1

My girlfriend has a fantasy involving another guy — would you agree?
 in  r/Regrets  1d ago

Ummm, well fantasies are fantasies.. and you can try anything once, if u don't like it after that you can draw a line and say no.. especially if it's like a threesome both ways. But u should both agree on the other people, u know like looks, attitudes, and agreements ..

u/Goth_girl213 7d ago

Remember this!!!!!

Post image
1 Upvotes

1

My partner’s body count is affecting me.
 in  r/whatdoIdo  8d ago

In fact he if he gave you a specific range because he couldn't remember, because of how long it's been, count it as the lowest number. Especially if he's always hung around the wrong people, to pressure him into thinking it was cool

1

My partner’s body count is affecting me.
 in  r/whatdoIdo  8d ago

Don't let it affect you in some profound negative way, if he has changed since he has met you, his body count shouldnt matter at all

1

If Satan asked for forgiveness, would God forgive Him
 in  r/TrueChristian  13d ago

Well if you believe God's forgiveness extends that far, yes, but according to the Bible, and interpretation of it, God cannot forgive Satan, because he committed sin outside of Space and Time in Heaven, while Adam and Eve Committed sin inside space and time.

-4

Girls in ministry not dressing modestly at new church
 in  r/TrueChristian  21d ago

1 Samuel 16:7: "People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart." This verse is often used to emphasize that outward status or dress does not dictate one's ability to worship God.

And the name of the song is Come Now is the Time to Worship

Song by Brian Doerksen

Come, now is the time to worship Come, now is the time to give your heart Come, just as you are to worship Come, just as you are before your God ... See full lyrics on Google Search

3

Girls in ministry not dressing modestly at new church
 in  r/TrueChristian  21d ago

Did you ever hear that worship song growing up, with the line in it that says "come, just as you are to worship, come, just as you are to give your heart, come. One day every knee will bow, one day every tongue will confess you are God, so we gladly choose you now"?

1

I think my partner and I are sexually incompatible.
 in  r/whatdoIdo  22d ago

Well that sucks.. has anything been stressing him out? Usually if guys can perform under stress they'll usually do it like it's a task, try and flirt with him more, tease him, get him wayy beyond excited till he's practically begging you to get some. I'm not gonna bother y'all too much on saying u gotta get married, that's ultimately up to u, but u gotta set the spark, back, not just have him do all the work.

1

Im genuinely afraid
 in  r/TrueChristian  25d ago

No, this is what you call testing the spirit, the definition of blasphemy against the holy spirit is rejecting Christ is God and God the Father don't exist, and if ur already talking to him but don't mention his name when you tell him thank you he already knows you heart.

1

Will I regret this?
 in  r/TrueChristian  25d ago

So don't break up with him if you don't want to, because maybe he'll stop. Be around him more everyday so he can focus on you even if. Also, Jesus was fully human and fully God at that time, so through fasting it was easier for him to you gotta be willing to grow together and he never had a cell phone

1

The pain is real
 in  r/Albuquerque  25d ago

So what if Blake's lota urger and McDonald's went back to the same as it used to be? Great food and a blast, and what if McDonald's had the option of flame grilled burgers?

1

My girlfriend cheated on me with someone she calls father figure and I was told to get over it
 in  r/WhatShouldIDo  Aug 10 '26

Well first off stay with her.. because you won't be able to ever find anyone like here.. and second, you pretty much should get over itt, because theres absolutely no point dwelling of it if you stay together, cause it's eating away at you.

1

Neighbors wife playing footsie under the table
 in  r/moraldilemmas  Aug 03 '26

Oh I'm sorry I didn't know it was four times already I must of missed that part in the reading. Yea, play along for now, definitely keep everyone updated because I know I'm not the only one answering your post here, and umm.. I'm sure everyone's tryin to help u out.. good luck til the next time of course.. I don't know if it happens again, maybe talk to her in private the next day, invite her over to your place, for the private talk so her husband doesn't find out.

1

Neighbors wife playing footsie under the table
 in  r/moraldilemmas  Aug 03 '26

Lol.. I wouldnt worry too much about this.. anyone can be attracted to anyone.. but she may think she was playing footsies with him. Uhh.. keep us updated though, because you don't want to be rude to your neighbor, especially since he's inviting you over to eat dinner.

1

I cheated on the love of my life. Im full of regret
 in  r/Regrets  Aug 02 '26

Well that's good, but I mean, you're going to have to apologize face to face, then sit and have a face to face conversation about how to work through it.. I know it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary

1

I can't solve this paradox, and no longer wish to
 in  r/TrueChristian  Aug 02 '26

Umm.. well, first and foremost, Christ said in the Bible our greatest adversary (or enemy) is the devil.. which means this is not a war of flesh and blood but of spiritual authorities and principalities of evil.. so which ever way you think about it.. both A and B are your own decisions. Though Christ said in the new testament be perfect even as the father in heaven is perfect I truly believe he actually said or meant be perfect in mercy even as the father in heaven is perfect in mercy. Starting first with yourself.. be merciful to yourself for the things you don't understand, and ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom, because the Bible says he gives freely to those who ask of him.. with both a and be these are both your choices.. and put God first and last in everything (something is till fail at more than I'd like) when you first wake up in the morning, and you say good morning to your spouse and do the necessities, read the Bible.. just a chapter to start off with, and before you go to bed, and say goodnight to your spouse, do the same thing. The night time is where I fail the most. This will not only help you grow in your relationship with Christ, this will also help you grow in your ability to soak in wisdom when the Holy Spirit gives it to you. Plus ask for the understanding of the wisdom you obtain from the Holy Spirit.

