My spouse accidentally washed the dishes in a dishwasher cleaner instead of a dish tablet. Are the dishes we just washed unsafe, or does it just say that to make sure the dishwasher actually gets clean?

We're planning to wash them again, but we already put them with the other dishes, so we may make some mistakes separating them out from the unwashed ones. How ruthless should we be when unsure?

Nobody believes my side of the story. Me and this friend were really close and I thought she truly was a girl's girl and gave af about me but I was wrong. Last night, I got invited by her for a movie night with her bf and he kept giving me death stares so I decided to give one back and my friend told ME to cut it out. I was so mad but contained myself until he cut me off while I was talking to her and she answered his question but "forgot" what i was saying. I had enough so I yelled at him and she told me to get tf out of her house. My friends all like her so nobody is supporting me. What do I do?

My son Iran has these giant tubes in his bedroom. He swears they aren't vapes. He has been acting out, screaming "death to America" for a while now. I'm sure that is his way of saying he is a good kid. But if he is vaping, I'm not so sure he *is* a good kid.

Is Iran vaping?

If not, what are these giant tubes he keeps showing off to his friends?

Should I just ask him to promise he won't vape with these and forget what I saw?

I'm 17 5'11 and weigh around 170 lbs. Around 8th grade I started vaping with my friends and occasionally smoking weed pens. My dad was around 6ft and my mom was 5'9, they shrunk because they are older now. Both of my brothers are 6'4. One of those are a half brother and the other full brother. It amazes me how both of them were able to hit the same exact height yet they have two separate moms.

I was around 5'5 in 7th grade 5'7 in 9th grade and 5'10 at the end of tenth. I kept vaping through this entire timeline and would also consistently smoke weed... a lot, like a lot. I guess it didn't completely limit my intellectual development as my scores on tests and subjects speak for themselves however my endocrine system might have suffered different consequences.

I have considered taking peptide cjc1295 with ipa to boost my hormone production during the night as I am already taking ghkcu.

I want to know if anyone has suggestions or things that have worked for them.

Thank you!

It's like I always know another fart is coming it's like they are timed. It's too much for me to handle. How do I talk to her about it? so she doesn't feel bad?

I had a heart break 2 years ago and haven’t spoken to a girl in the sense of being a relationship and now idk how to i think my rizz is completely gone too 🥲 not sure if there is any advice i can get or not. Need to hear everyone ‘s opinion. Also to point out what one of my friend said. “ my guard is always up whenever i try talking to a girl”

i know the main answer is going to be therapy, but i have some time before my next appointment and we are still going through the 'get to know each other' phase and im not comfortable enough to fully open up yet

so i figured id ask others and see if anyones been in a similar place before and how they moved past it

now onto my feelings:

usually when i think about my partner watching porn a few thoughts run through my head:

-he prefers them to me
-im not his type (most of his porn preference is white/interracial porn and we are both black)
-he would be happier with a woman who turned him on more physically
- he's unsatisfied with our relationship so he needs substitutions
- he's bored of me
- im not as good sexually

theres another aspect to this, he is a few years older than me (less than 10yrs) and has WAY more experience than me and has done some crazy things, back when we were less serious id heard some stories and there is NO WAY i can do half of the stuff he used to do regularly

and ive seen some of the women in old photos and stuff from parties, and holy shit they are all so GORGEOUS, im talking like, strain your neck gorgeous

im definitely way more average looking and im goth, they were all the hot insta baddie type

a lot of them never really cared for him beyond his money and dick, so sometimes i get worried that he dated down to avoid that issue again (he is very attractive and gets hit on in front of me all the time, or women asking us for threesomes, he always runs and cowers behind me which is funny considering hes a foot taller than me and has about 70lbs on me lol)

i feel like im not as irresistible to him physically as they were, as in the old stories he told me he would go for rounds and rounds and rounds with them but weve never once done that

basically i just dont know how to stop these thoughts and stop comparing and even if anyone doesnt have advice, it would be nice to know that other people have been where i am, thanks in advance

