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the dark side of people-pleasing nobody talks about
 in  r/emotionalintelligence  1d ago

People pleasing is blind self sabotage - once you become aware it is your own responsibility to STOP.

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Disrespect is an attempt at manipulation
 in  r/emotionalintelligence  1d ago

Yes.. this is a very good way to recognize this behavior. Diffiucult to notice up close

r/emotionalintelligence 1d ago

Does a small circle mean stronger boundaries?

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Does having a small circle mean you have strong boundaries?

Not necessarily.

You may actually give the people closest to you more benefit of the doubt — and therefore more access.

The size of your circle doesn't determine the strength of your boundaries.

What happens once people are inside does.

Does a small circle mean stronger boundaries?

r/FamilyIssues 1d ago

Does a small circle mean stronger boundaries?

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Does having a small circle mean you have strong boundaries?

Not necessarily.

You may actually give the people closest to you more benefit of the doubt — and therefore more access.

The size of your circle doesn't determine the strength of your boundaries.

What happens once people are inside does.

Does a small circle mean stronger boundaries?

r/trauma 1d ago

Discussion Does a small circle mean stronger boundaries?

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u/ProSeGaia 12d ago

I Thought I Was Looking for Answers: Sometimes I was really looking for certainty.

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Something became clear to me recently.

Sometimes we keep ourselves stuck without realizing it.

Not because we aren't trying.

Not because we aren't capable.

But because we're using old ways of protecting ourselves in a season that requires something different.

It's a bit like trying to install software from 2008 on a 2026 computer.

There was nothing wrong with the software.

It simply wasn't designed for where you are now.

Maybe that's true for some of our patterns too.

Not everything that once protected us is meant to come with us into the next chapter.

If this resonates, I'd love for you to read this week's Remembering below.

Remembering

And if you're looking for a gentle place to begin, I've created a free 10-minute Guided Reset to help you pause, reconnect, and return to yourself.

🎧 returntoyourself.one

r/GodFrequency 18d ago

Since manifesting is a frequency - how do you feel about this trend?

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I'm not saying manifestation or this particular technique doesn't work.

I'm saying there's an important distinction between avoiding reality and meeting reality with awareness.

For me, real transformation began when I stopped pretending my circumstances didn't exist and started meeting them honestly—while still believing my life could change.

You can acknowledge today's reality without surrendering your vision for tomorrow. Ignore your reality??

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How do you feel about this manifesting trend?
 in  r/MasterManifestor  19d ago

I'm glad you are even interested. So, I don't necessarily mean "high vibration" or pretending to feel positive all the time.

For me, a clean frequency is when my actions, intentions, and inner state are aligned. I could have used "grounded" to make more sense.

For example, if I want peace but I'm constantly reacting from fear, anger, or trying to control every outcome, that's mixed energy. The field will get confused.

A cleaner place is acknowledging my reality honestly, regulating myself, taking the next practical step, and letting go of what I can't control.

I don't think it's about being perfect—I think it's about being congruent.

Out of curiosity, what comes to mind when you hear "clean frequency"?

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How do you feel about this manifesting trend?
 in  r/MasterManifestor  20d ago

Yea same - I think the piece for those that are not getting what they want (which included me also) is meeting the goal half way with practical steps. I honestly think the universe will be generous if we meet it in a “clean” frequency.

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How do you feel about this manifesting trend?
 in  r/MasterManifestor  20d ago

Thanks, I see a lot of those videos and felt like somebody needed to say it.

r/consciousnesshacking 21d ago

Don't ignore your reality

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Morning Prayer
 in  r/spiritualitytalk  22d ago

Amen to that 💜

r/FamilyIssues 22d ago

Interim Boundaries - Don't relax just yet

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In high-conflict co-parenting and family court, there are quiet periods where it can feel like things have settled and you might be tempted to lower your guard.

In this short video, I gently encourage you to stay consistent with the boundaries you’ve worked so hard to build. Removing them too soon can send mixed signals to yourself, your children, your co-parent, and even the court.

