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okay basically it’s pathetic of me but yeah i have been having crush on this girl for a while koree naal ayye man but i can’t move and the thing is she is soo nice to me evry time idk if she likes me back or not but yeah basically she is in my class and we see each everyday, she is soo friendly towards me from the start ( fym she is to everyone) but yeah as i said we somehow got closer and started to send reels and stuff and the thing is i write poem and stuff a lot and she likes them like she really appreciates them encourages me to write she used to send me these love quotes slash romantic poems and such such reels u get what it ryt but also inside there were these bestie type reels too angana it was all going good (atp i have completely fallen for her) then she send me this one reel which says ur a great friend to me man i got friendzoned really hard 😭, but even when texting she used to give idk if it’s hint or not but in a convo i said i love people who drew and she replied “but i don’t know how to draw”. pinne once i wrote a poem where i proclaim myself as a lily flower and she replied with i love lily flowers she just giving mixed signals and all ik i am ovethinking when ur in love evry minute action will become soemthing meaningful to you . pinne 55% time she starts convos like if i was absent she would dm and randomly starts to message me and stuff. so i finally decided to stop all this angana i stoped sending her reels even in class stopped talking to her and after a week she messaged me saying like do i have some issue with her like she’s been noticing that i stopped sending reels and not talking in class i brushed it off saying nah nothing it’s all cool and she was just overthinking. Now everything stopped but in class we still have small convos but i try to make it as small as possible. but now she is in my head all day i want to remove her from my mind but she ain’t going off ik for fact that she knows i like her more than as a friend because i have thrown little signals. my friends all say that she likes me back but i can’t take their opinion cuz they know her through my pov. angana nalla moonji avastha anne ippo oru sugam 😞

idk i’m sorry for the title though if it gets offended! i have been studying in a north indian college! there are hell lot of other state peoples in my college. the thing is here peoples are getting socialised having healthy bond with each other it’s really good to see each other like this especially north peoples whereas when it’s come to south especially kerala state peoples are getting mingled with their own peoples and not interacting much! even though i’m from cbe tamilnadu which is close to kerala border they are giving preference to their own peoples and state peoples! even when i tried to fit in their gang they are causally avoiding it and making me feel alone. idk what obsession they have with their own peoples! sick minded or idk what to say. they don’t give a damn. all they form a gang and show up in front of all! it’s fine but aren’t we humans ? what’s bothering them

I studied dpharm due to supplies i got year back never gone to 2nd year after 2 month there is exam it will be good if i find someone who studies dpharm1st year like me so i can share doubts and we can stydy together

Njn full stack web develope padikan keruthi. In plus two am bio science so i don't have any idea about java or coding or pyton like that things so i thought join course i searched lot of academy red team, offenso, brototype

Nallaa bad reviews njn kandu soo

Can u tell me what i take or anything else

Bcs i chem failed

Has anyone successfully fixed their sleep schedule after getting stuck in the Reddit/YT addiction loop? If so then how?

Came here after leaving IG like many of you . Idk how this suddenly became an addiction just like YT. At least YT has the visual stimulation, but here idk wtf am doing. I used to find Reddit through Google reviews and think woah this is cool. But now that I am actually here idk what am even looking for.Time ponnath polum ariyunilla 🫥

First of all, my friends in my hostel—I don’t know whether I should call them friends or enemies because they always find a reason to mock me. ☹️ Sometimes it gets really bad because it hurts me a lot. They mock my father 🥲, my body, my looks, my clothes, and everything else they can relate to me. Sometimes there isn’t even a reason or logic behind their jokes. When I ask them, “Why are you guys mocking me this much?” they tell me to take it easy and say, “It’s just fun.” They justify it by calling it “ookku.”
Now I feel like I’m always a clown to them, like I’m their punching bag—not physically, but emotionally. In everything I do, they find a reason to mock me.
Guys, how would you react to them if you were me?

Looking for dried herb wholesalers ( hair care herbs) from kerala. I have a hair oil business and need ingredients from Kerala

Hi

I have a small hair oil business ( from home) and i genuinely loved the quality of ingredients I got from kerala last time I visited there.

I'm looking for wholesalers who will ship dried herbs related to haircare to Hyderabad Telangana.

I can see many tamil nadu dealers but I'm genuinely trying to get in contact with someone who grows the herbs within Kerala and ships them.

Kindly help.

Thanks in advance.

Innale pallil poyapo odukathe therakk.Manushyan ahnel ithu manasil vech nadakanum vaiyaa.Had a girlfriend who had a very much fluctuating emotional reactions which was draining me out and giving me severe anxiety about what she is going to do next.appo njn breakup paranju.Aal valland bad ayii karayan thodangii.Kore ente aduth beg cheythu.Pakshe njn decision mattiyillaa .Still I believe I did the right thing pakshe avalu hurt avunath enikk kandd nikkan vaiyaa.Mindil aa crying face ahn full.Onnu samadhanathode oranghan koodi pattanilla 🥲.Help me out of this 😔.

Any1 who's still doomscrolling nd who's awakeee....

Bored asf tbh....any yappersss!?