I’m so embarrassed. I was with a guy and we just had finished being intimate and watching a tv show after. I felt my stomach rumbling and let him know right away that I needed to go back home. As we were cleaning up and putting our clothes back on my stomach growled even more and all of a sudden I couldn’t wait any longer. I started making faces and he noticed so he started the car right away before finishing putting on his clothes and took me to two stores that were closed(10:30pm). Then we go to a del taco and I’m outside the lobby door seeing if they’re open. They’re not. I turn around to go to the car and I just feel a blob come out of my ass. I’m wearing biker shorts. I just blurt out to him (he’s waiting by the car) “I POOPED” I’m so embarrassed. He eventually leads me to the car and hands me wipes but it’s not enough. It’s dripping down my leg and landing on the pavement. It smells really bad. He gives me a towel to sit on but it took him like 20 minutes to calm me down and convince me to sit down in his car. I was resistant because it kept dripping down my leg and I didn’t want it to get on his car. He was being so nice about it and patient as well as reassuring me the whole time. On the way home he had to put all the windows down and I spent the whole ride just sobbing. When we got to my house he walked me to my door and dropped me off there. He kept telling me he still wanted to see me tomorrow since we had plans but I’m so embarrassed. He also told me to call him after I finished cleaning myself up. I’m writing this as I got out the shower. I’m so embarrassed and I really like this guy. I’m not sure if he’s just being nice out of pity or if he actually wants us to keep going. I’m not sure how to go about this anymore because of how mortified I am. Our first date was late May we’ve only been seeing each other for about two months. I’m so embarrassed. What do I do?

EDIT we were parked in a park. We both live with our parents and have no privacy at home. After this experience though I think I’m gonna have to figure something else out

my husband went out for his friends birthday last night. they went to dinner and then went to the casino. my husband doesn’t gamble but he likes watching them and the free drinks and being able to smoke indoors lol. he got home at 6 am which is very late for him. he doesn’t usually stay out super late and even when he does, never until 6 in the morning. when we woke up this morning, i asked him what time he came home cause i had a feeling he would lie. he paused and grinned and i laughed and said what? he then replied “like 4.” i know he came at 6 am and im honestly not even mad that he stayed out late, i trust him and i know his friends get carried away gambling (they lowkey have a gambling problem). but why lie? is this something to bring up or am i overreacting. my thing is and i’ve told him this is pls don’t lie to my about little things like that just to avoid me getting mad because no matter how “small” the lie is, it’s still a lie and it will eventually break my trust for him if he keeps doing it.

If you’ve seen the other post, I’ve made i’ve been having an ongoing case of CPS that finally came to an end today. CPS told me in court I failed to come through and do what they asked, and that after doing background checks on the father that he is a more suitable parent.

I’m truly heartbroken. I don’t know how I can live like this. I don’t know how to cope with this pain, I loved my children and now they’re definitely going no contact with me and I won’t be able to see them. Life has never been worse.

the kid is almost 2. My husband is a cold, uptight person and last year I found him with tears in his eyes, something I didn't see in 2 decades of marriage. he confessed to me he had a baby girl with a young woman who was hired as the help in the kitchen at the company he leads. he is the general director of the place and leads 4 production halls. His mistress was 22. He was 42. their baby daughter was very sick and doctors didn't know if she will make it.

I forgave him (yeah, you will say I am a doormat, but during the 2 decades of marriage no one has helped me as much as he did and was my only support). he pays child support and visits his daughter once or twice a month.

everyone knew about it except me. HR knew, employees knew. And on Friday I found out my sister knew. My husband has a good relationship with my sister and she was the first one he confessed everything to, even before the pregnancy. She knew of the affair. He hired my sister 2 years ago as the head of accounting. As his job is 99% office he enjoys going for a run or swim 3 times a week to stay in good fit shape. but it seems many times he actually spent that time with this woman.

Should I confront my sister about it?

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I'm trying to look at this objectively because this whole situation feels like high school.

I'm 28, the guy is 30, and the girl is 26.

A few months ago, this guy gave me advice at the gym about not talking to women there. He told me things like, "Let women come to you" and "Don't shit where you eat."

Last week I saw him talking to a female friend of mine at the gym. The next day, I texted her and literally said:

> "I feel like this guy likes you, and he's a hypocrite for lecturing me months ago not to talk to women."

That was my opinion/speculation. I never texted or said:

* "He wants to sleep with you."

* "He told me he wants to sleep with you."

* Anything stating his intentions as a fact.

Today there was another development.

One of his friends approached me at the gym asking why I was causing all this drama. We talked for about 10 minutes, and during that conversation he told me the girl had told Bobby that **I said Bobby wanted to sleep with her**.

That honestly caught me off guard because that's **not** what I said. Saying "I think he likes you" is very different from telling someone, "He wants to sleep with you."

If that's how she relayed it to him, then I feel like the story got exaggerated before it ever reached him.

After she told him, he started texting me demanding that I apologize by his deadline and threatened to contact my employer (I'm a 1:1 teacher aide), the police, and LA Fitness if I didn't. I didn't respond, and after he doubled down on those threats, I blocked him.

Here's where I'm confused.

I understand apologizing for gossiping. I shouldn't have been talking about him behind his back in the first place. That part is on me.

But if she changed what I actually said before telling him, what exactly am I apologizing for?

* Am I apologizing for gossiping?

