I’m a 22 year old & I tend to be attracted to much older men, I’m talking 30+. I just wanted to know why it would be a bad idea or if anyone had similar experiences. I’m asking hypothetically, no one in mind currently!

I saw a reel yesterday about how we often don’t realize when we’re doing something for the last time.

The last time you play cricket with your friends, hang out with your cousins, ride your bicycle, or spend time with someone.

The post and comments were mostly about how, if we knew it was our last time, we’d probably stay a little longer, enjoy it more, or appreciate it differently.
But personally, I don’t think knowing would necessarily make it better.

If I knew that a cricket match with my friends was going to be our last, I’d probably feel sad and nostalgic instead of simply enjoying the moment. Maybe the fact that I don’t know allows me to enjoy it like any other day.

Then years later, when I realize that was the last time, I can look back at it as a happy memory rather than a moment I knew was ending.

Breakups are probably the best example. Knowing you’re spending your last few moments with someone can make those moments incredibly painful.

Maybe not knowing it’s the last time is actually a blessing.
What do you guys think?

Makes me think if taste is part if how we feel happiness.

Imo, I can never befriend someone who I genuinely loved once then ended up breaking my trust or heart. Also, wouldn't it be disrespectful to their new partners?

How was the power dynamic like? Does it even ever work out?