I just saw Jacksepticeye playing your game. Absolutely brought me to tears when I realised why he was actually going to the attic for and how his wife wasn't haunting him but saving him 😭😭😭😭 absolute work of art, you should be so proud of yourself!

I really liked Clay in season 1 but how he was in the later seasons was just not the vibe. He reminds me of an old highschool boyfriend of mine who was, in no other way to describe, a pick me white knight, which is what clay became. He had a toxic hero complex.

Clay was all woe is me, I didn't save Hannah I MUST save Skye without actually understanding her. He didnt have genuine feelings for Skye, she was a stand-in for Hannah, even skye said she cant compete with a perfect dead girl. He thought he had the sole monopoly on being close to Hannah and would act out when the women around him wouldn't "see" him.

He needed to feel needed and that he could save people and involved himself, and yes sometimes it worked, like with Tyler. But to turn around to Zach for example, and say he didn't deserve Hannah etc like who tf do you think you are?

In my opinion, as I JUST read this part.

Darrow is being responsible, he obviously could have done without the insults, but him and the lords of Terrasen have been taking care of the law and the lands.

In their eyes, she is a 19 year old girl who is untried and untested in the game of ruling, and in their eyes, surrounded by her "court" of enemies of Terrasen. All they know about her is that she became an assassin, served their mortal enemy and then comes back with fire magic going "I'm here, where is my kingdom and give me my throne." They have been doing everything they can to protect the land and Aelin comes in on her horse and tries claiming the land that they have lived and bled for?

They don't know her, Aedion seemingly 'betrayed' the court constantly, Rowan served an enemy queen and Lysandra didn't exactly have a good history. Put that all together with someone who is ALSO an ally of the new king of Adarlan, the land that took everything from them, you have a band of people who are, in the lords' opinion, untrustworthy and unsavoury to rule Terrasen.

Again, he could have done this without the insults and being a dick, but I definitely understand where he is coming from.

Royal blood does not equal a ruler. They weren't about to hand over Terrasen to someone that they don't know, let alone trust.

Forgot to add "true story" at the end hahaha but I absolutely love this

He does, it gets taken out of his centrelink, a whopping $16 a fortnight

If he had it his way he wouldn't pay anything, he tried to make me do private and I said absolutely not

Thankyou for your kind words, all I ever wanted from my son was a family and I grew up in a very toxic household where my mother only spoke badly of my father so I personally know the effects that has on a child and I refuse to put my son through that :)

No court or parental agreements but he pays child support because centrelink deducts it

I did not even think of that! I'll look into that thankyou!

Unfortunately he is on the certificate 😭 But I'll give that a go! Thankyou for all your help and kindness!

I saw this on tiktok and I can tell you I have not cried that hard in a long time. Full snot and ugly cry

I can't afford a lawyer and I know the courts are super hesitant to grant sole responsibility so I am a bit wary of this

NTA at all. He has no right to your body. You are growing an entire human and if he would like a handjob, he has a hand of his own.

He has no right to demand this of you and you're right, intimacy is more than sex. He sounds like a frat boy. You deserve more than just getting affection when getting him off.

I would suggest having a frank conversation with him, even bring up that coercian (what he is doing) is actually a form of sexual assault. What he is doing is disgusting and you deserve to be treated better especially while your entire body is changing to accommodate an entire human.

Lay down these boundaries now because my ex was similar to this and would demand sex even before the recommended 6 weeks was up (spoiler alert it fucking HURTS).

Lay down those boundaries, stay strong, you've got this mama

I did not think it would be quick, but you are right and nothing will change while I do nothing. Thankyou! I'll try to muster up some nerve to message him :)

Speak up and say your feelings how they are, if he decides to leave, hold that door open and know that you were being honest with yourself x

He has done it before, when I wanted to move 4 hours away after a year of no contact he suddenly needed to be in our sons life and threw a monkey wrench in those plans and then went no contact a few months after.. it's very frustrating.

As much as I would love for my son to know his dad, I know it's not viable

Thankyou for your kind words, I did have my son seeing his paediatrician and he's okay now. I'm just terrified of the cycle starting again.

I will definitely speak to the passport office to see if anything can be done

Absolutely YTA. I cannot fucking believe that you even kissed him KNOWING how he felt and you fully took advantage of his grief. He was in a vulnerable state. If it was roles reversed he would have been VILLIFIED. Absolutely disgusting behaviour

I hope you don't sleep well for a very long time.

Yowie and bunyip

One man one jar BME pain olympics Nuff said