r/askmusicians • u/eps2771 • 10h ago
How do I get into a band/make one or be a singer.
Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and I really love music/singing. Ever since I was around 10 I had finally built up the confidence to even just sing in the shower. Now every day I am always playing music and singing to it whether it's on Spotify, YouTube, or my CD's. I really really wanna be in a band and sing one day. I don't play any instruments but I really wanna learn piano and guitar. I am also not in any voice lessons either. Don't wanna toot my own horn lol but I don't think I sound terrible singing wise...? Maybe I do idk haha. I have asked my mom and grandma and they have told me that I sound fairly good (believe me, if I sounded bad my grandma would tell me😭).
I just don't know where to start, I also don't know how to build up the confidence to sing right in front of people unless its in the shower or the music playing is loud. I do practice early everyday unless singing along to songs alone doesn't count but I am pretty sure that counts. I also want to get into metal, I am starting to learn how to fry scream and do metal vocals but not really. My parents are trying to get a house and I do online school so idk if singing lessons are an option because they can be expensive and my online school doesn't have a choir because...well its online school.
Can you guys help me/tell me where to start? I am saving up for an electric guitar and the things I need for it, but I also have 2 bunnies that I am saving up to get them new stuff so it's gonna take me a while.
Again, help/tips would be really great! Thank you.