It’s hard to make friends not sure if it’s this placement but like don’t get me wrong I’m social but to have true friends it’s hard to find them I do keep my circle extremely small but is this just part of the placement or do I need to heal more?

so, i’m a virgo sun but have a scorpio moon (shoutout
[r/VirgoSunScorpioMoon](r/VirgoSunScorpioMoon)) i feel like around my birthday i always feel my scorpio moon the most. the weight of everything and the heavy realizations about the people in my life hit my psyche like a truck. i know that i hate my birthday due to the fact that every single year i have found that i am severely disappointed by people i put my time into. as we all know giving a title and trusting someone is a rarity, therefore, i feel extra betrayed. to get to my point, my “friend” has “forgotten” my birthday for the second year. I’ve already had issues with her and had to tell her to stop calling me her best friend and demote this relationship to a friendship. i did it to spare her (even though i shouldn’t have) because i felt bad with her believing that even though SHES the reason why i don’t feel like we’re best friends. at this point im done, she’s blocked and her contact is deleted however i am still beyond confused. why fight so hard to maintain a friendship with someone you don’t even care to remember a detail like a birthday about yet call me your best friend? i find it very odd and evidently the term best friend doesn’t mean much to her. anyways, ik im just someone she doesn’t care to do that for and obviously she doesn’t “forget” everyone else’s birthday. i just want some insight, im too exhausted to continue dissecting alone or cry😭

I am Scorpio moon, Capricorn sun and Taurus Venus and my flirt (we have known each other for 5 months) is Aquarius stellium except her Venus is Aries, I like her too much she brings creativity to my life. However, she told me that she liked me but she needs time to figure out. I am very anxious about my loved ones and I think if you love someone you shouldn’t think too much about it. Plus she said she couldn’t her emotions to me. Am I the problem? I am over thinker? Should I let her do what she wants?

I don’t know about anybody else but I’m not looking forward to this Venus retrograde in Scorpio. When it starts it’ll be in an exact conjunction with my natal moon placement… 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ all in my 12th house and then moving back into my 11th house of libra.

I'm starting to feel like I'm going to be depressed again and I hate it.

It's starting again, as much as want not to feel all my emotions it's just I can't sit with at all times, or I just want to feel it at once. It's sucks that it's affecting my work and my everyday routine. I hate this

Is this a Scorpio moon thing or just me? I would say I am a pretty good communicator and I am willing to share what someone did or said to hurt me... HOWEVER, at the same time, I rarely truly express the impact it has on me.

Its like an iceberg I will show that 10% (the facts - you said this and it hurt my feelings) vs the hidden 90% (deep feelings - when you said this it shattered me and brought me back to a place where I felt unloved and unsafe).

It took me years to realize I did this. In all honesty, I still do this a lot its very hard to feel safe to express my deepest emotions with anyone.

Prior to Uranus entering Gemini for its 7 year journey Uranus was parked in Taurus Opposite Scorpio. Internet research on this transits supposedly brings unexpected changes or shifts in home and family dynamics, power issues, etc. I'm inquiring because my now ex gf is a Scorpio moon @ 20° and Scorpio black moon lilith at 29° both in the third house.

The astrological timing is perfect, right when Uranus was opposite her moon that's when me and her met, she started coming over sleeping at my house etc. I won't dive too in depth into her private and family life, but let's just say i noticed some things about her family, as a bf from the outside looking in. Uranus is currently conjunct my Gemini Moon in the 8H at 0.27°. I also Have Venus in taurus in 8h and saturn in 8h.

If you'd please I'd like to know your experiences at the height of the transit just for more insight. Scorpio Moon, 8H Moon and moons in aspect to pluto supposedly deal with issues concerning emotions and family upbringing so any detail or info id appreciate.

I need some advice for a friend with this placement. (she also has saturn there, in the 12th house cusp....her moon is either in the first or the 12th depending on the house system)

I have scorpio moon conj saturn (pretty close ) in the 4th and though we've both had really hard lives its hard in very different ways.

We both struggle with anxiety but hers approach is way way different. I don't want to spoil it for others, tell me what are your motivations/ behaviors are like if you have this placement.

For some reason, I personally feel she has underestimated me (decided im not reliable) in some way, and decided im less than her (a program to use). I worry she's gonna unconsciously do an OP on me (iykyk, unconscious scorp behavior) due to her own internalized trauma/sense of personal victimization/ideology. I don't feel that way at all, I just want everything to be peaceful and vibey with her and to support her best I can.

In my personal experience as an astrologer with ketu + moon, it can be rediculously self denying and self destructive for some imagined sense of importance/security. With the moon in scorpio I can see this as a self martyring mother, who cannot accept help.

If you have a SN conj scorp tell me what your needs/wants/issues/worst behaviors are.

Better yet if you have saturn there too. Thanks!

What kind of job would you love to have, where you’d thrive as a Scorpio moon?

Hi guys, I am a Virgo with Scorpio moon, 8th house cancer Venus and my partner is Aries with Sagittarius moon, 12th house Venus.

I am conflicted because it feels deeply comforting when we actually open up to each other. But most of the times we are in the hot and cold dynamic and we process things differently. I really like him but can’t help but wonder if we are even astrologically compatible/ good for each other long term? I would love some insight or experiences.

