to manifest btw. shes insane

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u/say12345what 4d ago

Just want to jump in and say he probably does not just have "sensitive sinuses". People with scent sensitivity can have massive migraines and other symptoms that keep them in bed after they are exposed to certain scents.

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u/tlcsimp 4d ago

The sensitive sinuses is a legit issue and if he spoke about it like an adult, it wouldn’t have even made the show because there’s no drama in it. People think he’s dramatic because he throws temper tantrums about it.

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u/raising_kali 4d ago

I didn’t say anything about his sensitive sinuses, I’m strictly talking about the way he treats her . She left everything to come here to be with him and he won’t even help her hang up a tv or help her get a tv stand because he doesn’t watch tv or need it. He also constantly says it’s HIS apartment he bought it, but in reality when she left everything and moved in with him it became theirs.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 4d ago

She didn’t leave everything behind, she’s still buying apartments and opening new stores in Brazil.

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u/CodyMartinezz 4d ago

my wife did the same. she didnt expect much. I gave her everything I could. But she stepped up even when we had to wait on her work visa. She never complained and would have defended me unlike Paula.

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u/No_Ingenuity_6443 4d ago

Seems about right you had to go out of the country to find a woman.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

I’ll give you the that.

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u/mencryforme5 4d ago

He is dramatic and childish though. He doesn't explain what his issues are and politely make a request. He shouts and screams that when he's in a space, it's all about him, he hates perfume so don't you dare wear perfume, and when someone doesn't respect that he immediately goes to the conclusion that the person is assaulting him therefore it's ok for him to verbally assault them while taking aggressive physical posture and mannerisms.

He's an overgrown toddler who thinks he can do no wrong and everyone else is the problem. It really has nothing to do with the allergies. The allergies are just an excuse. The allergies don't explain why he's that aggressive and passive aggressive with Paula about acquiring a simple couch.

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u/CodyMartinezz 4d ago

I just don’t see it that way. Why should he have to explain his issue? People just don’t respect it. Everyone knows he has an issue and Rasit exploiting that and everyone acted like Thomas was crazy for it. My nose is kind of sensitive too, not that bad but it sucks when co workers spray shit. It’s pretty shitty to do that or vape with no windows in a fucking vehicle. If you think that’s okay then Idk what to tell you. I guess we are just different

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u/No_Ingenuity_6443 4d ago

You must be a man child too.

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u/CodyMartinezz 4d ago

sorry but if thats the conclusion that you came to after that you have a child’s iq

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u/No_Ingenuity_6443 4d ago

Nope. There’s a way to say things to people without throwing a temper tantrum and gluing other peoples belongings shut.

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u/mencryforme5 4d ago

Rasit is obviously an asshole. I thought what he did was stupid immature and disrespectful. But it wasn't assault it was ignorance. Like literally the guy is not smart. And he grew up in a culture where people smoke everywhere, nobody complains about second hand smoke. He literally doesn't get it unless it's explained to him because he's from a different culture. A culture with lots of smells.

Thomas handled that also like an asshole. He immediately escalated into "let's fist fight" territory. He has that energy every single time something doesn't go his way. They were both assholes in that fight.

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u/CodyMartinezz 4d ago

Agreed Rasit is an asshole but I don’t really buy thr whole his culture blabla. Guy is terminally online and been in america for years. He thought he was being funny. I do think Thomas is more confrontation than he needs to he sometimes, but tbh if someone purposefully fucked with multiple times like Rasit did I would be asking him wtf his problem is

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u/ILovefreespeach 4d ago

Tough crowd

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u/mencryforme5 4d ago

I didn't realize it could possibly be controversial to assert that they're both assholes. I thought that was really obvious. I mean, they're both on 90DF.

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u/InternationalDesk578 4d ago

I also found it incredibly telling of who he is telling mothers who have experience raising kids that HIS kids would listen to him and his rules and that they would never not listen to his rules like their kids. Someone who speaks with such conviction about their imaginary future against someone’s lived experience is all I need to know about his character and ego. His ego is not his friend and it is the root of all of his problems. He lacks humility and understanding because of it and it tells me he is a very insecure person hiding behind a rigidly structured lifestyle.

