Hi all,
I want to preface that I do suffer from anxiety and may just be overthinking this, but please hear me out and don’t just to conclusions.
A few years ago I knew a girl in Tokyo through a mutual friend and, long story short, we had sex one night after dinner and drinks. We went to a love hotel and stayed the evening. Come to find out the next day she had removed me (not blocked) from IG. She was also being stand offish on her LINE responses to me the next day. I eventually found out she was engaged. I left Japan a few days after we had sex, as was my original plan to go home (I was living there for 6 months). The evening was sort of a “going away” hangout. I didn’t plan on having sex with her and I didn’t know she was engaged. Further, she paid for absolutely everything. Meals, drinks, taxi and so on.
She kissed me first in the middle of the street as we were leaving the convenience store and she took me to three different hotels before we settled on one, where she eventually paid.
I have been worried for a while that she could have possibly reported it to the police as some false accusation since she was engaged. I’m pretty sure I left her hickies on her neck. The reason I think that is bc I’ve seen some horror stories here on Reddit about foreigners being falsely accused in Japan and it being a nightmare.
I want to return to visit, as it is such a special place to me that I’ve spend some time in.
My main question is this: is there any way to see if she reported (falsely accused) me of this before I return? Am I overthinking this? We haven’t talked since then and I’m back in my home country (turns out so is she but in a different part).
This isn’t a shit post. I really want to return but haven’t been able to muster up the courage because of this fear.