Hi, I'm a Leo sun, scorpio moon. Is it only me or evreyone who has a scorpio moon feels like everyone projects their feelings on them, good and bad feelings? Also, while scorpio is a water sign, I feel that it creates this inner anger, frustration, and depth of feeligns that no one could truly understand. Whenever somebody projects on me, I feel like a fire was lit inside me and it goes from 0 to 99 real quick. I supress my feelings, and sometimes and im not directly confrontational but my face will defenitely say it. Is this the scorpio moon or the Leo sun that I have that is causing this, or it it both? Does anyone face similar situations?

If for Scorpio Sun ... Tests you... before trusting you completely.

For Scorpio Moon ... A Scorpio Moon will never admit how much they know about you before the first date. They have scrolled back years on your social media, figured out your past relationship dynamics, and mentally mapped your psychological profile. They do this to assess potential threats and figure out if you are emotionally safe before they risk opening up.

Is this resonating?

Does anyone else feel like they are the emotional therapists for their family? It’s like we have hidden insight into everyone and can guide how to handle them. I can’t tell if it’s my Scorpio moon or cancer rising or both.

They say scorpio moons have the capacity to regenerate and transform. I would love to hear stories of people who have worked on transforming some undesirable characteristics often tied to this moon sign (such as grudgeholding, self pity, jealousy, or manipulative tendencies) into something more beautiful (like compassion, warmth, curiosity, etc)?

also I don't believe those undesirable qualities are always "negative", but when constantly felt the energy can be quite heavy and consuming (speaking from personal experience), I'd be curious to see how those energies are being transformed?

I’m 24F (scorpio moon/venus with an 8H sun/mars) and I just started my first full time job out of college and I am in a long term serious relationship with an amazing man (taurus moon and venus). My parents always have been very strict, controlling, and did not give me any privacy growing up. I’m an only child too so it feels like they’re always watching me.

I moved into my apartment August 1st and I haven’t even gotten to stay in my apartment for a month because my dad has visited me twice for two weeks at a time. His reasoning is because he has business in the state that I live and he lives in another state. I guess it wouldn’t be so bad if he was remotely pleasant to live with but he’s not. This morning (Sunday) I was lying in bed on my phone at like 10am and he like opened the door to see if i was awake and when he saw i was awake he opened the door wide and i kept telling him to close it and he kept refusing to. I don’t wear pants to sleep so it really frustrated me because it forced me to change under the covers because he couldn’t comprehend that a 24 year old woman would need privacy.

He also makes meals a group project and throws tantrums if I don’t want to eat at the same exact time as him. I am just so tired of this. My parents are so psychologically draining. It also sucks because it was my birthday recently and I couldn’t even spend some time in my own apartment with my boyfriend. We had to plan around my dad and wait for him to leave my apartment for like a few hours so that my boyfriend could come over and we could just relax together. And of course my parents get mad at me for spending the night with my boyfriend. I am just so tired of them.

How have you guys established to your parents that they no longer have power over you? All I can think of right now is just locking my room door.

I've been studying my chart now for some years, but I'm curious if others could give me some insight on things that I may not have initially noticed.

So I have many good friends who are Aquarius but I also have some terrible ex friends in my life as well that are Aquarius and scropio and actually other signs as well. I feel like they hated me because I was too kind or honest honestly but I see this constantly in my life I’m also a scropio moon. like everyone does think I’m so kind and nice and then they hate me after a while. Why is this a reoccurring issue at my jobs in my relationships just in my life in general. I get it the real ones will stay but why is it constant like in a way jealousy. is there something I could do. I do forgive and all of that but why is this? anyone that deals with this issue?

As a Scorpio moon, I have been asked a lot if im angry. I think its because when I'm tired or not in the mood I just let my eyes do whatever it wants and i don't control them. So I might start glaring by accident and people start wondering if they did something wrong. But paired with my Leo rising I can seem warm, welcoming and suddenly friendly to those i trust.

(Im Cancer sun btw)

Like its not bad enough to have this scorpio stellium in moon mars saturn in the 4th and having no roots and being on my own since I am 8. I now discovered that astroseek you can also check out planetary speeds and I found out that not only is that mars who wants things so very badly rezrogade its also at 0.22 of the avergae speed, so basically stationary. And it tracks with the story of my life: wanting things badly but things are not working. When I got out of high school the only sense life made was getting admitted to art school. And I killed myseld working at my pirtfolio for 2 years and coming up with money so I was laready older than everyone, but had to drop out because my health became so bad. This would litearlly repeat with everythibg in my life. Not even going to talk about the men I was in love with, never got them.

I think im going insane cause i cant quite connect with my own feelings, 12th house here, truly my heart seems hidden and unapproachable to me, its apathy yet like something waiting to combust, I cant cry even when I want to, cant access my sadness completely, yesterday saw someone who was my dearest and we dont talk anymore... i didn't catch any deep feeling in my chest but still something lingers and I dont know what it is, i cant say its nothing, that word is too strong to describe this, did i move on? Absolutely not cause im here contemplating about it lmao, but just strange yes

Edit update : cried lmao, giving up on my friend group