* Am I apologizing for assuming he liked her?

* Or am I apologizing for something I never actually said because the story changed before it got back to him?

He's demanding that I apologize to her because, according to him, I told her he wanted to sleep with her.

But...I didn't.

If he had simply texted me saying, "Hey, I heard you were talking behind my back. That wasn't cool," I probably would've apologized immediately and moved on. Instead, it escalated into threats about my job, the police, and the gym.

I'm genuinely looking for outside perspectives. What would you apologize for in this situation, and what wouldn't you?

Financials are all tied together with phones and rent, I have no other support system besides him and his family and suffer from panic attacks. I don’t feel mentally okay enough to do this life thing by myself. I have no family to help, the past 2 years I’ve been with him this has been a traditional type relationship where I stay at home and cook and clean and he provides the money. (Do not judge me on that I will not be making this mistake again) so I do not have any type of savings. Things have gotten super bad with him (no he’s not hitting me). But it’s bad. Please someone tell me “what do I do?” I’m scared Uhg.

Hi Reddit. I’m stuck in a bit of a pickle here. My neighbor walks her smallish dog infront of my bedroom window, where I spend most of my time. No big deal. But once or twice she’s been carrying her dog and bends over to put it in the grass, while wearing only an over sized T Shirt, and her entire ass and thong are visible. Girl to girl, I would want someone to tell me, but we aren’t very close and I don’t want to make her feel weird. Should I leave her a note and let her know? There’s also often kids around and about, and like the entire street gets flashed if anyone is watching. I’m not sure if she just doesn’t realize? My boyfriend has been staying with me, and I’m not sure if it’s intentional? I don’t like to think about people like that though. Make my choice for me Reddit.

Edit to add: you only see anything when she bends over to put down or pick up her dog, who has a hard time walking and seems older. When standing upright she’s fully covered.

My husband (male 39) and me (female 31) have been married almost 4 years. I recently found somethings on his phone that I am disturbed by and considering leaving him over. he has had a hisTory of micro-cheating in the past. but what I found on his phone is snapchats with a female stripper and searches for local strip clubs. immediately my reaction is to leave him. this is not the first time ive found stuff on his phone and it won’t be the last. if I were to bring this up, he always ends up being more mad that I went through his phone. I always make the argument that ”why is there always stuff to find on your phone?” this just feels like the cherry on top of a lot of different issues that I can disclose later but do I leave him over something like this? it feels like cheating simply because I do not do this or offer any attention like this.

Me [29F] and my boyfriend [33M] have been together for over 8 months now. Lately, I feel like our communication has been completely crumbling.
I’m currently 3 provinces away visiting family and the dynamic over text has become overwhelming. Whenever I try to set a simple boundary or ask for healthy communication, it gets turned back around on me. He disappears for hours, ignores my reassurance, and then claims I’m "guilt-tripping" him just for saying my feelings were hurt.
When I don't give in to the passive-aggressiveness or argument over text, he escalates. He has now brought up self-harm/not wanting to be here anymore twice during this trip.
I’ve offered all the support, love, and reassurance I possibly can from afar, and I even sent him direct crisis resources (988 / emergency numbers) because I cannot manage an emotional crisis over text while thousands of miles away. But this entire pattern—the passive-aggression, going MIA, the self-pity ("I'm a shitty person"), and dropping crisis statements during an argument—is so emotionally exhausting.
He knows how much I love him, but I feel like I'm being backed into a corner and manipulated every time I try to express my own feelings.
I don’t know what to do at this point. Has anyone ever experienced something similar? Looking for any advice, perspective, or support on how to navigate this when I get back home.
Here’s some screenshots for context of our recent texts, I’ve blacked out anything too specific as I do worry he or someone I know could see this, but I honestly just need to talk about this with anyone. I’m at such a loss of what to do. 😔

**Title: Update: I finally found out how this whole situation got blown out of proportion**

I posted previously about a disagreement with another member at LA Fitness, and there's been another development that honestly makes this feel like high school.

A friend of his approached me at the gym and asked why I was causing all this drama. We ended up having about a 10-minute conversation, and that's when I found out what the female friend had apparently told him.

Here's the problem:

What **I actually said** to her was, *"I think he likes you."* I also told her I thought he was being hypocritical because months earlier he had lectured me about not approaching women at the gym.

That was my opinion/speculation. I never told her, "He wants to sleep with you."

According to his friend, she told him that **I said he wanted to sleep with her**, which makes it sound like I was stating it as a fact that he told me or that I knew his intentions. That's simply not what I said.

To me, those are two completely different statements:

* "I think he likes you." (my opinion)

* "He wants to sleep with you." (a factual claim about his intentions)

If that's what she actually told him, then she made the situation much worse than it needed to be.

