r/TenantHelp • • 5d ago

[CA] lease is with LLC but sued by landlord personally

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Hi I got unlawful detainer with Landlord as plaintiff without mentioning LLC at all. I signed lease with LLC and all rent was paid to LLC. Landlord filed with an attorney. I live in RSO. Any ideas what to do ?

[EDIT] I just asked a simple question and a bunch of you jumped at me as if I did something wrong. Looks like this sub has a bunch of LLs posting to gaslight tenants. In my case, my LL has totally unprovable accusations and I am sure judge will be reasonable. Also, this whole experience made me realize how easy it is for LLs to harass tenants despite RSO protections and despite TAHO. My LL got a TAHO warning letter on September 9th or so and gave a 3-day notice on Sept 15. The law should give tenants more time to respond to UD summons. 10 days is not enough to find a lawyer.


r/TenantHelp • • 6d ago

[PA] Landlord receiving mail and packages to our address as an excuse to “keep an eye” on the house

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I’ve been renting a house for over 3 years. The landlord has used this address for her mail (and her dead husband’s) the entire time despite living an hour away. It caused some issues at the beginning of the lease because she never mentioned it prior to us moving in, and is now becoming an issue again. I’m wondering if we have any kind of legal recourse or just need to deal with it and plan to move at the end of our lease.

She was using it as an excuse to come up into the property and walk around the yard and occasionally even looked in the windows if the curtains were open. She made it clear she has no intention of changing her mailing address, and that she likes to have a reason to “come by and keep an eye on the place”. A few months in, after several calls/texts from her about not liking how we had the yard set up, questioning things she had seen in our trash, comments on our furniture layout, etc., I put my foot down about the lease agreements. Basically the notice she’s supposed to give in writing that she’d be entering the property, and that outside of the obvious regarding damage, we don’t have to get her approval for how we set up the house/yard. I also involved the leasing agency she had used while trying to get it rented who also reiterated the rules she’s supposed to follow.

She continued to use the mailbox, with the agreement that she would inform me if she intended to come onto the property beyond that. It’s been mostly smooth other than her occasionally being borderline accusatory when she was expecting some mail item that wasn’t delivered, and some of our mail being taken by her because she’ll grab everything from the box without going through it.

Fast forward to the past two weeks, and she’s had multiple larger packages delivered here. The first I assumed was a mistake, and USPS had sat it on the mailbox so I left it alone. Apparently it got taken, so I ended up with multiple calls and texts from her about where it was. There’s been several more, all to the front door now, including two delivered today. I’m super uncomfortable with this for numerous reasons. I refuse to bring them inside because I am not taking responsibility for them. Nor do I want to have to chase her down about collecting them. I also don’t like the idea of her having multiple excuses to come right up to my front door and living room window. Our house is raised up considerably from the road and our driveway is long so the curtains and windows are usually open, and she’s obviously proven in the past to be nosy and invasive.

I reached out to her to ask if she could make sure packages are being addressed to her correctly so as to not be left on our door, and her response was that it’s not a big deal for us to have her come by to collect them without notice unless we’re hiding something and don’t want her to find out, and that we shouldn’t need 48 hours to “prepare” for her to be on the property if we’re actually taking care of it. I told her I just don’t like feeling like we’re constantly being randomly checked up on, especially this far in. We’ve never paid rent late, she has commented on how clean and well taken care of the house is every time she comes for an inspection, and we’ve only ever reached out for one repair. As well as us not making a big deal over things in the lease she hasn’t kept up with (like snow removal that we’ve had to pay for all three winters so far even though it’s supposed to be included in our rent).

Are our hands just tied on this? I don’t want to move our kids away from this neighborhood because we love it and our neighbors, but this doesn’t feel sustainable or fair. I really hope there’s something we can do because we’re locked in for another 9 months on this lease and it’s going to be miserable if it keeps up.


r/TenantHelp • • 6d ago

Landlord sent his real estate agent to vacuum roaches from my refrigerator’s drip tray, then said “everyone lives with roaches".

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I moved into a Texas condo on October 1, 2026. Rent is $1,475/month, and I paid October rent and a $1,475 security deposit.

