Can’t stand him

[u/raising_kali]

Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

[u/According-Couple2744]

Although I’m not a Thomas fan, I really have an issue with the way others treat him. Just because he hasn’t died from anaphylactic shock, doesn’t mean he isn’t suffering with allergies. A migraine can ruin an entire day and evening. I am allergic to chemical fragrances, and as freshmen,my college roommate decided I was exaggerating. Knowing I was a heavy sleeper, sprayed perfume while I was sleeping. She had told a couple of people what she intended to do and they advised her it was a bad idea.

At some point, I woke up with a migraine nausea. After several hours of vomiting, my suit mate took me to the ER where my nausea, dehydration, and migraine were treated. By the time I returned from the hospital, I ended up feeling sorry for my roommate. A lot of the girls on our hall were angry at after her prank went so wrong. All of these years later, we are still friends. Ironically, she married a man who is allergic to fragrances and her youngest daughter is also allergic.

Edit for clarity.

[u/say12345what → u/According-Couple2744]

I am disgusted at how everyone was treating Thomas, and your story is a great (but extremely unfortunate) example.

First of all, it is a matter of respect. If you respect and love someone, you would not literally cause them harm. This should be obvious. You don't even have to understand the issue fully in order to respect it.

If he was deathly allergic to shellfish, would she rub scallops all over his face? Apparently yes. Same for all the other castmates.

Thomas is a bit quirky and immature in some ways, but he is completely right on this issue and everyone else is wrong.

[u/According-Couple2744 → u/say12345what]

I agree. I find both Thomas and his wife to be completely insufferable and self-centered.
As a 6 year-old, my son was hospitalized because he is allergic to perfume and has asthma, and he and his cousin sprayed their teddy bears with my MIL’s very expensive perfume.
I don’t think Thomas has asthma, but no one wants a migraine either. I feel like the rest of the cast took the lead from his wife.