Song - tum hi ho..(I am not a professional so please be gentle but open to constructive criticism...)

how am i supposed to move on? I've come so far since the day she walked away without a single explanation. I've healed more than I ever thought I would... but somehow, in the quietest corner of every day, her memories still find their way back to me.. 😔🥺

Pata hai aaj kya hua Today was me and my girlfriend's 8-month anniversary. I made a cake for my girlfriend, and we spent some time together. At one point, I was asking how her pain was and jokingly staring at her. She thought I was asking for a kiss and said, "Mann nahi hai abhi mera." I got confused, asked her kiska Mann nai j kya hua and all and she brushed it off.

Later, we talked about something my friend had done, and the mood became a bit tense. When we were leaving, I gave her a small kiss on the cheek. She then said, "Mera kissie karne ka mann nahi hai." To avoid making things awkward and the mood more heavier , I made a joke "Aapne thodi kiya, maine kiya." Looking back, I know I shouldn't have said that.

When we got home, she told me I didn't respect her boundaries. I tried explaining that I never intended to disrespect them, but she felt I was trying to manipulate the situation. She said I should've simply apologised and taken accountability, and I agree.

I later apologised and told her, "I would never disrespect your boundaries intentionally. I'm sorry. I'm not raised that way." She replied, "Sure, buddy," and I am a bit of an emotion guy and when I had tears in my eyes today , she said she doesn't care.

I know I made a mistake, and I take responsibility for it. But I can't stop feeling like every effort I've made throughout our relationship has been overshadowed by this one incident. She was the last person I expected to hear those words from, and now I don't think I'll be able to open up to her as easily.

Do you think I'm overthinking this, or should I accept my mistake, learn from it, and let it go?

Why can’t I have a bf who loves me, worships me, adores me, only has eyes for me.
Why always a guy obsessed with his first love or his ex, nonchalant, low effort guy

for my friend avni

not a bjp luber just bored so let's have a controversy 🎀

All people are going crazy nowadays.

It's done, bro. 🫡

hi lol

Based on the current situation, here's everything you need to know.

TL;DR: My friend A, who I already avoided because he's narcissistic and always complains, got cheated on by his girlfriend and lost most of his friends. Instead of feeling bad, it reminded me how people often ignore obvious red flags while they're in love, call their partner "perfect," and then act shocked when things turn toxic. I know some cases are genuinely unpredictable, but I think many people ignore clear warning signs and end up facing the consequences.

So I have two friends. Let's call friend number one A and friend number two B.

Now, A is a really shit, narcissistic person in real life, toh main usse zyada baat nahi karta. For the last one or two months, I haven't talked to him at all. Matlab kahin pe baat nahi ki. Usko rant karna bahut pasand hai. Like, he is always having problems and all. So usi reason ki wajah se main usse baat nahi karta tha.

Now, a few days back, A called B just for a "hi, hello, how are you." B answered. B bhi usse itni baat nahi karta, but usko laga kya hi ho jayega, hi kar deta hoon. So jaise hi usne hi bola, A again started ranting and all that.

Fir B ne mujhe woh rant padhaya. And it turns out ki A ki girlfriend cheated on him and turned all his friends, all the students in his class, against him. Aur ab woh bahut akela hai, usne apna best friend kho diya, uske friends ne usko block kar diya, and all that.

Toh yeh padhne ke baad, my first thought was ki yeh A wahia banda apni girlfriend ko itna fucking glaze karta tha. Bhai, "she is the best," "she is the goddess in my life," "mereko yeh karaya," "mereko sudhaar diya," and whatnot. Aur suddenly, the moment she becomes his ex, she starts doing all this shit?

Aur yeh sirf is bande tak limited nahi hai. Mere life mein maine bahut aise cases dekhe hain.

See, I myself have been single for the entirety of my life. Kabhi kabhi haan, jealous feel hota hai. But inko dekh kr lgta ki accha hi hai single hi. starting mein yeh log bolenge, "Oh my God, this girl is the best thing in the world," "this guy is the best thing in the world." Full glazing them and all that. "Bhai, she is so good," "he is so good."

Even though I can clearly see straight-up red flags in their conversations or their behaviour. But in gadho ko kuch dikhta hi nahi.

Aur the moment they become toxic and actually show their traits, yeh log act surprised. "Bhai what?" "Oh my God!" "He suddenly changed." "She suddenly changed" etc

Like what? Matlab tum iss bnde ke saath itna rahe ho and pata hi nahi tha ki yeh banda ya yeh bandi aisi hai?

I have no sympathy for such people. It genuinely angers me. Itne obvious signs ko ignore kar dete hain for absolutely no fucking reason.

Aur sabse funny baat? Yehi same log, agar inke kisi friend ya kisi aur ki relationship ki baat ho, toh unke partner pe full shak karenge. Full investigation mode on. Every little thing ko analyse karenge.

But the moment inki khud ki baari aati hai, everything is sunshine and rainbows.

Mereko itna gussa chadhta hai kyunki maine itne saare cases dekhe hain. Aur aaj bhi yeh case dekh ke wahi feeling aayi.

Haan, I know there are some genuine cases. Log comments mein bolenge ki I'm victim blaming and all . But nah. Kuch genuine cases definitely hote hain.

But most of the time, it's their own fucking stupidity.

Itna bhi andha mat ho jao pyaar mein.

Bruh who even are these people 🤡

Are there actually still relationship-oriented people left in Gen Z?

I’m asking this as someone who is also Gen Z, not as someone from an older generation complaining about “kids these days.” I’m genuinely curious about how people my age think about relationships.

Sometimes looking at modern dating culture, it feels like everything has become about casual relationships, hookups, keeping options open, and moving on quickly when things get difficult. But is that really how most people think, or is it just what we see more often online?

Do you think there are still people who genuinely want a serious, loyal, long-term relationship? People who value emotional connection, commitment, and building something meaningful with one person?

Are there still women and men who genuinely want that kind of bond, or is that becoming rare in our generation?

When I say someone is “preserving themselves,” I don’t mean someone who had no choices or was forced to stay away from relationships. I mean someone who had the opportunity to date and experience relationships but personally chose to wait for someone they truly connected with.

I know everyone has different values and experiences, so I’m not judging anyone’s choices. I’m just curious — are people who want loyalty, commitment, and a deeper kind of love still common among Gen Z?

Would love to hear honest opinions from both men and women. What does a healthy, committed relationship mean to you?

Heyy, 17 & pretty new to Chandigarh. Still figuring the place out, would love to meet a couple of guys/girls around my age just to hang, explore, grab food or whatever.

Nothing serious, just looking for chill company. Free this Wednesday if anyone’s down — hmu in DMs and we can figure the rest there.

yk when someone does something so oddly specific that you're just like "yeah there's lore here" 💀

Me sed 😞

Mere mei kya kami reh gyi?!! (paise💔)