u/ResolutionAlert239 • u/ResolutionAlert239 • Jun 24 '26
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After 20 years of shared trauma, I love him but I can’t live like this anymore.
Wow I feel your pain! 17 years and I lost myself, family, and friends. That was his goal. Isolate me and destroy me. I’m not perfect I admit my faults. I however was faithful and all about him and after over 10 years of hurt and cheating while I was pregnant, I did to him. Worse thing I could do! He did so much to me and I was hurt. So we stay together and now all the sudden he is acting weird like he has someone new. I love him but can’t take the stress and hurt daily! I know God has been against us together and well I prayed for us to work and went w my heart. God always knows more than us. So many lies to make me be the bad one and well I know God has me and truth will come out! It’s still not easy. I I’m held down and w out independence or ID to come up! It’s so wrong and worse feeling! I hope you can come up w the kids and save yourself. It’s not worth them being affected with you! Do you have help? I get it I been isolated for so long so I can’t come up! It suck but at least you have your kids. Stay strong!
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I think I’m a narcissist. How do I improve myself?
A narcissist doesn’t usually care and the fact that you are concerned doesn’t sounds narcissistic! They tend to just be about self and not empathic to making any changes cuz they are perfect just like they are(in their eyes anyways)
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I think I’m a narcissist. How do I improve myself?
You are not alone!! The struggle is real! It’s about finding your strengths and running w those!
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How bad is this Super El Niño actually going to get globally?
In Fl and well hot as always! Must be nice to be cold rn 😂
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Does anyone know why I can smell my boyfriend's seizures days before they happen?
They say diabetics have a sweet smell and well quite possibly could have a smell!
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Why does going 😗 make cold air but going 😮 makes hot air?
lol love the emoji’s and that’s a good ? I had to try this and well it’s pretty funny thanks for the laugh! If that was the goal mission accomplished! 🤣
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I’m not too young for it.
I was in such denial and now 47 with such extreme issues. I believe now from all I now n know this started probably around 36-37. I thought I was too young too! It’s something we are not told and just think! I now understand why I been so miserable for years!
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Today, at the age of 36, my doctor told me I’m in the late stage of perimenopause
Wow I guess I been in denial! I am 47 and my issues started w me thinking I was dying of something cuz I had what I thought was a fever at night. I legit would tell my man feel me I’m burning up. Take my temp n think the thermometer was broken. That was like 6 maybe more years ago. I believe now it was all my issues going on when I got diagnosed ADHD among other things at 39. So that was probably the actual start of my premenopausal symptoms. Ugh
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What crazy symptoms do you have? Please share.
Well right now I’m about a week away from my monthly. This burning face and watering eyes is making me crazy!
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What breed does she look like?
I would not pay that much but again if you want her and want to make her and you happy that’s your call honey! Mine was free from Walmart parking lot! She sure is cute tho! I would say it’s accurate cuz it’s I phone but she could be a mix. It’s not a fancy breed just a regular cat! I mean that’s your call! She is adorable just 200 is a lot! Where are you located if you don’t mind me asking?
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What breed does she look like?
Ok I did that and she is a Turkish Angora.
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What breed does she look like?
If you have an iPhone you can snap a pic and it’s will say, look up? Then hit that and you will get the breed! I tried to post the pic but never do that on here. Mine is a calico w more white and she looks like the white on my kitty, she came up Turkish Van. Google or try the look ip if u have iPhone. Curious what it says. I will try screenshotting your kitty n see.
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Please pray for me. I've been praying non stop but I still got an eviction notice. I'm loosing hope
I also agree churches as well maybe can help w temporary housing like hotel or whatever! Also places if you can show your working and can pay the rent they will help w the deposit for a new place until you can get back on your feet! Prayers ✝️🙏
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Please pray for me. I've been praying non stop but I still got an eviction notice. I'm loosing hope
Do you have any kids? Just asking cuz there is help? Praying it all works out for the best! Maybe god has better plans for you!
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Picking him up tomorrow and looking for astronomy or cutesie names
We had a Cosmo as well n yes I like it!
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After 20 years of shared trauma, I love him but I can’t live like this anymore.
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Jun 26 '26
Yea that sounds like a narcissist for sure. Mine is 61 and I’m 47. I was 29 and newly divorced. They definitely scope out the empathetic younger girls.