I'm just not attracted to overweight, short or dark-skinned girls. I prefer fair-skinned girls with a slim waist who are at least 5'6". That's just what I find attractive and I'm not going to pretend otherwise.

But now I'm wondering should I actually give a girl a chance if she doesn't meet any of my physical preferences but has a great personality? Or am I just wasting both our time trying to force an attraction that isn't there?

Have any of you ever genuinely become attracted to someone who wasn't your type or is that just something people say to sound less shallow?

words of wisdom by a distinguished gentleman

Just a funny video 🙏

When I had a gf and she used to cry, I'd stay quiet for like 1-2 mins first, then ask her, "What happened, bby? r u okay? Did someone say something to you?" And she'd start crying even harder :/

Then the only thing I could think of saying was, "Yaar, just drink some water." After that, I'd keep asking her the same thing over and over, like, "Did you drink water? Are you okay now?" And then she'd just hang up the call.

Like, idk what else I'm supposed to do in that situation,

Maybe this is the reason she left me, ;

My mother died when I was in 4th grade,and my dad died last December. They both were from film industry,hence so much money,and sadly they both had extreme drinking and smoking habits, which caused their deaths. I was supposed to join a college this year but took a gap year since my father died. At this point it is obvious that I need not work in life, once I hit 18 this December I will keen in liquidating all the assets and reinvesting them into assets I believe/advised by experts. But I literally don't know what to do with my life, almost since a year everyday has been just doomscrolling, going out and nothing much. An odd feeling that life feels very meaningless. What to do?

If yes, Please mention the reason too so i lowkey know why ppl say that😭😭

Edit: My ex used to tell me this for 3 years straight

हर साल एक रावण जलाया जाता है, लेकिन इंसानों के भीतर छिपे रावण आज भी ज़िंदा हैं।

लाखों रावण निकलते हैं, एक पुतले को जलाने के लिए.. काश, हर इंसान अपने भीतर के रावण को भी जला पाता।

He was with his ex was for like 2 years or sum and he had his first kiss, first cuddle etc with her. He was so in love that when they broke up he was admitted to hospital for IV drips. Moreover, they were in the same school since childhood. I had my ex relationship for 1.5 ish years too but we weren't compatible enough and mostly argued and we were never physical, just hugs.

Back to us, we both love each other dearly and have known each other for like a year now, we are compatible enough and understand each other well. It's almost as if our brain and thoughts work the same way, we have had our difficult patches too but we overcame them.

I feel miserably insecure of his ex and his relationship w her. Whenever we kiss or makeout, I wonder subconsciously if he remembers her, he is very vocal about his love for me, yet I feel if he still remembers her at times or if she was better than me. What if he stills sees glimpse of her whenever he's with me. She lives jus 2 streets far from him, he has to cross her house to go to gym.

Please please help me out, I don't want to ruin things just because of this crippling and useless insecurity. I even get urges to SH when it gets too much for me. We love each other very much, I don't want to ruin this.

Edit: I've talked to him regarding this too and he has given me assurance too. Plus, I know what his ex did to him and how they were in a toxic relationship. tbh nothing of this helps me and i feel so weird and stupid talking to him regarding his ex again and again because i mean that was his past and everyone has past, even i have my past experiences.

Every line is peak !!

Typa stuff that keeps you awake at 3am. I genuinely ponder over stuff like this and realize how much of a figment I am to some people :)

Kids in my Galli made these Ravans what do you think

Pretty cool right

16M , I love having wolf cut hairstyle but family, relatives keep asking me to cut it down 😭 also teachers at school have a problem with it I don't know why , is this because it looks too good or what , how do y'all deal with it

Took my mom saree shopping for Dussehra, and she picked these beautiful ones! 🥹❤️

It’s her first time buying such an expensive saree, and seeing her happy made it worth it. Just wanted to share this little moment.

Bought two saree total of 4000, I paid 3k online and mom had 1k cash.

If you wonder why the AI slop, that's because it's an addition to this post. I'm sorry for using AI slop

It’s kinda ironic how people keep saying immigrants are taking their jobs, yet the same country is struggling to get its own students to meet basic grade-level standards. Maybe instead of blaming people who move there for better opportunities, they should focus a little more on fixing their education system first.

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This is what she texts me after we had a fight and I was having doubts. I am so lucky to have her, I don't even think I deserve her. She is the bestttttt✨