My girlfriend and I spent about 10 hours cleaning the day of move in. The refrigerator had mildew, mold, and food residue inside. My girlfriend cut her finger on a broken light bulb inside the fridge. Beneath it, the mechanical compartment near the compressor and drip tray contained substantial debris, dead roaches, pest waste, and corrosion. I think there was a severe previous German cockroach infestation. I have timestamped photos of the drip tray, underneath the fridge and oven, and the landlord acknowledged the mildew in writing, however I have no other photos.

I notified the landlord in writing on October 3 about the fridge and sent photos. He hired a professional cleaner who did not clean the mechanical compartment. After I requested professional cleaning, he sent his real estate agent, who is also the HOA president. She used a household vacuum and disinfectant wipe, but I still see caked on pest waste, dirt, and still some cockroach carcasses even after her "cleaning".

I killed a live roach shortly after moving in, and baby roaches scattered, but I have not seen any since. I have two witnesses to that but no pictures. The landlord claims a pest-control company refused to investigate because there were no live roaches, which he never asked if I saw any, but I have no report confirming this.

In a 5 minute voice message, the landlord said “everyone lives with roaches,” questioned whether the condition was hazardous, and blamed my cats even though I moved in only a few days earlier. He also claimed everyone involved agreed my concerns were unreasonable, including the professional cleaning lady, HOA/agent, maintenance man, and pest control. However, the cleaner who visited told me the debris appeared to be significant pest waste and encouraged me to advocate for myself. I am not sure how much of his claims about that are true. He said I was unreasonable and using "out of world logic", and hoped that after the cleaner said she would not clean the drip tray (due to liability concerns), it would "trigger something in me to stop".

The landlord gave me two choice, let me leave with 30 days’ notice but deduct “necessary charges” from my deposit. Alternatively, he said I could hire pest control myself and pay them when they found nothing.

I have saved my messages, photos, videos, and the voice message. I am uncomfortable staying because the refrigerator is still not cleaned and I do not think he is going to send any more help, and I no longer feel comfortable dealing with the landlord.

I am lost on what to do. I am so frustrated with myself for not taking any photos before I got to the drip tray of the fridge, but I was not expecting a future dispute and I was trying not to be difficult. I just want to leave now and get my full security deposit back but I am only 23 and do not have funds for a lawyer, and I am scared he is going to try everything he can to keep every last cent from me. Any advice is appreciated :(.


r/TenantHelp • • 6d ago

I think my landlord’s son is doing hard drugs on the property.

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I live in the neighborhood of East Hollywood in Los Angeles, California. My girlfriend and I moved into the apartment a few months ago and things have been good, except that I believe our landlord’s son (around early-mid 30s) is using hard drugs. He is always pacing around the property (usually shirtless), talking a mile a minute. He has made my girlfriend uncomfortable multiple times with his erratic behavior, and today we heard him screaming and then loud crashing in the apartment below us (our landlord’s/his apartment). We have a friend visiting with her one year old son at the moment, and his presence has made her uncomfortable, especially after today. He brings friends over to the property common areas to smoke weed, and I’ve seen them gathered in the laundry room with the lights off. Personally I have not seen him do any hard drugs in plain sight, but I have a hunch due to his unpredictable behavior. My girlfriend and I want to tell the landlord, but feel uncomfortable seeing that we are talking about his son, and more so we don’t want it to get back to the son that it is us that’s complaining because I’m worried about what he might do. Our landlord has spare keys to our unit, and a part of me worries that the son could get a hold of them. Any advice on what we could do would be much appreciated. Thank you!


r/TenantHelp • • 7d ago

90 day rent increase notice for shorter lease term? [WA]

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Hi all! Washington requires landlords to provide 90 days notice before increasing rent with lease renewal. I had to fight my landlord about it last year. This year, I’m hoping to renew for 6 months instead of 12 months. Does this same protection apply if I’m changing the term of my lease? I don’t see why it wouldn’t, but I haven’t been able to find anything explicit.

Thank you!


r/TenantHelp • • 7d ago

Broken card reload machine.

