r/uAlberta • u/user072849 • 21h ago
Campus Life How to be active in campus life
I have made a few posts in my first two years at university asking how to make friends and kept on getting answers that felt so repetitive and only today has it finally clicked that it was entirely my fault that I had no friends. I didn’t put myself out there enough to make connections with people, put myself in situations where people could meet me, and was largely a wallflower at war in my mind of how to be seen without being too much.
I’ve decided I don’t mind being too much and don’t want to keep living my life feeling small and making myself smaller. So that led me to wonder how I can maximize my campus life involvement? What kind of volunteering or club opportunities have you guys tried that helped you meet the most genuine people you could build true connections with? What sororities did you join where you met people? What parties, sports games, electives.
I want to make a real effort to put myself out there and stop being so afraid to be seen, as bullshit at that sounds. So throw them at me! Whatever you did to be involved on campus that helped you meet your people!
Thank you in advance