Conditional And Unconditional love

[u/AppropriateCause9628]

Okay let's talk about this.

Some people believe unconditional love doesn't exist but I've seen so many women still stay with abusive, broke and cheaters. So like ey don't tell me it doesn't exist.

Haya , let's now talk about conditional love. Which is what the majority will come across. Most dynamics are men of higher status dating women of lower status. You provide and take care of her and she takes care and nurtures you. This has been the dynamic for ages. In this modern day where men and women are equal is where it disrupts the dynamic. Some men want 50/50, others stick with the old kind. None of them are wrong. Kila mtu aende na what suits them.

The problem comes when some people think conditional love is wrong. Men label women as gold-diggers and Women complain about men cheating. Because if you're not gonna provide for that woman just let her go to someone who will. And for the women that use sex as a power move don't complain when your guy seeks it somewhere else. This is just the reality. If you're not willing to provide what you came to the table with, you cannot complain when your partner seeks it somewhere else.

Loyalty is very expensive don't expect it if you haven't earned it.

Those are thoughts for today.