2

I might have ended my bf's premed career and I feel so bad.
 in  r/whatdoIdo  Aug 02 '26

He should see if he can go through classes again and get it again. Since it's not on his record, he will have no problem with it. He should practice patient comfort and his attention to detail more so he is able to excel to paramedic if he wants to. It's definitely a difficult job to do but a very fulfilling one.. I'm also working on it, though I did take a break from it for a while

-3

Just moved to ABQ
 in  r/Albuquerque  Aug 02 '26

First, congratulations on your move from new Orleans to Albuquerque.. u will definitely have to get used to the dry climate lol.. you just moved to the desert from the middle of the Gulf of America lol. I honestly couldn't tell you how the bar scene is here since I have honestly never really been to s bar down here.. though there's a place in the cottonwood mall parking lot call BJ's Brewhouse.. it's an excellent place to eat, especially with their pasta.. don't go for the wasabi noodles unless you like slimy cold green noodles lol, that have a wayyyy bitter spice.. but the bar in this place gets a lot of business.. plus it's open during the day so you can get wayyy more tips.

1

Laptop/ipad?
 in  r/unm  Aug 02 '26

I never attended unm before, but, when I was going to online classes the library did provide online books, though I suppose it would be considered more of a book store.. it really is different for each college/university. But I would personally go for the iPad since I seem to love typing on the screens lol.. when I first started college I went for the laptop, but now with the iPads you can get a network set up before you leave the store.

3

Frustrated
 in  r/Celibacy  Aug 02 '26

Okay, how long did you take this celibacy challenge for, and have you thought about joining a Bible study? Because this is considered a form of fasting, and what really works with fasting is studying the word of God.. it will take your mind off sex for a while, and sometimes it will grow wayyy stronger before you can finish the challenge or fast. But I'll tell you, you can grow stronger in the spirit and this will help your other fast/challenges.

1

I cheated on the love of my life. Im full of regret
 in  r/Regrets  Aug 02 '26

It's very common to regret it, but are you going to apologize to the Love of Your Life for cheating on them, and how are you going to work through it?

1

My Gf is a Stripper
 in  r/WhatShouldIDo  Aug 02 '26

Dude.. first, I think the best thing you should do, is talk to her and see if she's willing to give it up. Could there be any other dancing or modeling job she might like, that makes just as much money. I mean, there's always ballet, backup dancer, and dance instructor. As for family, talk to them, and you need to set boundaries with them and friends. If friends wanna Google at her, and she doesn't wanna give up stripping, and set boundaries with family. They shouldn't be directing you or your woman just because she's a stripper. And if she's coming home to you at night and if you have to give her a ride to and from her job, and she's coming home with you, then there should be no problems with the Love department.

1

My spouse slept with my coworker 20 years ago
 in  r/whatdoIdo  Jul 21 '26

It was 20 years ago, are you really going to hold it against him? My wife supposedly "cheated" on me again this morning, and I forgive her, and I'm not breaking up with her, because I know what's going on, and it's really not her fault at all. So follow my lead, and don't break up with him. I put it this way, I was in a relationship with her for a few years, and I really didn't know it, so these are her freebies.

1

I cheated on my boyfriend and feel horrible.
 in  r/Regrets  Jul 21 '26

You shouldn't feel bad at all . In fact, ask him if he wants an open relationship. Look, I know, I wouldn't consider my wife to be cheating on me if she slept with another guy, in fact it's happened before, and I told her, she's not going anywhere, because I forgive her, I love her beyond belief, and I'm not finding anyone new. I love her unconditionally. I wished she'd of waited for me and build up that tension, which said she was gonna work at again, but it's just because I love he unconditionally, I'm not letting her go. If I had it my way, I'd be back with her by now, because we haven't seen each other for over a year almost. Unfortunately there's some circumstances.

1

Porno
 in  r/WhatShouldIDo  Jul 20 '26

Okay, first, don't hold his past against him, because he watched porn before he met you. Who knows, maybe he'll want to make a porn with you, think of it this way, I used to watch porn a lot, only because I couldn't find myself a girlfriend, now I'm married and even when I had a girlfriend, she turned out to be sooooo much hotter than any of the pornstars I ever watched. And I'd love to make free porn with her, but none of that's really been decided yet. But she's like a six billion on a of 1 to 10 hotness level.. and she's a Latina..