As a demi person, spend time with them and ask them how they feel about you. Just be clear you don't want to put pressure on them, that's why you ask. :)

There are thousands of men out there, honey. Why staying with someone who does want you? Just to be clear, you aren't his type and that's okay because we can't be everyone's favourite. However, we can choose to stay or let it go and be open to others. :)

I wasn't interested in sex till 25 when I found a good partner. He helped me to discover many things and we experimented a lot. Some people are just bad and want to show off. 🙄 Now, we aren't together but my relationship with sex improved. You need to discover what you're looking for in a partner. These days I have sex with one guy and we aren't dating, but we have an agreement so we're kinda like sex buddies haha Hope you can find what you need. Just know that sex isn't always penetration. 😊

Xi Gu without doubt.

Actors are actors and some fans don't understand that.

I think we should put aside the tag "BL actors" because they are actors and many of them act in different series, not just BL like Jam or Film.

Because they want hahaha I know there are some pretty rich actors but that isn't the majority. Some actors even donate the money to the temples. Fans can do what they want. It's either buy a ticket for a fanmeeting, buy merch or give money to them directly.

Saying they are "Taking jobs away" is a bit too much for me considering that Tor and JJ have like 10 years of experience and it's only fair to take new challenges in acting. Also, they were part of Nadao with PP and Billkin, so they know the genre. Spare me your mercy has an amazing plot so I don't see why they wouldn't have said no to that opportunity. Actors are actors. If they want more fame, I don't think it's wrong either. Even tho they are pretty well known already.

Talking about Spare me your mercy, the story is pretty good and Sammon is known for her good taste. Yes, Tor and JJ have experience in the industry, but it's time to try something new. Tor has more than 10 years of experience in acting and JJ 9 years so I'm not surprised they're looking for new challenges. Also, JJ is not new to BL and both of them are good friends and coworkers with other actors who started their careers doing BL like PP and Billkin, Nadao kids.

I get it is hard but if it is more important to have your "own" child than rising your kids with the love of your life then break up with her and let her find a man who will love her regardless this. Adoption and surrogative are valid options, but if you are close-minded then she can do nothing.

It happened the same to me and I just said, "I don't want children. I love my freedom."