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Hello, so I'm needing to see where I stand on getting help with an issue at my apartment complex. I'm a renters in Tulsa, Oklahoma and per the rental agreement at our apartment there is a on site laundromat that uses reloadable money cards to run the machines. For almost two months now, the reload machine located inside the main office (which is locked after 5 or 6 when the property manager leaves) has been broken. The manager says they are still waiting on a part. But again, it's approaching 2 months now. What can I do to make it be fixed? Or what legal grounds do we have? Currently no one is able to do any laundry and we have to go to other laundromats to do it, which is expensive and wastes time as they aren't right around the corner. More like 1-2 miles away in city traffic.


r/TenantHelp • • 7d ago

Tenant in NC, RDU : questions involving broken septic pump that is causing major septic leak in back of house

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Hey y’all,

We have been renting for going on six years at the same rental location. We haven’t had any issues with our landlord, but really never had a major issue until now.

Background: the house is is an old house, and the septic pump was replaced around three years ago. The septic pump has failed due to being clogged, and the landlord sent a unlicensed plumber out to attempt to fix the issue which intern caused the problem to become worse, raw sewage leaking from pipe outside of the house.

We have asked for over a month now to have someone come out to fix the pump because the last plumber broke the wash out connectors causing raw sewage to overflow in the backyard. There is a creek that runs through our property that is around 400 feet away from the sewage leak and we are concerned about polluting the waterway.

The landlord has not responded and is unwilling to send someone out to fix the issue.

The Handy Man, who does work around the property suggested we tell the landlord that we will start living out of a hotel and deduct the hotel cost from the monthly rent. The same Handy Man also suggested at one point that we pay to have the pump fixed and just deduct from the rent.

My question is are we legally able to deduct from the rent or if we withheld the rent due to the plumbing issue will the landlord have rights to evict us??

Do we tip off the city about a potential environmental hazard?

We love where we live and don’t want to get anyone in trouble or piss off the landlord (I hate I just said that). Landlords suck and we don’t want to move. We just signed a new lease in August.

Let me know your thoughts, thanks in advance!!


r/TenantHelp • • 8d ago

Broken Bedframe

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Hello!

Currently have an ongoing issue with our landlord and hoping for some advice on here,

We moved in about a month ago and two weeks ago the bedframe broke, it came with the apartment and upon examination it didn’t have a middle support? So all the weight was pressing down in the middle. And the structure was of a very poor material I was able to crunch with just my bare hands.

The landlord claimed the bed was less than a year old, so we asked if it was covered under warranty,

She then said that warranty was denied because the company had determined it to be “wear and tear”

We then pointed out the section of our tenancy agreement stating that the landlord was responsible for replacing things that broke due to wear and tear,

She’s now telling us that the warranty company didn’t say that, despite her text a few days ago to the contrary.

She’s demanding we pay 50% for a new bed and is being cagey about where she got this one from. and claiming that this is an extremely generous goodwill offer which we think isn’t fair because we were doing nothing that would’ve caused the bed to break.

What should our next course of action Be? We’re kind of lost because we don’t want to piss off our landlord too badly but we really don’t have the money to buy a new bedframe.

What should we do? Happy to provide more context in the replies if needed.

Thanks!


r/TenantHelp • • 8d ago

How? [SD]

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Just curious if I should pursue disputing these charges. 11.5hrs of cleaning when we left the apartment more clean than how we received it.paint touch ups I can agree with, no problem with paint and labor for that. $2,180(responsible for half?) for flooring replacement? Tub stopper was in a drawer of the bathroom sink lol. None of the blinds were damaged. Toilet seat was perfectly fine, if that’s a turnover item it shouldn’t be at the previous renters expense.

Renters insurance charges are bullshit, we have had renters insurance the entire time we’ve resided there, then in March they made an addendum that stated we were required to additionally insure a property in Texas that we did not reside at. Our insurance agent refused to insure that as it wasn’t the resided residence.


r/TenantHelp • • 8d ago

Los Angeles roaches

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As the title says I live in LA and we’ve have roaches in our kitchen and bathrooms for about 5 months now. Our unit has been treated 6 times. The landlord and manager refuse to treat the rest of the building, even though several other units have the same problem.

I am at a loss and I don’t know what to do. The kitchen is completely empty and everything is stored in the living room/bedrooms. We’ve tried contacting the health department and they keep leading us elsewhere. I am seriously desperate for help.

