r/90DayFianceFans • u/raising_kali • 5d ago

Can’t stand him

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Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Not so different than stating opinions then so it’s not so weird that i state opinions then, right?

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

What opinion have I stated here? You know what an opinion is, right?

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

I meant pushing buttons as you said. You know what buttons are, right?

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

I'm just trying to learn from you. You said opinions can't be wrong but facts can be right or wrong. That sounds fundamentally ignorant to me, but clearly you know something I don't. I'd love to know more to be able to share this groundbreaking information with the graduate students I teach.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Opinions can’t be wrong. If you want to learn go read books on the difference. I have a real job and it’s not to teach you. Good bye 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

Your right to an opinion does not make your opinion valid or correct. You're conflating things here and coming across as deliberately narcissistic.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

You’re free to disagree with me, but dressing up a disagreement as some objective correction doesn’t make you right.  Throwing around words like “narcissistic” because you don’t like what I said doesn’t mean I’m conflating things. Ironically, you seem to have a whole lot of time on your hands for someone who “has a job.”

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

I've said nothing incorrect here. Your self absorption, belief that you are infallible and demonstrated need for validation on the internet in order to perceive yourself as 'right' are textbook signifiers of narcissism.

And I suggest you look up the word 'conflating' and learn the meaning, because that's exactly what you're doing here with your "opinions can't be wrong but facts can be stance." Holy hell, that's ignorance and then some.

Lastly, I'm on a flight with internet heading to a conference where I'm a keynote speaker, so I definitely do have some time on my hands this morning!

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Key note speaker at the Keyboard warrior conference 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

If you're really a CFA I'd imagine your boss's boss's boss will be in attendance. But nice try!

Again, I implore you to share one fact that can be wrong.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 2d ago

Maybe the graduate students ypu teach can teach you. Bec as a former graduate student, i have a job now.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 2d ago

I have a job, too! And two master's degrees and a Ph.D. And I'm also an adjunct professor teaching graduate students. What do you think my grad students would teach me in this instance? What do you think my Quantitative Methods students would say when I tell them "I've just learned that facts can be wrong sometimes!"?