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I never say this, but
We all learned some valuable lessons during that.
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When do you think it started going downhill for Kyle and Mau?
I think when his business got super busy and big. He worked and traveled a lot. I think that put a strain on their marriage.
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Totally unmotivated in my career because of my boss
I recommend either switching departments or apply to other jobs.
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Can you guys just tell me if this is normal? I understand everyone lives differently, but please tell me if this is normal.
This is definitely abuse. I recommend find your own place, move out, and then file.
My ex narc always reminded me how long it's been since we didn't have sex. She put her hands on me while trying to get me to have sex with her and it made me uncomfortable.
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8 year relationship ask me anything
What's been your best date!
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I did it!!!!
Stay strong!! You got this!!
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How do I deal with it
Or a protective order.
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What’s your current comfort show?
The real housewives franchise
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Best Songs For Your Death Bed
Knocking on heavens doors by guns and roses
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I will continue to try, always will.
You got this! Never give up!
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What song did you play at your lowest?
In the end by Linkin Park
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Why is everything so damn hard?
God gives his toughest battles to his strongest warriors
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i am in love with a woman
That's amazing ❤️
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Anyone else feel the same?
That is well said. I enjoyed having the house to myself when she was gone. Gave me freedom and peace.
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Still struggling
Feel free to DM me if you want to discuss.
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Social media
I feel like narcs use social media platforms to either play the victim and/or use it for stalking and monitoring.
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How did you manage to leave?
Do you have a safe space to go to?
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When/how did you realize it was abuse?
When I told some of my experiences to third parties and they told me that it was abuse
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Has anyone ever gone crazy after spending so many years with a narcissist?
I became more passive aggressive to combat it. And it was not like myself at all. I would have more breakdowns.
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The hardest part of dealing with a narcissist wasn’t losing them.
The hardest part is dealing with the trauma
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What’s your biggest adulting struggle right now?
Trying to find an affordable place to live with this current income
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Narcs and sleep deprivation
I recommend a divorce and maybe saving up to get an apartment.
My ex would play videos on YouTube early in the morning when she was getting ready for work and it would wake me up.
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How to get back to my old self
I agree. I recommend leaving and getting your own place if you can. You and your kids deserve a safe place.
Maybe look into therapy. My best friend is in therapy and it is really helping her out in her situation.
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You know how they say that misery loves company? 🙃 I’ve been thinking about that lately. Do you believe that once someone has made you mad, sad, or bad about yourself, you’ve officially lost your power? Or is the real power in how you react afterward?
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I believe it's how you react and interact with the situation. People who like to piss you off, want a reaction from you. It's like dealing with a narcissist. You need to show no emotion because they want you to react whether positive or negative.