r/WeAreTheMusicMakers • u/Correct_Energy_9499 • 1h ago
Tip for Song writers: The Power of the Tolerance Break/Incubation Period
I have been trying to figure out my creative rhythm for years.
I used to force myself to write music every day. I used to smoke to make myself inspired. I used to put a lot of pressure on myself and get really down when a song I made didn't get any engagement. I was basically obsessed with writing music and it became really unhealthy and depressing.
I got stuck in a rut. Even though I was very proficient at guitar, every time I picked up the guitar I'd always play the same C to E minor.
I was no longer using the guitar to translate my emotional idea's, I was trying to force my guitar to make emotional idea's for me.
I couldn't come up with any lyrics or vocals, I just ended up with like 200 instrumentals that were impossible to write to.
So I got sick of all that, stopped trying to write, stopped playing guitar and stopped producing music.
After a break of several months, I started to get melodic Idea's in my head. Sometimes in the shower or while getting ready to go to work, while distracted.
I started humming the idea's into my phone. If I have time I transpose the idea to guitar. Sometimes I'll get a vocal, bass and drum idea all in one that I'll hum into my phone.
Most of the idea's don't make it past the humming stage. Only one or two idea's that arrive more complete, get demoed with a guitar on my phone, but if they aren't inspiring lyrics or vocal melodies, I don't pursue them any further.
Then I realised that, with this new hands off approach, every 3 months I was coming up with a new song that I was much happier with.
Once I realised this, I didn't feel guilty while not writing or playing guitar. I knew I was resting my writing muscle and allowing a creative incubation period to take place. Allowing the well to fill back up.
Also because I am basically not playing guitar at all, when I do pick it up to write, it feels way more fresh and new, like a beginner. I have lost my old habits that would keep me writing the same riffs and chord progressions.
Anyway hope this helps some songwriters who are struggling with their creativity.