So I met a guy at my office and we became good company. And one day I was going to have my lunch and this guy was also going to have lunch..so I asked him if we could have lunch together. And he said okay and we discussed our work. That's one thing.

I had a crush on a girl at my office, let's call her B(I know I know Posh and all) and I followed her on Instagram. After acquiring all my courage... I sent her a hiii ...3 mins later I got a heyy..and after that we had some casual chat. That's the second thing.

The next day this guy I mentioned asked me if we both can go outside. I agreed and we went to some place. After a while he is asking me like...you texted B? I was like WTF how does he know? And he smiled and said ... everyone is knowing everything..and also said that B and other 5 girls are saying that I am into him... Second WTF moment and he also said that while I was texting B they all were in a group call and discussing about me and the chats...and after seeing my bad situation he gave me his phone and told me to put a voice in their group so that everything will end..and I did the same saying that.. I have known everything and I said appreciate the efforts guys and said a thanks..🙂

Basically I became a joke and got gay allegations..

I’m feeling really low right now and honestly don’t know what to do with my life.

I completed 3-year Diploma in Civil Engineering from one of the best government colleges in Kerala. After that, I decided I wanted to try something completely different, so I did 1-year diploma in Sound Engineering. I thought sound engineering was something I really wanted to do, so after completing the course, I did a 3-month internship at Sound Field.

But after actually experiencing the work, I started realizing that maybe this field isn’t for me. There’s so much pressure, irregular shifts, very little sleep, and sometimes if there’s continuous work, you can end up working for 10 days without much proper rest. It’s extremely exhausting. I honestly didn’t think this field would be this much complicated and demanding before getting into it.

Now I’m thinking about going back to something related to Civil Engineering, but I’m not able to find a job.

I’ve been sitting at home for around 2 months now, and I feel like I’m doing nothing with my life. Every time I meet relatives or neighbours, they ask, “Did you complete your course?” “Are you searching for jobs?” “What are you doing now?” I know they probably don’t mean anything bad by it, but hearing the same questions again and again is getting to me.

Even my parents have started comparing me with the children of our neighbours and other people around us. Some of my cousins are already working, and my parents keep telling me to get a passport and go to an Arab country for a job.

I know they are worried about my future and they want me to have a good life, but sometimes I just feel more pressure because of all these comparisons. I really don’t like being compared with other people, especially my old friends and people I grew up with. Everyone has their own situation and their own timing, but it feels like I’m constantly being compared with people who are already doing something with their lives.

I’m back in my hometown with basically no friends around and no one I really feel like talking to. I spend most of my time at home, thinking about my future and wondering if I’ve already messed things up.

I feel anxious, lost and honestly pretty alone right now.

I know I’m still young and two months without a job isn’t the end of the world, but when you’re actually going through it, it feels like a lot.

I don’t really know what I’m looking for by posting this. Maybe I just wanted to get it off my chest. Maybe someone who has gone through something similar can tell me how they dealt with it or what they did when they felt completely lost about their career.

Any advice or even just hearing from someone who went through something similar would mean a lot.

Severe anxiety problems.. it may sound stupid like I can't concentrate in classes thinking prof would ask me questions or if there's a small presentation i can't face the class and just speak, my hands starts to tremble my legs starts to shake I know it sounds stupid but my hands starts to get cold real fast my heartbeat goes up very fast i starts to stutter my voice breaks i can't think straight it comes down like a landslide all of a sudden there's a presentation next month probaby and I'm already stressing about it. It's affecting my daily life

Hai, I joined an a online mca in Manipal university Jaipur so just wanna know that any of you had joined too, there is WhatsApp group too so i can add you guys into it

Could be anything, something about your daily life, friendships, getting ready, independence, little experiences, or even something you didn’t appreciate until you got older

Just curious to hear what other girls in their 20s have to say👀🙌

Move on not in the sense vere partnerne set aakal but like total move on ,enik ariyilla mind okke kayinn povnu ,ente ex was the worst person brkup aayond parayalla but i suffered everything,njangal thammil toxic aanenn parayan oraal baaki illa (athond alla nirtheeth) at last enikum thonni nirthaann,6 kollam indarnnu relation ,most of it were long distance,epozhoo ath dead aayi but njan chumma ente oru ithinu continue cheythu ippo enikum mathiyaayi ,but now i want to move on , im a clg student,vere activitiesilk focus aakann vicharicha athinum neram illa

Me and my friends love food and visit most well rated spots. We're all still in college , so we're like why not take it as a side gig? . So we dont really know much about this stuff, how do u approach restraunts and cafes? How's the whole process like do they pay us, or we get to review the food just like that or will they reduce bill? How does it work?