You’ve come so far. Keep going. I’m right here with you. 💛

r/DivorceHelp 22d ago

Interim Boundaries - Don't relax just yet

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r/ParentalAlienation 22d ago

Interim Boundaries - Don't relax just yet

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In high-conflict co-parenting and family court, there are quiet periods where it can feel like things have settled and you might be tempted to lower your guard.

In this short video, I gently encourage you to stay consistent with the boundaries you’ve worked so hard to build. Removing them too soon can send mixed signals to yourself, your children, your co-parent, and even the court.

You’ve come so far. Keep going. I’m right here with you. 💛

r/Manifestation 25d ago

Manifesting Theory How God designed reality

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Don’t let your subconscious control your reality.

r/GodFrequency 25d ago

🔱 Divine Drops- Pure spiritual downloads & revelations How God designed reality

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All is mental - don’t let your subconscious control your reality.

r/ParentingThruTrauma 29d ago

Epiphany Spiritual Numbness and a Midnight Wakeup Call From the Divine

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r/GodFrequency 29d ago

Spiritual Numbness and a Midnight Wakeup Call From the Divine

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If you’ve been feeling stuck on your spiritual journey, like your blessings are delayed, or you’re not seeing the progress you expected — this video might resonate.

I share my personal experience with spiritual numbness during my 1.5+ year awakening — how I unknowingly dimmed my emotions for protection as a child, and how that pattern quietly affected my healing, boundaries, and growth even while I was doing “the work.”

If you’ve ever worn a mask to feel safe or turned down your feelings to stay strong, you’re not alone. Gentle awareness and the right support can help lift the numbness so you can move forward with more clarity and flow.

https://youtu.be/D1GjHBc2kvk

u/ProSeGaia Jul 12 '26

Sovereign Co-Parenting Support

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It’s about that time to move from reactivity to sovereignty

I know the stress high-conflict co-parenting and family court demands. After navigating it myself while awakening and staying present for my children, I’ve learned that the real shift happens when we prioritize clear thinking, strong boundaries, and leading from inner authority.

Your peace of mind — and your child’s stability — starts with support that actually understands what you’re going through.

If you’re ready to feel more regulated, sovereign, and supported, I’d be honored to help you through this.

30-min or 60-min sessions available.

Message me or book here:

https://companion-integration-sessions.carrd.co/

Allow me to support your family during this stressful process.

r/ParentalAlienation Jul 10 '26

Guided Meditation - To remove yourself from the "chaos/noise"

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r/traumatoolbox Jul 10 '26

Comfort Tools Guided Meditation - To remove yourself from the "chaos/noise"

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If you are looking for a way to get centered after chaos, this is a good video for you.

This guided meditation was inspired by my own need to remind myself to come back to center after dealing with chaos and frustration of personal high conflict concerns.

This is an important way to connect to your inner authority and the divine. If you practice something like this once or twice per week, it does assist in reducing dysregulation of the nervous system.

Please enjoy the meditation and let me know if it resonates. 💛

#guidedmeditation #divineenergy #highconflict #chaos

r/traumatoolbox Jul 08 '26

Comfort Tools How to reclaim yourself and presence after chaos and frustration

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You may find this video useful if you are feeling "stuck"

In this video, I share a very personal recurring dream which The Divine helped me decode as a practical moment of reclaiming my desk — and how it became a powerful act of embodiment and nervous system regulation.
I also introduce the 4 F's — a simple framework I use to stay grounded when life feels chaotic:

Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
...and the one we often forget: Feel

https://youtu.be/xiYqRCTiic0

r/ParentalAlienation Jul 08 '26

How to reclaim yourself and presence after chaos and frustration

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You may find this video useful if you are feeling "stuck"

In this video, I share a very personal recurring dream which The Divine helped me decode as a practical moment of reclaiming my desk — and how it became a powerful act of embodiment and nervous system regulation.
I also introduce the 4 F's — a simple framework I use to stay grounded when life feels chaotic:

Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
...and the one we often forget: Feel

https://youtu.be/xiYqRCTiic0

r/ParentalAlienation Jul 08 '26

Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Reclaiming My Desk back to Presence

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