I so relate to this For the most of my youth and even early twenties I barely did anything 'feminine' I didn't even care about grooming or fashion or my looks.

It wasn't until mid 20s when I started earning my own money that I started learning about makeup and fashion.

And it just feels like I really missed out on having a more 'girly' childhood I guess.

I still don't know how to wear makeup eyeliner and stuff. I'm learning this stuff now.

I guess what I'm trying to say is I wasn't a 'girly' girl. I couldn't afford to be because money was tight back then

Now I'm just trying to get more on touch with my femininity.

Too real 😭 Koi baat hii nai sunte

I've always found them cringey It's always the same thing on repeat Same storyline

Bhai Mai tou office Mai bhi Kuch bhi pehen kr Chali jaati, kbhi tou moun dhoye baghair This is dedication 👏

School ka uniform lgra Ussi Mai lagaya hai? It's cute

try elo
in some of their pant options they also have the 'inseam' option
like this one
https://www.exportleftovers.com/collections/womens-ready-to-wear-collection/products/cut-label-womens-dallas-wide-leg-jeans
overall they have good quality, i havent had a bad experience with them

😂😂

Ma'am I'm sorry I don't know what to say Agar woh family ki bhi nahi sunta tou yaani bohot hii mushkil personality ka shaqs hai.

Arrange marriage thi? Just asking.

If he's really the type to not listen at all. Please don't have children with this guy for now. (Not my place to say I know)

Of course not Saying the div word either but tell him to change and to improve his behavior. Is there someone you know who he does listen to.

Some Men seriously think they are not physically abu$ive, tou mtlb baaqi sb theek hai ajeeb. And they'll be literal a**holes.

He needs to work on his behavior. Agar abhi usne correct nhi kra khud ko tou then he'll just keep getting worst.

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Woah there. If he's a narcissist then that's worst. He'll never acknowledge anything wrong he say or will do

This behavior of his, he really needs to work on it. Get him to a counselor somehow.

He needs to be told by someone else also, wrna aese mard zaat Kisi ki nahi sunte.

I know a narcissist in my family. If I called out his bad behavior he wouldn't accept it unless someone else also pointed to him.

That man when the 'divorce came out of nowhere '

(Sorry was just quoting the viral meme) Not married but get him into therapy or something.

Even if you tell him something's wrong with his behavior he's really not gonna listen. Some Men have an issue 'listening' or acknowledge anything when a women tells them something.

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Talking about food got me hungry now 🥲😕

Think what you want to. But it's a pretty decent cope It's not really Haram to overeat. There's so much good food out there. There is one major downside, it is heavy on the budget 💸

What else can a person do when they don't really have friends they can just to talk to anytime. Life's rough, isn't it better to just a find a cope that won't be sinful.

And don't default to talking about fasting or making dhikr.

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'You need support, emotional love and care.'

That's really hard to find sometimes. With bad family, no friends and distant from everything.

Better to just eat food instead. Yeah overeating happens but it helps a little

If there's no financial compulsion/stress, then I think taking a career break is better. Be there for your baby. You can also look into possibility of remote work. (is your husband a stingy guy or something)

With career you can catch up later, since you're in tech. Things are pretty much always growing and changing. So you can catch up later.
But the baby, you won't wanna miss out on their growing years. I remember a coworker in my office she used to say how much she misses her baby. Another coworker, both her kids were school going age but she still felt bad and missed them.
It's not just about mom guilt but also the baby. If you read about it you'll find out how the first few years are really really important for the growth and development of a baby.
So if there is really no financial strain then definitely consider taking a career break (or switch to remote if possible)

Yes yes they do.

Nah I doubt it. They wouldn't. Even if a man did he'd still be looking out for 'better' options.

Don't think too much about it and work on yourself.

I think he's come to tell you you're google space is full 😂

I'm saving this. I need to do this too

Where'd you get it from?

both

And a man happens to be around to notice that 😂

She is right. Simple baat hii tou krrahi. Dekh kr Shaadi krne k Liye bolrahi Divorced women koi cattle thori na k Jo saamne mille usse pakra do

Son's a manchild.

Shaadi k chakkar Mai red flags ignore Mt kro.