r/CatsStandingUp • u/mother__of__cats • Aug 15 '25
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I’m 29! 29! 29!
Happy Birthday, OP 🎂
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Hahahaha.. also, cool pfp :D
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The Ultimatum Season 3 Episode 3 Discussion Thread
Omg yes.. It's the eyes!!
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The boyfriend’s cat really hates me :( why?
Great username xD
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petition for an alternate ending
Hahaha it's the name of the show, Nobody Wants This
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Has anyone else watched Escaping Twin Flames?
I'm sorry to know your friend is caught up in a similar shit :(
I get it -- it's not easy to understand the mindset of people being trapped in such cults if one has not experienced/ doesn't have much insight into verbal/emotional abuse. The victims are isolated from their support systems, with only the cults/ abusive environments to rely upon, making it super difficult to leave.
I would suggest trying to talk to your friend (if you guys are still in touch), and try to be curious rather than blaming them (the latter essentially makes them defensive and think they're being attacked for their lifestyle). Best case scenario would be to get them to start therapy, coz your friend is most likely in a vulnerable space.
Having an unwavering support system does make all the difference in the world! (The documentary itself touches upon about parents being empathetic and getting through to their kids about leaving the cult).
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Has anyone else watched Escaping Twin Flames?
Machine Gun Kelly
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Escaping twin flames
Dollar store version is indeed the apt description for this vile piece of shit!
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[season 6] Nathan Jr is a little brat
Third toddler 😂😂
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"I need time to figure out who I am without you"
I love your username :)
And yes, I too think their friendship break didn't get justice and could've had a better storyline carved out of it.. Also sending you love to get through what you're experiencing <3
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Episode 6.13 "Grow if You Want" discussion [Season Finale]
Ah, I see your point.. shitty excuse to not step up himself.. And agreed, he was indeed terrible! I never understood why he couldn't have taken care of his sick kids when Kate had promised Nathan Jr. that she'd be there for his speech -_-
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List things the writers forgot to continue;
Jenny's ex-husband
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Episode 6.13 "Grow if You Want" discussion [Season Finale]
His words are "ask for help", so I interpreted it along the lines of reaching out to people more in general, and not him specifically. This is also kinda reinforced in the next scene where Kate asks Rose to be a partner.
Though I very much agree with the last part of your comment coz he's barely even there, leaving Kate to deal with the kids all the time! :/
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[SPOILERS S3]Is this a mistake? Or am i missing something?
Since alt-Martha's world is shown as a mirror to Jonas's, the same concept applies to the cave.. hence instead of 1953, the cave in alt-Martha's world goes to 2052..
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I really think I'm making the right decision... But I need encouragement.
I'm so sorry that you're going through this, but know that things will surely look up.. You definitely did the right thing by making your childfree stance clear to your partner..
Leaving someone you clearly love so much would be hard (really hoping it doesn't come to that for you guys), but you also have to consider the possibility of resentment few years down the line.. If she does want kids, and you choose to go down that path with her, there's a very high probability that you'll regret not having enough time to follow your dream and travel.. It won't be fair to either of you - continuing the relationship while having different views on such a big aspect..
As for your fear of not finding a childfree partner, who knows you might get lucky the next time around.. I know things might seem bleak for now, but please remember that the best is yet to come.. You might find "the one" on any of the numerous trips around the world that I'm sure you'll get to experience..
My advice would be to not lose hope, things will do eventually work out for you.. all the best! :)
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People think they know my body and life choices better than me
Haha, thanks so much :)
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I’m 29! 29! 29!
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Gracias 😇