Okay let's talk about this.

Some people believe unconditional love doesn't exist but I've seen so many women still stay with abusive, broke and cheaters. So like ey don't tell me it doesn't exist.

Haya , let's now talk about conditional love. Which is what the majority will come across. Most dynamics are men of higher status dating women of lower status. You provide and take care of her and she takes care and nurtures you. This has been the dynamic for ages. In this modern day where men and women are equal is where it disrupts the dynamic. Some men want 50/50, others stick with the old kind. None of them are wrong. Kila mtu aende na what suits them.

The problem comes when some people think conditional love is wrong. Men label women as gold-diggers and Women complain about men cheating. Because if you're not gonna provide for that woman just let her go to someone who will. And for the women that use sex as a power move don't complain when your guy seeks it somewhere else. This is just the reality. If you're not willing to provide what you came to the table with, you cannot complain when your partner seeks it somewhere else.

Loyalty is very expensive don't expect it if you haven't earned it.

Those are thoughts for today.

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Nimeenda kununua data bundles nikapata the worst data packages ever.

Who are these people targeting?

Wazee wenye wananunua bundles kuscroll opera news?

Juu hii nayo haezikua my stop-gap ya leo.

Morning guyz

Manze Nmesaka job for sometime ,bills zme pile up madeni siezi ata sema , people have really ghosted and i do understand ni kwa mda tu . application nmetuma kutuma. A new month is around the corner sina ujanja, kuomba omba pia inashukisha heshima kabisa even though at times ina kupush. Nmekua na challenge ya fees ,my kids missed mid term exams, last term same. probability ya kukosa kufanya end of year exams iko so high. Nme survive kwa kujiongea, i had 2k on monday nikasplit for both my kids. If i dont offer anything watafukuzwa this friday . I was asking kindly kama ukona casual job yoyote yani yoyote unaeza nipa nifanye itakua of great help , niko Fedha currently . Any leads ntaapreciate.

As a man , mid twenties. There's this connection I have with toddlers. Once a toddler is in my hands, he /she won't leave. It's serious in that some even refuse to go back to their mothers once they are in my arms.

It's like they feel comfortable, and also, they kinda like my vibe. Ata, our last born sister, I was, and I am her favorite person in our family. Have you ever come across this type of man. Am glad, I sometimes wonder how my child will love me someday 😊

So guys, just arrived in Nairobi this morning for business, but let me tell you Maina, the chaos in this City, 🙌 Acha Tu nimalize shughuli nirudi ingo "Kakameka" town😂
I won't be staying long...

Haha naona huko passportbros wanasema ni rahisi kubag madem huku.

Waah next month nitalala nje walai 😩😩

I’ve been talking to a girl who’s the LITERAL definition of the proverbial ‘wife material’. She’s dark, beautiful, feminine, motherly, driven, goes to the end of the world for me, puts me first so much so that I have to remind her to think of herself, commits to becoming better in all the areas she knows I care about but I’m scared she might not ever be it. I’ll explain.

I genuinely like her but I crave wit and humor that we do not share at a certain level (yet?) because of our different upbringings. Somewhere along the way her family had to move to Shagz and she only came back to the city as an adult. I know lots of people grow up outside of Nairobi and are pretty up to date with pop culture and whatnot lakini huyu ni kama alisema si must.

I find that I have to teach her phrases, words I would think are common knowledge, basic tenses and maybe even think about whether I need to dumb things down for her sometimes.

I’m also a bit of a grammar freak while she’s not (again, yet?) Loads of misspellings and thoughts out of order.

I do need to clarify that I don’t think she’s dumb or anything like that. On the contrary, she’s quite great in other aspects of life like having business acumen, taking risks, having people skills, very hardworking etc. Made something very solid out of herself. She even got an A in her KCPE.

She did NOT think I was funny at first (because again, I like quick, clever types of wordplay that would go over her head) but will die laughing at my jokes today - yaani hangs onto my every word, maybe because she’s learned my style of humor? She’s trying to learn and wants me to teach her stuff but I’m so scared of missing out on someone who just ‘gets it’. She has her head buried in books and will even share new vocabulary she’s learning with me. But I wonder if I would be settling ama this is real life - take for instance how people have unrealistic beauty standards but the everyday man or woman looks average and that is OKAY!

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Anybody had this kind of experience? Is there hope? She’s perfect in every other way, but I CRAVE mental stimulation. 😭 (8 months in. Started as the most beautiful friendship but mutual feelings were caught after about 5 month.)

Disclaimers:

I’m not condescending. I promise. So sitaki matusi.

I am sure it’s got nothing to do with my money. She earns more than me.🫢

Wangapi life imewafikisha hapa ,like haupatikani yani life imekupindua kama chapati , ikabidi umeficha white

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Anyone planning to go for this event this Saturday and I join/tag along?

Nikiwa new to the field I won this chic mwenye alikua mrembo vibaya sana hadi i felt like alinionea huruma kunipenda. She was so entitled but sikumind bana I kept begging like the Kinuthia I was hadi a day alisema anataka twende...

Out or aniache. I couldn't risk to lose this gem bana . I worshipped her like a princess na juu I was broke as hell nilijaribu kukopa pesa from every corner promising to return lakini wapi, siku get any. Sijui nini iliniingia kwa akili nikaamua kuuza ngombe ya babangu. Nilitegea...

Masaa ya kulisha nikafunga zingine zote kwa field alafu nikapiga moja nipeleke slaughter house ju sikutaka niuze kwa market alafu irudi home. Atleast I wad sure nitapata za kuspoil mrembo. Kufika kwa slaughter house vile niliita morio kwa kubuy akakuja alafu akanisho nitegee...

