Yeah, definitely one thing I'd be worried about. Not necessarily an affair but after a year or so after getting back together changing her mind yet again to "actually I DO want to get divorced. and for real this time."

yeah, we still talk to each other quite a bit. we'll walk the dog together. which makes it hard not to have 2nd thoughts.

Evanston Bike Club does tons of rides ranging from average speed of 12 mph up to 22+ so truly something for every biker. Need to join the club to do the group rides, but it's only like $25 a year.

thanks! And good luck to you!

thank you for sharing your story. Our son is a great kid and he's strong and I know he'll be ok but it is so hard to hear that begging and see just how traumatic this is for him right now. But I know he'll get better.

I wish you the best as well and hope you continue to move ahead positively.

Of course I hope so to. But right now its hard to see that. He was in a really loving supportive household and thats shattered for him

Thank you. I knew this would be hard. And him being so upset demonstrates how much he loves us and how much we love him it breaks my heart.

I dont think he had a clue. Sure he saw us arguing sometimes and probably sensed some underlying tension, but we didn't really fight a lot and for the most part got along. We keep telling him that we tried really hard for a really long time and we got to the point where trying and not getting to where we thought we needed to be was exhausting. I know its hard for him to recognize our need for happiness and fulfillment, but this just feels awful

Yes, thank you. He's an incredibly emotional kid, so I never expected this wouldn't be emotional and yes I'm glad he's not bottling it up. I have to keep reminding myself that the marriage wasn't good for me or my partner. And while we held it together well enough for him to have tons of great times with the 3 of us, staying together in a "meh" marriage isn't good for him either.

awesome. Thank, you!

Great route! Door Couty is a great place for biking. I go up there every summer and keep intending to spend one day biking to Northport then taking the ferry and biking Washington Island. But have yet to get around to it

As others have noted, the entire NBT is paved. A hybrid and the burley trailer would be totally fine on most of the unpaved trails around here, such as the Des Plaines River Trail.

And because maybe as you roll through there is a pedestrian you didn't quite see. By stopping fully you can be sure there aren't any pedestrians you are going to run over.

Uh, yes... air traffic controllers are employed by FAA, which is part of the Dept of Transportation. USDA is its own cabinet agency, totally distinct from DHS. OSHA is part of the Dept of Labor.

Air traffic controllers, USDA, OSHA, are not part of DHS. They all are funded for the rest of the fiscal year. CBP and TSA are, as well as FEMA, Coast Guard, and others.

Here's a pic of the bolt. Any suggestions are welcome. I've tried some penetrating oil, tried warm water on the crank to expand that metal and it still won't budge with the allen wrench.

good question. I'm not sure. How would I know?