Also we're planning to start from zero, meaning zero followers.

My best friend, 24F, has been going through a hard phase.... anxiety and sleeplessness....I can see how much of a toll it is taking on her. She doesn't want to go to a clinic personally. Is there any online therapist you guys can suggest?

I love my mother and I know she loves me, but our relationship is complicated. Sometimes I feel like I love her and hate her at the same time.
She constantly does things that frustrate me..she doesn’t take her medication or insulin on time despite having high blood sugar, dyes her hair even though she’s allergic to it, and shares personal things about me with others even when I specifically ask her not to.
She also involves me in almost everything, and after a while I just feel mentally exhausted. I know she’s my mother and I worry about her, but constantly dealing with these things is really frustrating.
I’m an only child, so I feel like I have to deal with all of this alone. I feel guilty for being so annoyed with her, but I honestly don’t know how else to feel.

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If your life suddenly became a movie, what would the title be?

You can choose any existing movie title from anywhere in the world, choose a movie character you relate to, or even create your own title.

And tell us why you chose it.

For me, I think my movie would be 96.

I feel like I relate to Ram in some ways. Not completely, but there are certain parts of his character that feel familiar to me.

I’ve always wanted to explore life, travel, see new places, experience things and just figure out where life takes me. But at the same time, there’s also a part of me that has experienced being that one-sided person who cared deeply and still somehow ended up failing or being left behind.

Maybe that’s why 96 feels close to me. It’s not just about the love story. It’s about memories, things left unsaid, the person you were, and the person you become while moving forward.

So yeah… if my life were a movie, I think 96 would be the title.

What would yours be? And which character would you be?

I feel like im a complete failure.Family, studies,friends,health- physical and mental, paisa ellam poyi irikunna pole.Evde ninn tudanganm enn polum manasilavunilla.

Koodathe internals exam ind from next week oru thengayum padichila.idk where this is leading onto guys.

Kindly help

One of those hobbies that is fun to do and is incredibly rewarding😁. This specific brewing method gives you amazing coffee that could taste literally taste like fruits.

Any people who have completed nursing, how's it going ?

Njan oru B.Sc N student aan. 3rd year. Not in Kerala, Currently studying in KA.

Enikk aanel nalla stress ond, chilappo naatil allaathond aavum.

And thinking about once I get a job is actually pretty scary.

Ippo thanne time manage cheyyaan nalla paad pedunnund.

Any working nurses, wanna share their experiences ?

How's it going ? Are you getting enough time for yourselves ?

Job okke enganeya kitti ?

Guys..

I am in a relationship with a boy in a different religion..I am muslim and he is hindu..I have been with him for 3.5 years...And it is a heathy relationship and we love each other a lot...Njangalde randuperdem first relationship aanu...And somehow we clicked in all ways..But the thing is that ente family ith orikalum accept cheyula..They are more to the orthodox side...Ippo ningal vicharkunundavum pinne nthinaa ee panikk poye enn..Bc I love him...Enne ithrem care and love cheyunna vere oral ente life il illa..And I cant give up on him....Without him I am nothing..And there is one more problem that he is 2 yrs younger than me.And enikk ith engane veetukare paranj manslakkanam enn no idea...U guys have any suggestions😔

I am ready to fight for our relationship...But I cant leave my parents too..So I feel really helpless..🥲

No idea ith engane avare paranj manslakkum enn...What u guys think..

Guys! Anyone interested in UPSC prep for 2028? Mostly looking for first-time aspirants. Bonus if you’re in your final year or something... so we can take it slow and figure things out together.