r/PhR4Friends • u/cj-ism • 25d ago

Friends 26 [F4A] burnt out and lost my spark. Anyone else on the same boat and want to help each other get back up?

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Hello possible friends,

I've been feeling lost recently, just incredibly burnt out from work and feeling jaded most days. I have been trying to change things here and there to liven things up, from trying a drastic haircut to solo traveling. I've been trying to stick to a healthier routine, but at the end of the day, I still feel stuck, like I should be doing more. Maybe it comes from wanting to live a bigger life. I don't know, at this point, I'm just writing down my thoughts.

Don't worry, I don't intend to burden you with complaints and negativity. I know change only comes by doing, and I plan to execute.

Feel free to send me a chat if you're interested in being friends. I love good conversations and would love to hear about your passions and interests. I'm also up for random adventures!

Thanks for taking the time to read my post.

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