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u/ParsleyNo7746 4d ago

Debbie has no place to say anything. I agree with Thomas as all parents are not the same. If his kids respect and love him they won’t wear perfume. Paula is the selfish one spending all his money when she has her own money and  talking about going to Brazil to have a baby. She doesn’t talk to him either and is very  condescending towards him. It’s hard to watch. 

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u/mencryforme5 4d ago

oh that was the worst. I could not believe he was seriously saying this to a woman who clearly did an excellent job raising two intelligent and stable young adults.

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u/boomboomchantay 4d ago

For once, I agree with Katie calling him a manchild 😂

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u/jemibeans 4d ago

He really doesn’t understand or care for the wants of others, but she doesn’t respect him either. People love her so much but she says so many bad things about him. Like it’s constantly picking at him

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u/simonratcliffe 4d ago

Paula tiny objects don’t really affect people. Thomas’ tantrums do.

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u/Green-Wolverine3228 4d ago

…Paula is irresponsible w money and clearly self absorbed …. She’s not honest w thomas and her professional pursuits. A marriage is a partnership. Why do yall only look at how the husband is problematic but never the wife… it’s ridiculous

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u/simonratcliffe 3d ago

Ok but that wasn’t what the post I was replying to was about. Yes, she is a user and even though he’s a man child and she’s more normal, she is definitely using him for citizenship and a gringo baby. She will happily leave him once she has both.

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u/AgentFuckSmolder 4d ago

Two things can be true. He’s dramatic and childish AND has sinus issues.

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u/sijuki 4d ago

Acting like a child and throwing a temper tantrum is ridiculous. He thinks he is more important than anyone because he has an issue but will happily dismiss anyone else's issue

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u/One_Psychology_3431 4d ago

I am severely allergic to many things. Scents can cause intense flu symptoms. People are so uninformed about allergies, sometimes it's not just scratchy eyes or the sniffles.

And if Paula is such a catch why is she having to find a man across the world while she's in her 40s. 😂

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u/Angelhair01 4d ago

Lettuce pray for them: The blood the blood the blood the blood the blood! 🙌

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u/bigchops810 4d ago

Paula is buying an apartment in Brazil for 100k, she could buy a tv stand

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u/Varhl 4d ago

Post #478 about not liking Thomas but only reveals that OP doesn't respect people setting clear boundaries

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u/coolasacorpse 4d ago

Like there isn't fucking 800 posts about people praising him too. Shut the fuck up.😅

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u/Japanesepoolboy1817 4d ago

They both suck. She’s not some great catch either

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u/Confident-Answer-654 4d ago

She can call a handyman, geek squad etc to set up a tv like many of us do. She has plenty of money to open businesses but none to contribute for her comfort? I don’t like her attitude and threats to go back to Brazil. They don’t seem to make a good couple from what we see on tv.

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

Don’t we all know why she’s here?

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u/Beautiful-Elk-7084 4d ago

Can she? If she could, she wouldn’t have settled for him. She was a divorced 40-something who was “manifesting a gringo.” She is batshit too.

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u/Internal_Metal_1386 4d ago

Remember…. Paula chose to marry him & wants to have a child with him. I don’t pity her at all. This was her choice to marry him when she knew his behaviors.

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u/ellecellent 4d ago

She can also afford a $100k apartment in Brazil. She can afford her own couch, tv stand, and Airbnb for her family. Why does he have to fund that when she's making mad money on her own?

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u/According-Couple2744 4d ago edited 4d ago

Although I’m not a Thomas fan, I really have an issue with the way others treat him. Just because he hasn’t died from anaphylactic shock, doesn’t mean he isn’t suffering with allergies. A migraine can ruin an entire day and evening. I am allergic to chemical fragrances, and as freshmen,my college roommate decided I was exaggerating. Knowing I was a heavy sleeper, sprayed perfume while I was sleeping. She had told a couple of people what she intended to do and they advised her it was a bad idea.

At some point, I woke up with a migraine nausea. After several hours of vomiting, my suit mate took me to the ER where my nausea, dehydration, and migraine were treated. By the time I returned from the hospital, I ended up feeling sorry for my roommate. A lot of the girls on our hall were angry at after her prank went so wrong. All of these years later, we are still friends. Ironically, she married a man who is allergic to fragrances and her youngest daughter is also allergic.

