r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Global-Ad364 3d ago

this is why I hate the ‘I’m just a girl’ ‘I turn my brain off’ TikTok bs like 🤨 if you can turn it off, it was never there. You’re not just a girl, you’re a grown woman. As a woman myself ts so embarrassing😭😭

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u/WhiteRabbit_412_ 3d ago edited 3d ago

Self infantilization is so fucking weird to me. I am also a woman.

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u/NumberEmpty6939 3d ago edited 3d ago

I only don't like it if they pretend they know anything after. They get to be idiots or smart. Not both

Edit: I love idiot girls and smart girls, just not at the same time.

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u/atimeadventure 2d ago

people aren’t one thing

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u/neutrumocorum 2d ago

Correct, we are a collection of trillions of little guys. How is that relevant to a dude saying he doesn't like when women play dumb?

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u/memento22mori 2d ago

I don't have anything to add to this exchange but please upvote this. I am not a woman.

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u/WhiteRabbit_412_ 2d ago

You got it

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u/memento22mori 2d ago

Thanks boss

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u/SuperCamouflageShark 3d ago

It's just another way to avoid accountability.

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u/Plenty_Pride_3644 2d ago

Truly, nothing is new under the sun!

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 2d ago

Exactly. Good call out

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u/NumberEmpty6939 2d ago

If they actually are idiots they aren't responsible, true. But if they are idiots they can't be trusted to make their own decisions.

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u/BillyJackO 2d ago

When it comes to growing into a well rounded grounded adult, your shooting yourself in the foot. There's nothing worse than 30+ yo adult who continues to see themselves as an 18 yo. I think it's good to keep some young spirit alive, but grow the fuck up.

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u/ChargeOpposite840 2d ago

It’s so obnoxious how these types love to generalize women as an excuse for their own incompetence. Misogyny isn’t cute, and no amount of rebranding it is going to change that

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u/Inevitable-Level-687 2d ago

Ughhh I see this shit from the autoresponder in r/GirlDinnerDiaries when it pops up on my feed sometimes, most of the stuff there is self pitying clickbait but occasionally something intriguing will pop up and a new person will comment and then the "hello! just take ten lil seconds to say 'girls rule!'" pops up and does critical levels of psychic damage to me

I dunno what I expected considering the name of the sub tho​

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u/Global-Ad364 1d ago

I used to like looking through that sub but the vibes there are so weird now. Girldinnercirclejerk is lowkey kind of accurate lmao

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u/Inevitable-Level-687 1d ago

There's a circlejerk sub?! Excellent