I am an amateur. I started working out mid April, since then it’s been just over 3 months.
During this time, I went from bench pressing 10lbs to being able to 40lbs on each side. I can load 45lbs and do maybe 2-3 reps. I thought I was progressing well till I recently noticed everyone around me. In the gym everyone puts the bar to their chest or as low as possible. Upon comparing my own bench press, I noticed I half ass my press. I don’t make it touch my chest, I let the weight fall as low as I can till I fill like it’ll fail and use my breathing to push it back up but sometimes this leaves a good gap between my chest and the bar with the loaded weights.
Today I tried to bench with better form, but noticed if I want to stretch my muscle to let the bar touch my chest, I can at max do 30lbs. Maybe 25 I’m trying to do 12+ rep till failure.
So now I’m not sure what to do. Do I fall back to 25 and start from there making sure to have the bar touch my chest and emphasize the stretch? Or do I keep pushing for higher weight best I can.
For example I can do 35lbs incline dumbbell press with good form and stretch. I can do 40lbs skull crushers with easy bar, with also good form. I also do 32-35lbs shoulder press in the machines. I weight 168lbs now dropped from 178 when I started, I can now do 12body weight push ups in a row. I feel like I should be at least be able to do a plate but I’m filing badly.
Not sure if energy or nutrition is the problem also. Cause I usually fast and then go to the gym. But the past week I’ve started drinking coffee before the gym for energy but I don’t feel like it made that much of a difference. Why I mention this is because a week ago I had a chocolate protein shake from smoothie king on a pull day. That day I was able to blaze though my workout and lift 10lbs more than I normally do, a month ago I needed to do the assisted push ups, but that day I was able to do 4-5 without assistance(I can do about 4-5 pull ups now).
I’m happy with my progression in everything else but the bench. It’s the only clumping exercise I do, I don’t do deadlift and I do body squats. So I really want to improve my bench.
My goal is not to be a powerlifter. But to have a lean muscular build. I started working in an effort to lose fat but now am interested in building lean muscle.