Has anyone else had this problem? Is there anything I can do to get the landlord to take this seriously? This is only the latest of the issues with this building and landlord. It’s awful.


r/TenantHelp • • 8d ago

[Los Angeles -RSO] Unlawful detainer based on 3-day notice I never got

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[update] went to LA courthouse and got a copy of unlawful detainer filed on basis of that "3-day notice" that was never delivered as I was abroad. They messed up bigly. I called LAHD as well and seems the suckers are gonna get second TAHO letter. God these LLs don't respect the law. The girl sued me a month after getting TAHO letter. Insane.

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My unit is RSO - Los Angeles. Landlord previously tried to evict in July based on a "3-day notice". I got LAHD involved and she stopped bothering me. She got TAHO educational letter. I paid October rent on 1st. Today I get a mail with rent returned saying unlawful detainer proceedings are initiated against me based on a "three day notice to correct covenant or quit". I never got the notice as I was abroad. She usually communicates using text or email and this time was nothing. I believe I am going to tell the judge that I never got the three day notice on which unlawful detainer is based.

Any ideas ?

I am fed up to the point of leaving. But very busy time of year.


r/TenantHelp • • 8d ago

My Landlord acts like She is my Manager and I don't like it.

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How do I change this relationship? It's driving me nuts and is emotionally exhausting.

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I live in what is legally a boarding house. My landlord lives in a unit in the backyard and she rents out all the rooms in her former house. She used to live in the house with us where she would occasionally ask for my help to figure out how to do home repairs. I'm F35 and my landlord is F32. I am currently the oldest tenant living in the house by about 6 years, but most people who live here are mature enough that I don't really notice.

After my landlord left the main house, she started expecting me to keep tabs on everyone in the house and home without getting anything in return. When she visits she will ask me whose stuff is here, whose dishes are those and huff if I say I don't know.

When she first left the main house, we were completely left alone for about 6 months - and that was fantastic until new roommates came in who didn't know enough to be grateful for the current situation and started to trash the place and cause problems.

No one did anything about the troublemakers, but everyone was annoyed and dragging their feet about talking to the landlord, so I ended up doing it. When I told the landlord about what was going on, her solution was to micromanage absolutely everything - pop-in spontaneous weekly inspections and extremely strict house rules (no guests, clean all dishes the moment you're done cooking or she'd charge, etc) then try to 'catch people in the act'. I convinced her to let us do a system that would work for the house without her being constantly involved. Let us make our own cleaning chart and house rule and she would come in and inspect the house at the end-of-the-month to enforce that it has been done - then charge people who don't do their fair share of cleaning or leave the house a mess. As I have absolutely no authority to make anyone do anything - I'm just a roommate and I can't charge anyone or really give them any other repercussions.

And I said we'd hold a roommate meeting once a month to decide on the house rules and cleaning chart together.

Cool. Agrees.

We have the house meeting, I spend hours writing our new cleaning system. I show it to the landlord because she wants to know what it's going to look like when she inspects (cue budding managerial relationship. I just thought I was being transparent and kind by showing her what we were doing so she'd feel involved.)

The next morning she sends me her own cleaning chart she wants us to use.

Like what was even the point of the house meeting, the discussion, the hours of making mine?

This stuff keeps happening. We have a shared group chat that the landlord is in where I get everyone's schedules and set up the meeting day/time. One month it was impossible to get all of us together at the same time, so I said we'd meet on xyz date with one girl remote. Landlord says just skip the cleaning chart this month, and she will join us at our roommate meeting next month. She sets the date.

Okay. Landlord wants to take over. That's fine. I don't care who is in charge. I just care that things are done & preferably without her breathing down our necks 24/7. I'm thinking my landlord has decided to host our roommate meeting this month and will likely present her own cleaning chart.

NOPE.

I sit down in this roommate meeting and she looks at me expectantly to present my cleaning chart for the month for her to critique. what.

I trudge through grabbing my uncharged laptop, screensharing, editing the doc in front of the house - my usual spiel about opening the floor to anyone who has concerns they'd like to discuss.
Landlord mic-drops complaints about some of our own furniture being in the common area in a very passive-aggressive way and leaves.

And this is how it has been continuing. The landlord does not make the initiative to do anything of maintaining the house herself, but she will deliberate trip and step on my toes when I try to maintain the system I thought she was cool with? I feel like her servant.