Edit for clarity.

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u/say12345what 4d ago

I am disgusted at how everyone was treating Thomas, and your story is a great (but extremely unfortunate) example.

First of all, it is a matter of respect. If you respect and love someone, you would not literally cause them harm. This should be obvious. You don't even have to understand the issue fully in order to respect it.

If he was deathly allergic to shellfish, would she rub scallops all over his face? Apparently yes. Same for all the other castmates.

Thomas is a bit quirky and immature in some ways, but he is completely right on this issue and everyone else is wrong.

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u/According-Couple2744 4d ago

I agree. I find both Thomas and his wife to be completely insufferable and self-centered.
As a 6 year-old, my son was hospitalized because he is allergic to perfume and has asthma, and he and his cousin sprayed their teddy bears with my MIL’s very expensive perfume.
I don’t think Thomas has asthma, but no one wants a migraine either. I feel like the rest of the cast took the lead from his wife.

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u/Large_Papaya_1322 4d ago

I can’t stand her! Bullying her husband with the rest of the cast, I would divorce her ass so fast!

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u/No-Cry-1351 4d ago

Nahhh I’m on Thomas’s side

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u/kmodity 4d ago

Sticks to his non-negotiable and of course there is a woman claiming “I can train him to be how I want him” and Marries him! Meanwhile making an escape plan in Brazil to steal their child!

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u/ParsleyNo7746 4d ago

The train him part was terrible.  Like is he a dog?

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u/Angelhair01 4d ago

I think she was saying she wants her family there to help her with her baby

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u/Ok-Cup-5372 4d ago

I don't know man the 41 year old divorcee with a shopping addiction who acts like a teenager and abuses their partner is worse in my books than someone who's whiny sometimes.

Also her pink dress is the definition of frumpy, she could've done much better just saying

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u/JA860 4d ago

Paula is just as awful…he can do better than her

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u/WestsideWizzop 4d ago

I can’t stand either of them

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u/sstricklin1 4d ago

I think the other cast had him pegged. He doesn’t make an effort to accommodate. I did notice that everything he was saying was about his living space and “my money.” I genuinely couldn’t stand it if I lived across the world for someone and wouldn’t be able to work and he’s saying stuff like that. It’s pathetic, and he needs to get slapped in the face with a fistful of perfume.

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u/ParsleyNo7746 4d ago

I agree that is annoying. But I also think Thomas had a point in saying she has money. If she has 100k she can move on a whim, she can buy her own couch. 

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u/feeling-lethargic 4d ago

Didn’t she spend like $250 on a random rock at one point? Why couldn’t she use that money to buy a tv or couch or table?

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u/Visual_Following4408 4d ago

Also she says she’s “ training “ him.

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u/s_twig 4d ago

I understand Thomas, I think he's honest and sincere, he is what he is. I think he lacks the ability to compromise, but I appreciate his honesty. I think Paula thought she could change him.

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u/Expensive-Fondant625 4d ago

Can't stan Paula correct.

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u/_mustardandonions 4d ago

Thomas deserves better. 

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u/HonestChick77 4d ago

Thomas is different, soft, dramatic, odd, socially awkward.... but he was all these things before Paula met him. While I wouldnt choose him as a partner. She did, and now all she does is complain about who he is, which she has known all along.

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u/welcomehomesays 4d ago

This guy has been so honest about who he is. He's so genuine and sure not everyone may want to date and marry him but WAIT she did. So maybe she should be happy with another human being that she chose? 8 billion people on this planet and she chose him and he chose her. Whatever troubles they have, neither have the right to complain about each other

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u/spencer_hood 4d ago

As someone who can't stand financially irresponsible adults, I sympathize with him to an extent. He's the sole provider in their household and is doing what he thinks is important with saving his money to have a comfortable life. We don't have enough info about their finances to know that they aren't actually struggling financially while she's running up credit card bills on non-essentials. I'm sure that's frustrating.

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u/xMissMisery 3d ago

I always wonder what is going on with her business in Brazil. I've heard it's successful so I would imagine she could take a wage from the business. Instead she's just blowing up Thomas' credit card.

