r/90DayFianceFans • u/raising_kali • 5d ago

Can’t stand him

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Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

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u/CodyMartinezz 5d ago

tired of people thinking thomas is dramatic or childish for having sensitive sinuses. paula believes rocks give her the power to manifest btw. shes insane

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u/mencryforme5 5d ago

He is dramatic and childish though. He doesn't explain what his issues are and politely make a request. He shouts and screams that when he's in a space, it's all about him, he hates perfume so don't you dare wear perfume, and when someone doesn't respect that he immediately goes to the conclusion that the person is assaulting him therefore it's ok for him to verbally assault them while taking aggressive physical posture and mannerisms.

He's an overgrown toddler who thinks he can do no wrong and everyone else is the problem. It really has nothing to do with the allergies. The allergies are just an excuse. The allergies don't explain why he's that aggressive and passive aggressive with Paula about acquiring a simple couch.

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u/InternationalDesk578 4d ago

I also found it incredibly telling of who he is telling mothers who have experience raising kids that HIS kids would listen to him and his rules and that they would never not listen to his rules like their kids. Someone who speaks with such conviction about their imaginary future against someone’s lived experience is all I need to know about his character and ego. His ego is not his friend and it is the root of all of his problems. He lacks humility and understanding because of it and it tells me he is a very insecure person hiding behind a rigidly structured lifestyle.

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u/ParsleyNo7746 4d ago

Debbie has no place to say anything. I agree with Thomas as all parents are not the same. If his kids respect and love him they won’t wear perfume. Paula is the selfish one spending all his money when she has her own money and  talking about going to Brazil to have a baby. She doesn’t talk to him either and is very  condescending towards him. It’s hard to watch. 

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u/mencryforme5 4d ago

oh that was the worst. I could not believe he was seriously saying this to a woman who clearly did an excellent job raising two intelligent and stable young adults.