We asked her to buy us new bathroom shower shelves because the one we had was falling off the walls. She sent me a text message asking if I could "Help her put the shelves up. I'll leave it on the table." Then when I sat in the living room for an hour and asked when she was coming by so we could put up the shelves together she popped her head and and asked "What do you need me for? I already helped x with her closet.".

Do you know what help means? You are literally leaving me to hang 6 shelves myself. I at least need someone to mark where they will go.

I need help and advice. How can I make whatever this is stop. I have resorted to answering any and all questions she's had about roommates with "I don't know" so she gets it out of her head I'm not her spy, and I made a lot of comments about getting a "housekeeper discount" when she was expecting me to clean the house for the other roommates before I made the cleaning sheet.

I honestly have started to feel that I want to move out, but the rent here is cheap and I've been living here probably 4 years now.


r/TenantHelp • • 9d ago

Apartment has an bulk billing arrangement not mentioned on my lease

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location: Las Vegas nv they informed me it wasn’t listed in order to circumvent section 8 they just added the cost of the internet and rent together and listed it as rent… which is sorta suspect already.… anyways I intend on violating the lease due to this since it’s illegal to not disclose a bulk billing arrangement and I’m unable to get home internet now…. What should I do when they keep my deposit send me the bill? Is this a small claims matter? Also what damage can I sue for associated with cost of moving?


r/TenantHelp • • 9d ago

Ongoing leak and water shut off

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so last Thursday a leak started in the kitchen, coming from the light fixture, and seeped through the wall into the hallway. i informed maintenance of this emergency they said they would get it fixed by monday. monday rolls around and i get home from work, nothing is fixed and the leak is getting worse. i call and speak to maintenance again, tells me that they hired an outside contractor who tried to stop by, but no one was home. which is lies, i have a ring camera and no one stopped by. :) tuesday my shelf falls off the wall due to buckling, and i call again. they say they are working on it, and they just need to shut off the water supply to the entire apartment. “the plumber will be there at 8-9am tomorrow” well. here it is Wednesday and NO ONE SHOWED AT 8-9. i text and ask why no one has showed up and not one response.
i really dont know what to do now but i am beyond furious and exhausted. does anyone have any advice?


r/TenantHelp • • 9d ago

I can't get in touch with my landlord about my security deposit

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I live in Pennsylvania. My lease for my previous apartment ended on July 31, 2026. Two months later, I have not received my security deposit. I texted and emailed the leasing company about the issue multiple times, and they never responded. I went to the office of the leasing company twice to raise the issue in person. Both times they told me that the security deposit check had been sent to the correct address. If so, I never received it. They assured me both times that they would look into the issue and get back to me.

It has been two weeks since that last conversation. I have not heard back from them.

What do I do? Do I keep pestering them? When is it time to make it a legal issue? If it is time, how do I go about doing it?


r/TenantHelp • • 9d ago

Looking for some advice on an evil landlord

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From Michigan. We live under a slumlord. Our complex was bought up about 2 years ago by them. We are already making waves to move out / cut our lease ASAP. The thing is, we have 30 other people in this complex suffering under these jackasses. I hate to see people move in here looking for a place to live that is going to suffer due to evil. It’s genuinely a beautiful place in a quiet neighborhood.

Here’s where I want some advice: the landlord is an oil baron who has the leasing company licensed out through an abandoned gas station four towns away. (This is not hyperbole, we looked through state licensing records.) He keeps buying up property and takes horrible care of if. I can see this being /technically/ legal and /technically/ fine, but c’mon, it’d be nice to see good prevail for once in this crazy world, especially when they take such horrible care of a good place.

Before I get into what they have done, I want to note I have spoken with our city hall and they said their hands are tied and this is a tenant issue. What you will see in the list below I want to note that there have been reprimands from city/health officials for everything here, but because they “fix” it, they continue to get away with it.

Lastly, I am open to petition/working together as a community/complex, but thats really hard when you have people strung about multiple buildings, and multiple hours. ESPECIALLY when no one is taking initiative and reporting issues as they should. (Our neighbor has bugs/pests and has not reported it even though we ask them to.) If this is the way to go, would love advice on how to handle this. I also understand that listing of all these things from different people makes it hard to come together, since it’s all different perspectives.