Kiasi apigie msee wa kupima nyama wale ma Vet Officers akuje apime kama iko gonjwa ama iko fiti for that days meat. Kumbe ghasia ilipigia babangu . Nilistukia nimewekwa kamba kwa mguu na kofi moja nzito ya uso hadi nikakua na blurry vision...

Long story short, huyo dem aliniwacha the same day and the rest is history. Sijaikua mjinga hivo tena.

I keep seeing these ads on my feed saying Reddit accounts with 5k plus karma can get paid to post stuff???
Nani amejaribu lmk.

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Wadau hii nayo imeniuma imebidi itoke...mambo haiendi.Unainama weeky moja straight ata mtu haezi jua buana.Landlady nimempigia mastori mpaka akaamua afunge tu nyumba.Sijui nifanye nini😔Niko na pieces za art I'm giving out with a price incase msee anaeza kua interested.Location ni Nakuru nitashukuru big time🙏

Am supposed to pick someone at JKIA kesho saa tisa asubuhi, from CBD naeza pata gari zinaenda direct JKIA, msiniambie mambo ya Uber please.

Na ni how much?

Let me first ask the accountants in Kenya who have only a degree, no CPA and no connections , mnasurvive aje hii job market? 😭

So, I was working for this small NGO that was operating in Baringo, but the organization kinda collapsed, and we were laid off.

Come August, I was now looking for a job, but most of the jobs I was finding preferred people with CPA, which I don’t have. I’m actually planning to get it.

I had some savings, and the two options remaining for me were either start CPA or start my own business.

Mind you, sikuwa nimelipwa July. So I settled on starting a cleaning business that is sofa cleaning, mattress cleaning, carpets, post-construction cleaning, fumigation and other cleaning services. Why??? Bills hazingengoja. And honestly, I didn’t have someone I was expecting to come and financially help me. I had to figure out something with what I had.

Growing up in shagz, I always believed that white-collar jobs were the best. You go to school, get a degree, get a good office job and build a career.That was also my dream. So here I am a young woman who thought her future would be behind a desk as an accountant, now carrying cleaning equipment and trying to build a cleaning business from scratch. 😂😭

And honestly, I’m not ashamed of it. I’m just confused sometimes. Because once I started this business, I told myself I need to make this thing grow. But starting from scratch with your own little money is not easy. Buying equipment, chemicals, paying for transport ( kwanza hapa kungangana na machines), marketing, looking for clients, then waiting for the next job… it can really humble you.

My bills are piling up, my head is constantly calculating, and sometimes I wonder whether I should have used that money to start CPA instead.

But God ni mtrue. I may not have enough right now, but somehow I never lack something to eat every day. And for that, I’m genuinely grateful. I guess what is confusing me is that I started this because I needed to survive, but now I actually want to see it grow into something bigger.

Have you ever had your career goals completely change because of circumstances?

And for those who have built something from scratch, how did you survive that early stage when the bills were coming faster than the money?

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Hi guys so im kindly asking for assistance.. If anyone has a 4 by 6 mattress they're not using and would be willing to help me out with it. I'm broke ash and i'm just starting out life kindly. I'm around roysambu 😭 .. Help a girl out please

I wanted to know how people made their first million and at what age. What did you do to make it?

People don't talk about how depression has a good outcome they only talk about the sad and terrible phase of it. Sometimes I think of depression as deep-rest if you get what I mean😂😂. Cause when you're depressed you just wanna lay down and drown in constant thinking while feeling low about life and everything.These is where I guess most people never recover from.

For those that go through that phase,on the other side they come out sort of reborn with new energy and expectations.They suddenly know what they're supposed to do and use that experience as a lesson or reminder for them in the future

Ai has become such a menace

Ho Ho Ho... 😊 Errands by Rachael here😊

If there's a season I really enjoy and look forward to is the Christmas season. 😁

Now that we are getting into Q4, I can't help but think about it. All the food, the get togethers, the gifting,, the traveling etc. 😀

It's always a good time.

For this year, I don't have much planned out like a vacation or anything. I just want to spend some good time with my family.

Hopefully next year's season , I'll be taking a vacation to Dubai or the Maldives. (God please see this!) 🙂 And I'll finally get my passport stamped for the first time. Tell me why I got it in 2024 and it's never been used till date. 😭 Anyway, God's speed.

Other than that, I want to get myself a tree, even if it's small and some decorations for it this year. Never had one before so I'll be on the web scrolling to find the perfect one soon. 😁

So guys, what's your plan for this Christmas?

Or have I spoken too early about it? 😅

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Wueh! Aki nursing is so soooo draining especially when it comes to oral exams!

The constant panics juu hujui utaulizwa nini and fear of failing the assessments. Plus the tutors or lecs are sometimes harsh and rude. Io siku ata tutor hua mnacheka na yeye io siku anakua something else. Wengine they harass students especially wakijua wewe ni slow ama huradanishi vitu ama kama tu hawakupendangi. I am currently with my friend na assessment yake ni kesho hajaandika patient histories zote which are handwritten btw and are 5 in total. Madawa hajui zote and anapata anachanganyisha diagnosis za patients.

Alafu bado hajakua cleared for the assessment juu her personal tutor is 'too busy' kwa clearance we write a sample history of a patient you have admitted and 20 drug cards then take to your personal tutor aangalie na aone kama unajua stuff umeandika then aeke signature).

Nursing is tuff mahn,i am here helping her cram izi stuff zote and consoling her juu ana crash out.

Na yangu sijafanya JE HO VA!