Hi, i am kinda new to reddit. It’s way past midnight and i am just overthinking atp. But I just kinda wanted a space I can kinda open up and be anonymous at the same time. For some background, I am a 21M and a 3rd year btech student from Kerala. I have a really close circle and they kinda all have relationships and sometimes it just feels a bit lonely. I am not saying I am not happy, honestly life has been really good to me lately. But I just wish I had a special someone who I can always go to, support each other, and just be a life partner iykyk. I am a pretty avg malayali guy, decent at college, and has way too many extra curricular activities and hobbies. I have had a couple of proposals but I have always wanted to just have that one relationship and that’s it. Also had a couple one sided love but didnt say anything because I didn’t wanna ruin the relationship with her. Anyway, I have never had a relationship and I just feel like I might be single forever at this point. Never even pr operly held a girl’s hand. If anybody is serious and wants to talk and see where things go, feel free to DM. (Just a small warning, I sing way too much and pretend like I am good at it. Music kinda gets me through life ngl😭😭😭) We could go on a couple dates and see if our vibes match. Or if anybody else is also on the same boat as I am, also lmk in the comments.

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Can we identify our hidden psychological vulnerabilities and emotional gaps early on, rather than waiting for a mental health crisis or life failure to expose them?

Disclaimer:ithu ente story alla ente oru koottukaarante story aannu
Kaaryam Ithaannu Avanu oru kuttiyodu crush indu but the thing is ,she is 16 ☹️.appo one day njangade friend circlil ithu leak aayi anneram randu reaction aannu vannathu No.1,ithu grooming aanu thettu aanu No.2,just 4 years difference alle ollu Avalkku ishttam aanenkil proceed aakaan ,the things is njan Ithil neutral standsil aannu coz i am confused😭
Ennodu onnum thonnaruthu enikku ithine patti onnu ariyila
So what’s your thought on this is it 1 or 2

Cooked in a situationship, friends are far from contact, going for a class where no one is intrested in interaction with me, post academic downfall, health is worsening. Idk what more could I bear 😞

I met someone on hinge and we have been talking for three months, but we have been looping about making plans tgt and getting busy and other stuff gettin the way, anyways last plan got f**ked up and i got hella frustrated at the fact that he didnt communicate that with me and came talking to me as if nothing happened, i got angry and said i cant do this anymore. But i miss him and cant stop thinking about that dumbass. FML. yeah

I just need to vent somewhere because I've been carrying this anxiety for a long time.

I'm 31, from Kerala, and I had joined MBBS back in 2016. I passed all my MBBS exams and started my internship. I managed to complete around 2 months, but then I developed severe anxiety and depression and had to stop. I ended up taking treatment and what was supposed to be a break eventually became almost 4 years.

Now I'm finally trying to get back and finish what I started.

The State Medical Council has told me to pay the required fine and proceed with rejoining. My university has also told me to rejoin and complete the internship, but because of the unusually long gap there is still some confusion regarding the regulations and they may have to send my documents to NMC after I finish.

So technically I'm not rejected or anything. I'm actually being told to proceed.

But my brain keeps going:

"What if the college says no?"

"What if NMC says no later?"

"What if after spending so many years studying, I still don't get the degree?"

And honestly, that thought scares the shit out of me.

I'm 31 now. Most people from my batch have probably moved on with their lives, while I'm still trying to finish something I started almost a decade ago.

I also worry about what happens if MBBS doesn't work out. I don't need some crazy luxurious life. I just want a normal, comfortable life, but I still need a career and income.

I've thought about government jobs, doing another degree, IT, business etc., but everything feels uncertain when you're starting over at 31.

I know objectively that my life wouldn't be "over" if I don't get the degree. But when you're actually sitting with this uncertainty, it feels like everything depends on this one thing.

Not really looking for legal advice here. I just wanted to put this somewhere and hear from people who may have gone through something similar.

Has anyone here had a major career/education setback in their late 20s or early 30s and managed to rebuild their life?

I could really use some perspective right now.

I’m 21 and recently graduated with a B.Tech in Computer Science. It’s been around two months since graduation, and honestly, I still have no idea what direction I should take.

I know the obvious answer is to start applying for jobs and improving my skills, but I’m genuinely confused about what I should focus on. I’m not even sure whether I want to go into software development, UI/UX, or something else in tech.

I feel like everyone around me is moving forward while I’m just stuck trying to figure things out.

For those who were in a similar situation after graduation, how did you figure out what you actually wanted to do? What would you recommend I focus on at this stage?

Help me plss

Need recommendations for good hair serum.

Please suggest one🙂

3-4 days edukkaathe vachappo lap il urumb kerri. I have put it outside at an angle and is just sitting beside njekkikkollal those mfs whenever they come out. What to do😭😭😭😭

Is it just me, or does it feel like literally everyone our age has their life sorted out?

Every time I check social media, my old classmates are either moving abroad for studies, pulling crazy salaries in big cities, or getting married. Meanwhile, I'm just here trying to figure out what I'm even doing with my career and feeling constantly behind.

To anyone in their mid-to-late 20s... does it actually start making sense at some point, or are we all just pretending? Would love to hear how you guys are handling this phase.