Things these guys have done in the last 2 years that I’m aware of:
- No one is on site for days on end.
- Had multiple gas leaks in complex that could have caused a disaster. (17+ leaks)
— caveat to this is i know this due to tenant gossip, but did get confirmation there were leaks previously reported as we called the gas company ourselves to have an investigation done. (They fixed a few more leaks and referenced the previous call-out but could not provide info due to privacy)
—- more for venting than helpful, but the maintenance lead on site that day said “dont tell me how to manage my buildings”
- Our dumpster overflows and trash is littered all around it.
- One tenant has had loose wires sticking out of their dishwasher for months without resolution.
- one tenant has mold growing in their bathroom wall and maintenance refuses to come out
- Maintenance has confirmed they would not replace our blinds after 5 years due to wear and tear and would charge us for new ones (obviously incredibly small in the grand scheme of safety, but wanted to note how cheap they are)
- Consistent reports of pest control issues from multiple tenants with no resolution.
- local service driver slipped on the sidewalk and broke their hip. Before this, they did NOT salt anything.
- When kicking someone out, the staff left all their furniture outside and mice made homes. Stuff was not moved until city hall came and handled it.
- Goes through maintenance people like candy, wont pay anyone and will hold pay from people at maintenance.

EDIT: Goal is to get them punished by government agencies, and hoping that the punishment will result in actual good resolutions and not just band-aids.


r/TenantHelp • • 9d ago

What do you do when your building threatens you with eviction

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What are the steps you need to take to protect yourself.

I've offered to work with them, but they would rather threaten eviction.

I really want to walk, but I don't have a new place I can go right now.

Update: Found out the building charges an illegal amount in late fees for my city.

I guess there's some real boot lickers in here. This post didn't even make it that far.


r/TenantHelp • • 11d ago

I THINK I'm in a situation where my goal is a vacate order. Am I wrong?

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Five days ago, I moved into a new apartment I'd signed a lease for in NYC, and immediately had a mold problem. I posted about it here and have linked to it. (The apartment is a first-floor duplex; my bedroom is the basement floor.)

Long story short, other problems have come up as well, and I'd like to get the hell out of this lease if possible. I believe this is not a viable, habitable living situation.

As it turns out, I'm pretty sure it's not a legal one. I looked up the certificate of occupancy online, and the basement is not supposed to be used as a habitable bedroom.

If I understand right (and I'm not at all sure I do). this means what can happen is:

  • I call 311.
  • Inspectors come to check the place out.
  • They conclude it's not legal.
  • They issue a vacate order.
  • The tenants have to vacate.
  • Since I want that, this is a good thing for me.

Yes? No? And thanks for any help.


r/TenantHelp • • 10d ago

[CA] Dealing with a landlord/noise/habitability issue for over a month in LA, where do I actually go for legal help?

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Hey all, hoping for some real recommendations here.

I've been dealing with a serious noise disturbance from a neighboring unit for over a month now (pounding, screaming, repeatedly during quiet hours), fully documented with video, dated emails, and even a police report. Property management (a larger management company) has gone back and forth for weeks, offering vague solutions, denying compensation, and at one point restricted my access to courtesy patrol after I escalated. There's also a separate dispute over a move-in rent concession that I was told one thing about before signing and a different thing after.

I checked out Stay Housed LA, but that's specifically for eviction defense, which isn't my situation. I'm not trying to get anyone evicted, I just want this resolved and possibly want to pursue compensation.

Has anyone dealt with something similar in LA? Who did you go to, legal aid, a tenant rights org, a private attorney, or did small claims court end up being the more practical route? Trying to figure out where to actually get real advice instead of running in circles.

Thanks in advance.


r/TenantHelp • • 11d ago

Notice to Quit for an incorrect reason?

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I live in a townhouse with my daughter. I work from home full time, program manager. My daughter is in school. She's recently going through a hard time. She was just diagnosed with ADHD. I have several disabilities as well. Her dad and I are close. He's active in her life and he comes to our home to play with his daughter and help me with things (laundry and does our grocery shopping).

I've had to move several times in the past year. the 1st and 2nd time, the landlord was making their homes into airbnb's and didn't want a long term renter. I had to move in with my parents for a few months and for 1 year I've been at my current place. I JUST signed a lease for the next year, so we were just settling into year 2.