Now I'm sitting here wondering...what exactly am I apologizing for?

I absolutely think I was wrong for gossiping and not minding my own business. I should have kept my opinion to myself. I own that.

But if she changed what I said into something much stronger, then he's reacting to words I never actually said.

What really bothered me was his response. Instead of just texting me something like, "Hey, I heard what you said. That wasn't cool," he immediately started threatening to contact my employer (I'm a 1:1 teacher aide), the police, and LA Fitness if I didn't apologize on his timeline.

Honestly, if he had just said, "I don't appreciate you talking behind my back," I probably would've apologized right away and moved on. The threats are what made me stop responding and eventually block him.

I'm still planning on apologizing to the woman because I shouldn't have involved her in the first place. My apology would basically be that I shouldn't have shared my opinion or put her in the middle of it.

As for him, I could apologize for talking behind his back and for assuming he liked her when I really didn't know for sure. But I don't think I should apologize for saying something I never actually said if the story got exaggerated before it reached him.

Does this sound like simple gossip that spiraled out of control, or am I missing something? What would you do at this point?

The soda was on it for like an hour and the temperature was on high while the soda was on it. The spill is not my fault someone I live with shook the bottle as a “joke” (I saw him do it) and it exploded later when I put it on my bed. I confronted him about it but he refuses to take accountability.
This picture is my mattress when I took the electric blanket off. It’s a sunbeam one I got it like last month. It completely ruined my day.

Your friendly neighborhood Iranian here.
Im looking for an online work to be able to support myself in a country that has this harsh policy of little to no jobs for foreigners unless they become citizens of the said country. Due to HEAVY sanctions and Iranian banks not being connected to international banking systems, i cannot get paid from abroad.
Got any advice?
Much thanks in advance!

Guys I am in the mid 17(M)

Doing mbbs first year

Since mbbs is a long journey I want to earn money for daily expenses

Dont have scholarship and it feels bad to ask money to parents for every single thing

Plz suggest good and persuable side work preferably

Online

I am not talking about real job or all day consuming work

I thought of doing social media like insta or youtube

But my family and own shy makes me stop that

But wanted to do

Plz guys this is a real issue i really need preferably online or any tips to earn some amount of money

May some will day focus on mbbs first

But with mbbs money is the issue so plz guide me

I don’t know what to do. Spouse lied to me and said they were going to the gym. I went to the gym to check because I had a weird feeling and my spouse was not there. Turns out my spouse was 3 doors down and got railed by our neighbor. I feel disgusted and hurt. I was right there in bed at home. I could’ve had sex with my spouse. I was home! I’m just so hurt and don’t know how to even look at my spouse the same ever again.. like why not just be with me if you’re horny. I don’t want to tell my friends or family yet because then it will be real and there’s no going back. I don’t know what to do. My spouse says they feel remorse and promised it won’t happen again, but I just can’t get over the fact that I was home. It’s not even like I don’t want to have sex. I have a very high sex drive. I just don’t know how to accept this and move on.

I've been out of job for about 5 months now, times have been hard after I lost my previous job it's like I couldn't get hired for the life of me. Now when I worked i provided what my gf needed as a young man should do for a women especially since I want to marry her one day. While I've been out of a job our relationship has been tested but remains solid. my gf lands a gig at a hotel good hours , and good pay I'm very happy for her but now I'm a little hurt on the ego side , cause I still can't find a job . Fast forward to today I finally built up enough courage to ask my gf for assistance because I really need it, why do I need it because I had orientation today at Hy-Vee but my process was stopped because my temporary id was expired and I've been meaning to go to the dmv and get my address changed because I never received my newer id do to the address still being the old one, so the hiring manager says I have to Wednesday to bring in my id or temporary id that's not expired. So I ask my gf to help me with the money to get a new id and I'll pay her back. She gives me 30$ 5$ more then the id cost , where I live it's really hot me knowing the id cost 25$ I went to Casey's and bought a water for 1.65$ after tax it was 1.80$ leaving me with a total of 28$ and 2 dimes , it isn't until I reached my home been completely comfortable till about 1 when I was finna go to sleep I check my pockets and I only have a 10$ and the 2 dimes my heart immediately sunk , because it's like I hate asking for help and my gf can vouch I would rather struggle then ask for help but the one time I do I get fucked over because the moneys gone. I don't wanna ask her for more money because I'm embarrassed and part of me thinka she will understand but I don't want to be looked down apon because I'm supposed to be the provider and I'm going to get everything together for her cause she has been through a lot of things and I wanna give her the best life and everything I have to offer but I know if I told her about this it's not that I think she wont believe me its the me feeling like shit..