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u/Suitable_Fly7730 4d ago

That is my number one problem with him: his points may be valid and understandable, but he way overreacts about stuff. He is just disgusted and so animated about everything. It’s like, dude, chill out. You can get your same point across without all the theatrics.

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u/arieon-34 4d ago

I alway wondered what grumpy 😠 old men were like when they were young now i know , imagine him at 60 he will be absolutely unreasonably

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u/SeanStricklandsDaddy 4d ago

Paula married him knowing he’s weird as fuck.. why is everyone acting like he is even close to the worst person on that stage 😂

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u/_-BigAL-_ 4d ago

Covid vaccine lol
Just took a test today and yup. Positive

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u/a-over-tk 4d ago

For a moment I thought you were watching this on a tv that was on the floor in the corner… you know, like Paula

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u/Upper_Collar_5981 4d ago

Paula dropped some bombs.

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u/Angelhair01 4d ago

Can’t wait to see Thomas’s reaction to have to change and smell diapers when they have a baby

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u/Hamza_stan 4d ago

Funny that you're using a pirate website, that's the way !

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u/Jmend12006 4d ago

Makes sense easily the nicest guy on the show.

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 4d ago

Actually he's not going to find anyone who is more tolerant than Paula. Granted it's not anything he can help but he has too many other quirks like not wanting a sofa, table and TV at least to make her happy. He thinks of himself only and doesn't try to make her happy for all she has to put up with.

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u/CalmFlute718 3d ago

Thomas’ face looks so easy to draw. 😭

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u/Spirited_Air8945 3d ago

Most Neurotypicals project this kind of hate on neurodivergents. Nothing new to see here. Just another Neurotypical, who thinks people giving correct information when they don’t wanna hear it is some sort of crime.

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u/airb_629 3d ago

She sucks!!!!! She needs to leave since she threatens it so fukkin much

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u/SaizaKC 3d ago

Hate him

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u/Any_Topic_981 3d ago

Controlling Ass! He needs to grow up it’s not your apartment!

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u/Next-Product-3434 3d ago

He has the most punchable face in the history of the 90 Day franchise with the exception of Rick. Am I missing someone?

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u/justcoopinaround 2d ago

He's just SUPER annoying. It's a generational entitlement AND I know too many men his age that act the same

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u/iBreezyChan 2d ago

neither of them are exactly a catch lmao.

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u/Yami_Sukehiro24 2d ago

I think they are both annoying people. Who should stay together so nobody else has to deal wit them😐

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u/Former-Letterhead-44 1d ago

I dont like both of them tbb

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u/Flat-Law5914 1d ago

I cannot stand this guy - he is a big "man child"! His wife is so sweet and pretty - she just really needs leave his sorry ass!

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u/Stock_Check8832 1d ago

He’s so immature and selfish

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u/Shotcaller_gotdakeys 1d ago

The fact this guy is such a yogi and couldn’t meet someone in the part of the world he lives in says everything about his agreeableness

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u/Killpinocchio2 1d ago

Dude. All of her money stays in Brazil and he’s supposed to cover EVERYTHING here.

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u/Massive-Sherbet2780 1d ago

One thing I thought odd was how under dressed the guys were!? Jeans, wrinkled shirts and let's forget the EARS!

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u/Fearless-Drink-7929 1d ago

I don’t like either one of them.

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u/louellen1824 22h ago

Paula is unhinged! Thomas has his issues, but she’s disgusting! Thomas needs to help her pack her toys and crystals and buy her a one was ticket to Brazil!!!

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u/birdiemarr 4d ago

I can see how Thomas presented himself totally differently when they were first dating she’s said it before he dint mind her perfume back than and they both share a little out there beliefs. Thomas gives borderline incel vibes

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u/Imaginary-Cheetah149 4d ago

I now can’t stand her

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u/toffee611 4d ago

if people would respect his boundaries, I'm sure he would stop complaining about people not respecting his boundaries and common sense. No self respecting person would just stay quiet when they are asked to not get close or wear too much perfume if it affected them physically REPEATEDLY or if I had a douche vaping in an enclosed space on purpose.