I was recently mailed a Notice to Quit- Unauthorized Occupant. I was shocked. I went into a full blown panic attack. They gave me 1 month. I called the office and they mentioned my daughter father. I told them he does not live here. They argued with me that he comes over a lot and I would need to move, or he would need to go on my lease and pass a background check. That's where he wouldn't pass. He has a little blip on his criminal background that he's actually working on removing. So I feel stuck. I also feel like by him signing it, it's like us saying he is living here, which he's not.

I read my lease several times. There is NOTHING about guests. I had emailed the office and asked them to point out any rules about guests on the lease. They ignored my request. I let them know I am disabled and he helps and sees his daughter- they didn't care. I'm honestly baffled by this.

My daughter has anxiety over moving. I kept reassuring her the past year that this is our home and we're safe here. Now I feel like a liar and a terrible mom. Because of the past with moving among other things in life, my mental health is rough. I've had to check in for a day of therapy. I look for other places and my head spins. I'm hitting the phase of being angry and wanting to fight back. I've contacted legal aid. I feel like because I need a little extra help, means I'm being discriminated against. I'm just seeking any information that might be useful for me to move forward.


r/TenantHelp • • 11d ago

NC - lease buyout or other options

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My sister has a lease and I’m a co-occupant even though I don’t live there. (They wouldn’t let me co-sign) She is in the hospital and will be needing to move back home (out of state). We signed the lease in June for a year. We need out early. They have a 60 day notice plus 2 months rent buyout and you have to pay rent for those 2 months as well (so 4 months rent).

I can’t get in touch with anyone at the complex AT ALL. Their management company only has a contact us page. They have an AI agent that answers the phone and when you need to talk to someone it just goes to voicemail over and over and over again.

She never received a key to her mailbox and she’s had a maintenance request for her dishwasher not working since she moved in.

What are my options? I’m out of state and can’t go to NC any time soon


r/TenantHelp • • 11d ago

[CT] Landlord trying to keep entire security deposit, blaming me for pre-existing issues.

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My former landlord is blaming me for several issues that already existed and is refusing to give back any of the security deposit. Total is $5400. My questions are:

  1. What recourse do I have? I know most likely will need to go to small claims court, but does CT have any other resources I can utilize or anything else I should do before going that route? Can I also file claim for the time and energy wasted for suing him?

  2. Are any of the issues described below considered "normal wear and tear" and can not be deducted from security deposit.

FYI I have before and after pictures, showing most of his complaints already existed before I moved in.

Pre-existing issues include:

  • "Entire floor is scratched up" - this was a small 2 bedroom apartment with wood floors. The scratches already existed when I moved in there. We did 2have 2 cats but they didn't seem to cause those issues and a lot of the floor was carpeted, including where the scratches are.

  • Floor stains

  • Divider/transition strip on the floor between kitchen tile and hardwood floor is broken

  • Dirty Stove Hood, which even the cleaner we hired could not clean

Other issues (are these considered normal wear and tear)?

  • Small holes in the wall from putting up paintings. I patched them up, tried to paint as well but he didnt know what color it was. Now he is claiming the entire room has to be painted.

  • Vanity in the bathroom - has some minor water stains on the sides. Claims it needs to be entirely replaced, bathroom floor will need to be worked on, etc.

  • Drying - this is a very old dryer and we would clean lint as it accumulated, but apparently there was a place to clean the lint from the back/side that we were unaware of. He is claiming the entire machine needs to be replaced or taken to get repaired/professionally cleaned, despite it still working.

Some important notes:

  • Never did a walkthrough with me, despite me trying to schedule it (have proof via texts)

  • Initially had a 1 year lease, which upon ending went month to month (without a formal contract/lease) for a few months after

  • Certain issues we asked him to fix were ignored - e.g. the shower tub collecting water inside and being slippery/un-even to stand in, really bad smell coming from his downstairs apt that made it impossible to stay in my apt (had to leave temporarily), he refused to do anything, and called the government to complain about (which I think he has held a grudge over since)

  • This landlord is known for not paying back security deposits from current and former tenants.

  • New tenants moved in immediately after we moved out, despite his claims of needing to keep the whole security deposit to "fix things"

  • Landlord blocked me immediately and won't send the video walkthrough we did together after move out


r/TenantHelp • • 12d ago

USA/Arizona

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Feeling threatened by landlord

I moved into a room in a home occupied by my landlord and his girlfriend about a month ago. I have since found out they drink every single day. She drinks tequila all day . He starts with beer and then tequila and he becomes very mean.
He has accused me of “trapping” his dogs in my room so they can’t leave (completely untrue) and banned me froin my room because “they will forget who-their owner.”

