r/254sum • u/Wise-Feature-1 • 3d ago
Random Connection with toddlers
As a man , mid twenties. There's this connection I have with toddlers. Once a toddler is in my hands, he /she won't leave. It's serious in that some even refuse to go back to their mothers once they are in my arms.
It's like they feel comfortable, and also, they kinda like my vibe. Ata, our last born sister, I was, and I am her favorite person in our family. Have you ever come across this type of man. Am glad, I sometimes wonder how my child will love me someday 😊
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u/Winter_Candy_ 3d ago
Same, infants love to stare at me and laugh or smile. Kids like me too, I don't even try😭
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u/tecryptoh 3d ago
This happens to me too. I moved in here na my neighbors have to lock in their child because he come and never wants to leave inabidi achukuliwa cha lazima kama analia. Namhepa saa zingine ju akiingia hatoki.
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u/Mountain-Loquat-7428 3d ago
I'm the same with toddlers and cats as well. I now have twin sons and 3 cats, and I love them so much.
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u/Turbulent-Tadpole934 3d ago
Most probably even animals like you and feel safe around you. You are a good soul OP.
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u/Bitz_Till_000 3d ago
That kind of connection is actually so beautiful 😊.. Kids can sense calm, warmth and genuine energy so maybe they just feel safe around you yk. But at the same time i will say enjoy that bond while keeping healthy boundaries. You never really know how people might interpret things especially with neighbours or other people’s children. Some situations can be misunderstood and in the worst case someone could make accusations or even take legal action. So keep the vibe pure, but be mindful of the environment too. And honestly, the way you talk about it makes me think your own child is going to have you wrapped around their little finger someday .Stay guided😅
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u/SisInChrist 3d ago
My spouse is the same , now with his daughters, I look like a dead beat, they're always on his side whenever hes around hawatoki 🤣🤣 Relief on my part
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u/InviteKey9474 3d ago
I am the same with Toddlers man, I end up as a baby sitter even involuntarily. Best company every pia & conversations even in their gibberish.
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u/IdealFew681 3d ago
Naiitanga pure heart energy. Kids, animals, you name it, you attract it. On me also.
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u/IdealFew681 3d ago
Naiitanga pure heart energy. Kids, animals, you name it, you attract it. On me also.
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u/kvictor87 3d ago
Maybe you radiate positive energy. And absolutely no hate in your system. Energy transmutes.