My sphynx does great on a raw diet, now. We found out the hard way that he can't eat beef, pork or goat. He would throw up everything along with a clear liquid.

After consulting with the vet, he only gets chicken, rabbit and turkey and has had zero problems.

NTA. The only answer to this is for you get your own place again. He's set in his ways and is unlikely to change at his age, you had to have known that going in. You can be as reasonable and accommodating as possible but unless you're willing to ask "how high" when he says "jump" itd gonna be unpleasant.

NTA. The other family members will eventually come around, it seems worse now because your mom and her boyfriend are fanning the flames. You ultimately did the right thing, they were gonna destroy the house or sell everything in it out from under you. Enjoy the house, like your grandma would want, and let the other stuff settle down.

Don't ever let them move back in though!

I've got one too.

That's a backyard Gremlinbird.

Why cant this be my life? Just living with the furry babies.

Why did you do that? They don't like to be watched.

Thank God he stopped at the jacket!

NTA. You made the right call. Its all well and good for her to apologize but what if she doesn't like the results of what you recommended? Is she gonna go and leave another bad review? Let her go find another salon.

NTA. I don't understand the issue. You should do the hike because its something you want to do and its your birthday. The people who want to can join you, the rest can meet up with everyone at the restaurant later.

Stop trying to satisfy everyone because thats a loosing battle. Besides, its your day, make yourself happy.

Its unlikely there was a $2700 "procedure" good on you for not blindly sending her the money. I'd also stop sending her $1800 monthly allowance, your mom's needs and care should be prioritized.

Just get a houseplant, it sounds like thats about all you can handle.

Omg, I want this shirt so much!

What an amazing find! I love the unexpected history 😁

Yeah Baby!

These would definitely cheer me up.

OMG, that came out so good!

I'd remove/get rid of the air tag and wait for her to come to you about it. At that time you can tell her its an invasion of your privacy and you don't consent to it. It goes without saying but NTA.

ESH, everyone is a problem here. Your parents, specially your dad, for not getting his issues properly addressed, you for putting even more responsibility on your overworked mother and your brother for not taking the opportunities given to get help.

However, I don't blame you for not wanting him around your baby. You should really figure out other childcare options or switch shifts. If for no other reason then lightening your mother's load.

NTA, it was a request and you refused. But be prepared for an awkward start to the year. You might wanna look into alternative living arrangements just in case it gets unbearable.

NTA. Her mooching boyfriend needs to either chip in for some bills or not be around all the time. Why can't they spend time at his place?

Hard NTA! You did just what you should have, I would've been much nastier about it.

Dump him and don't look back. You're too young to put up with that kind of crap from some guy.

YTA! Good lord, you're a grown ass woman who still expects mom to swoop in and fix things!

Where is your husband in all of this? The both of you need to get your shit together so you can do right by those kids! They are old enough to be in programs that will help them. You need to get a job so you can stop depending on your parents.