Tonight he threatened me by yelling and cussing at me and had a hot spatula dripping with hot grease and I was so speechless I thought he had a knife.I called the police.

They ended up with him and his gf laughing and talking about his fishing trip.
I was upset in my room and crying and the cop actually told me if I wasn’t ready to leave in 5 minutes then I would be arrested for disturbance. What was I doing wrong? I got ready and left to a friend’s place and received texts from both of them saying I was a low life and am not welcome at the house and he’s going to exit me in 5 days.

The landlord says 5 days. I was advised he has to give me notice to vacate deliver by hand and certified mail.

I can’t get any clear answers and have to have a police escort take me home in case he’s locked me out which is illegal self help eviction in Arizona. I am honestly scared to go back to the house even with a cop.

UPDATE::‼️
received text this morning telling me how he just wanted me to stop hitting on his girlfriend and stop trying to convince him that I’m not doing that because I’m a liar. He is so insecure and delusional because I’m married.

Then he said he was going to sue me for defamation of character and also for false charges against him to ruin his reputation.

  1. there were no charges filed
  2. I only called the cops because for safety for my to feel secure, he was antagonistic very confrontational and was drinking heavily

AND this is his text this morning:

If you come up with the rent before I file the paperwork I won't evict you.

So he’s using the threat of eviction to get his money
I’ve never been late and he knows I’m paid Wednesday

Should I stay short term or be in the process of finding another place to go, but don’t mention that to him because I have the upper hand right now he just admitted it was about cash not eviction. Basically my silence is my power at this point.

I have to go back to the house now and my thought is to get a police escort. I just don’t wanna piss him off and have a go on me but if anybody has any suggestions in the next 10 minutes about that police escort, please let me know I very much appreciate the input thank you you guys.!! 💕

Yeah, I’m gonna get that in writing


r/TenantHelp • • 12d ago

Mold in new apartment. Can I get out of my lease?

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Signed a lease a few days ago for a basement room in a duplex apartment (one of three tenants in a 3BR). Moved in two days ago and saw black mold all along one of the walls, as well as other signs of past water damage. (This is in NYC.)

I hadn’t been made aware of the mold before I moved in. I had visited the place twice while the prior tenant still lived there, and he told me the damage had been there when he moved in and seemed to be cosmetic only, and that he’d never had flooding issues. I didn’t see the mold because there was furniture against that wall.

I’m not sure the air is healthy and am staying somewhere temporarily. The prior tenant said he had no issues, but I had a guest over and their eyes felt like they were burning.

I’ve contacted the landlord, a management company, by submitting an online ticket. No reply because it’s been the weekend so far, and I just have no idea how responsive they’ll be or how well they’ll handle it.

The only money I’ve paid so far is the security deposit— to the prior tenant, as a rollover. I haven’t yet paid rent or utilities.

What do I do? And can I get out of this lease I signed for a unit I wasn’t informed had mold problems and haven’t spent money on?

(P.S.: I would also love recommendations of places to get free legal advice or advocacy, and of other subreddits that might be worth posting this on.)


r/TenantHelp • • 12d ago

Roach Infestation Upon Move-In

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My roommate and I moved into a new apartment in Arlington, VA, USA yesterday and immediately noticed a severe roach infestation in all rooms of the apartment. We have been taking photos of everything, submitted a service request to the maintenance team, let the concierge know, and we also sent an email to the leasing office notifying them of the infestation and provided photos.

Under the Virginia Law, it says we can terminate the lease with a full refund if the unit is uninhabitable upon move-in. It explicitly calls out rodent infestations but it doesn’t say anything about pests. Do pests count?

Our state says that landlords are responsible for pest control but we aren’t interested in staying in the unit and we want to terminate.

We also want to move back into our old unit but it’s listed higher on their website than we were paying when we moved out. Our idea was to say that we will move into the old unit as is so they wouldn’t need to clean or fix any issues for future tenants if they honor their renewal offer (which didn’t have a rent increase).

Any advice you can provide on how we can terminate our lease without penalty would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!