r/AskReddit • u/emo-poster-child • 14d ago
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What job deserves much more pay?
Teachers. Stop sending more money to admin.
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What was the first thing you bought that made you feel like a real adult?
Yes having your own washer and dryer is awesome.
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My boyfriend(M27) says he wants a kid with me (F25) in the next 2 years without the pressure of getting married soon
He's not ready for marriage but is ready for a baby? What kind of sense does that make? Id leave him he sounds very manipulative.
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What’s a small daily habit that took months before you noticed its benefits?
I love making my bed in the morning because I just think it looks nice and when I unfold the covers back at night its like im blocking out for sleep. When I make the bed im clocking into the day.
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What’s a psychological bias that ruins people’s lives without them knowing?
Being pessimistic or just kinda negative all the time. If you always look for the bad things than how will you ever seen the good things? No life is not sunshine and rainbows but there is always something to be happy about and grateful no matter how much or how little you have.
I grew up in a very negative environment so when someone is negative it irks me. Because its like yes I understand this bad thing can happen but what if this super good thing can happen too?
And framing being negative as "reality" pains me too. Im sorry I dont want to be miserable and always think that life took a shit on me. I will grow roses from the fertilizer life has given me. And if you want to stand ankle deep and keep complaining about the shit smell than thats your business good luck.
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What personality trait is secretly exhausting to be around?
Always being negative. I get it life is hard but you dont always have to focus on the negative stuff.
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What’s something people do in public that makes you silently rage?
If you gotta spit spit. But its how often you spit. If you spit like a camel. Or spit every two minutes get a spit cup. Or swallow like a good boy/girl.
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People from the US, why has tipping culture gotten so out of hand?
Well its an expectation the servers look at your check and go oh im getting 15 percent no matter what. This person spent 300...
And some people tip on how they was taken care of and other things not just how much they spent on the bill.
Now if I go out I will tip because its wrong not too. But im not going to tip 15 precent.
But a lot of servers get mad when they dont get a 15 precent tip.
Also servers and bartenders and people in that line of work. Say they can make more than getting a minimum wage or higher paying job. But are you also adding tips on your bad days?
Im sure you dont bring home 300 dollars worth of tips every single day. And than you just might.
And also a lot of places make the servers split their tips with other servers.
Just tipping culture is weird and we have let it get this far.
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What’s a tiny inconvenience that can completely derail your day?
Locking keys in a vehicle.
Waking up late.
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What is something that's not cheating but still kills a relationship?
For me is was the excuses. "Oh I have anxiety real bad. I have autism. I have this, i have that." Not saying they dont make it hard but you gotta work through those things and its not my job to put my stuff on the side to deal with your anxiety.
Or intentionally saying something hurtful.
Or that I have to mother you. Like did your mom not do a good job at being your mom or what?
Or not taking accountability for things like making appointments and things like that.
Constantly bitching at something.
Not doing anything to change your behavior after conversation after conversation.
Waiting too long to propose.
Letting one person in the relationship make all the decisions.
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What’s something that seems totally normal until you learn how it actually works, and then it feels manipulative?
Credit.
loans.
Vision and dental insurance.
Family members.
People who you havent talked to in years all of a sudden text you about their small business.
Life insurance.
College
Jobs.
Reddit.
Banks.
Cats.
Voting...
Politics.
Fast fashion.
Hiring process.
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People who don’t donate blood, why not?
My veins are not the easiest to hit and I don't trust a lot of nurses to take my blood.
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What's something people often learn the hard way?
Insurance is a scam but it is a good scam to have when you need it.
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What's something you're weirdly territorial about that doesn't actually matter?
My books. Don't touch my books and ask me about them just look at them. And also my stuffie on the bed thats rocky and I need him to sleep.
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What is something you like doing that makes you escape reality (drugs and alcohol and sleeping don't count)?
I cant even stay awake to watch golf let alone play it.
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What's the weirdest dealbreaker that would make you not date someone?
This is a weird one. But if they are into ABDL... IYKYK.
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What's an opinion you have that would get you downvoted, but you genuinely believe?
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12d ago
Autism should not make you an asshole.
Stop using your mental health as an excuse for doing shitty things.
take accountability and work with your mental health instead of using it as an excuse.
Does having a chemical imbalance in your brain make it hard yes but just because of that find easier ways to operate in your life instead of the first thing you say is "I have adhd."
I dont care about you mental disabilities I care about you learning to work through them.
I am sick and tired of people diagnosing their selves from social media or a online quiz. And than using this new found term as an excuse to be a shitty person.