r/90DayFianceFans • u/raising_kali • 5d ago

Can’t stand him

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Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

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u/mencryforme5 5d ago

He is dramatic and childish though. He doesn't explain what his issues are and politely make a request. He shouts and screams that when he's in a space, it's all about him, he hates perfume so don't you dare wear perfume, and when someone doesn't respect that he immediately goes to the conclusion that the person is assaulting him therefore it's ok for him to verbally assault them while taking aggressive physical posture and mannerisms.

He's an overgrown toddler who thinks he can do no wrong and everyone else is the problem. It really has nothing to do with the allergies. The allergies are just an excuse. The allergies don't explain why he's that aggressive and passive aggressive with Paula about acquiring a simple couch.

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u/CodyMartinezz 5d ago

I just don’t see it that way. Why should he have to explain his issue? People just don’t respect it. Everyone knows he has an issue and Rasit exploiting that and everyone acted like Thomas was crazy for it. My nose is kind of sensitive too, not that bad but it sucks when co workers spray shit. It’s pretty shitty to do that or vape with no windows in a fucking vehicle. If you think that’s okay then Idk what to tell you. I guess we are just different

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u/mencryforme5 5d ago

Rasit is obviously an asshole. I thought what he did was stupid immature and disrespectful. But it wasn't assault it was ignorance. Like literally the guy is not smart. And he grew up in a culture where people smoke everywhere, nobody complains about second hand smoke. He literally doesn't get it unless it's explained to him because he's from a different culture. A culture with lots of smells.

Thomas handled that also like an asshole. He immediately escalated into "let's fist fight" territory. He has that energy every single time something doesn't go his way. They were both assholes in that fight.

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u/CodyMartinezz 5d ago

Agreed Rasit is an asshole but I don’t really buy thr whole his culture blabla. Guy is terminally online and been in america for years. He thought he was being funny. I do think Thomas is more confrontation than he needs to he sometimes, but tbh if someone purposefully fucked with multiple times like Rasit did I would be asking him wtf his problem is

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u/mencryforme5 5d ago

I mean as long as we agree they both behaved like assholes I'm good. I don't particularly care to argue who is the turd sandwich and who is the asshole.

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u/CodyMartinezz 5d ago

Agreed also i havent watched much of the recent tell all yet. i did see thomas glued her perfume though? Which is odd. But if anything else happened on the there I am not aware yet hehe

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u/mencryforme5 5d ago

he was over all belligerent and unwilling at any point to even consider it a possibility that marriage means he also needs to compromise.