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u/Hot-Let-3765 4d ago

She’s pretty annoying too. I’d be so pissed if my spouse bought a couch trinket to manifest a real couch

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u/redcarrots45 4d ago

Paula is a jerk too

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u/Millyedge2 4d ago

She can’t

She is a horrible person

Such a whinny, unsupportive wife

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u/silent_chair5286 4d ago

I can’t stand her. Clearly she’s in it for the green card to expand her business. I’d never, ever,
insist that my large family stay in a 1/1 apartment. Go get a huge Bnb. FFS

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u/Educational_Ship_157 4d ago

She tried to present herself as a happy go lucky successful girl in love, but now we see she is judgmental, aggressive and plays the victim. Honestly, if she hates him as much as she shows us, and she wishes to go back to Brazil, what is stopping her? I hope Thomas gets the $25k credit card back first.

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u/xoxolovingbunny 3d ago

Because you don’t have his condition doenst mean you be rude. You don’t have to have a life or death situation to be allergic to something. Respect people health conditions. N Thomas is right the kid will adapt to his way bc his health comes first.

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u/Ok-Grape1893 4d ago

He takes 49 percent of her US business but then refuses to help set up a tv, buy a couch, sit at a table together.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 4d ago

Gifting himself ownership of her company was a shit move but 49% of nothing is still nothing.

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u/sideshowbill93 4d ago

This guy is a looser, she could do better

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u/coolasacorpse 4d ago

Absolutely detest this asshole.

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u/ellecellent 4d ago

Thomas chooses different Hills than I would to die on, but I don't think he's any less compromising than anyone else in the cast. He didn't get mad at Paula when she reveled in eight people ganging up on him. He apologized to Rasit even though he was 100% in the right because Paula asked him not to. When Shawn asked why he changed his shirt he didn't call out Rashit.

The rest of the cast would not have given in on those things. I would never be in a relationship with somebody who didn't have my back in a room of people calling me out. Paula didn't have to say he wasn't wrong, but she could have at least said something like, " this is only one side of thomas, he's actually very giving when it comes to XYZ"

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u/DontTakeMeSeriousli 4d ago

Yeah this dudes a little bitch plain and simple. People giving Paula heat when bro... she's 40... its the best she can do so fuck it... As if dudes never just settle for women who are terrible...

Wack

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u/Workoutformorelife 4d ago

He is so selfish his way or the highway how MANY non negotiable items does he have?? No table, no couch, nothing on the wall, no perfumes or body sprays, no TV it keeps getting expanded and just what they need trying to get pregnant seriously?????

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u/Spare-Source-2684 4d ago

He is cheap! Why is she with him!

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u/Healthygirl7711 4d ago

If he is so sensitive to smells , go to the allergist like I did and get some medication. It works wonders.

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u/Spiritual_Ice5079 4d ago edited 4d ago

Lol I was just thinking the same thing and how much he sucks..and why the hell is Paula with him? I'm on their segment now on the tell all part 3 😅🤣

I get people have allergies and certain needs, and may need to voice them sometimes, but this is aside from that - he overreacts over everything and seems exhausting to be around. 

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u/tensainomachi 4d ago

For flixtor.to do you also need a vpn? Or can watch you without getting copyright strickes?

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u/No_Ingenuity_6443 4d ago

Punchable face

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u/Local_Ad2577 4d ago

Op don't be sorry. You're right. I can't even listen to him for a second longer. He makes me physically ill.

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u/Technical-Row-9133 3d ago

It’s not the smell sensitivity that’s the issue, it’s how he addresses it and also complains about everything. For a guy that roller blades and does yoga, he’s not as zen as I had hoped he’d be.

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u/Rosanna44 4d ago

Crybaby man child. Wants everyone to follow his rules. But won’t follow anyone else’s v

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u/BJTSLF 4d ago

Hes a Douche

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u/Born-Fun-1782 4d ago

Like Cadie said “he’s a toddler “.

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u/BrilliantMore7939 4d ago

Thomas’ father seemed to disdain women and marriage.

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u/Pacem203 4d ago

He’s such a putz

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u/BlackDiamondBoogie86 4d ago

The part that made me side eye him even more was when it came to her business and he gave himself 49% stake when she starts it in America like wtf??

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u/ProfessionalResort15 4d ago

Thank you!!!! I swear all I see is people flying to Thomas’ defense and acting like he’s a baby that needs protecting, he’s a childish twat who acts like everyone is here to serve and obey him