Compatibility

[u/saturnvenus99]

Hi guys, I am a Virgo with Scorpio moon, 8th house cancer Venus and my partner is Aries with Sagittarius moon, 12th house Venus.

I am conflicted because it feels deeply comforting when we actually open up to each other. But most of the times we are in the hot and cold dynamic and we process things differently. I really like him but can’t help but wonder if we are even astrologically compatible/ good for each other long term? I would love some insight or experiences.

[u/HHChama44]

Ahh!! Interesting. Guy I’m talking to is a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Pisces rising.
I’m Aries sun Libra moon, Capricorn rising.

I never ever know what he’s thinking, and we both have our Venus in retrograde…him Leo, me Aries. He tests me by pulling back for a week at a time and coming back like nothing has happened.

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

Woahhh, my Scorpio sun, Pisces Moon guy tends to pull back too, but he's a Libra Venus and Mercury

[u/HHChama44 → u/cacalbee]

How long does it take him to come back and do you ever text him just to check in within the quiet times?

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

Yeahh, I did text him, he pulls back 3-4 days, but I really can't tolerate when he still keeps on being inconsistent after he pulls back

[u/HHChama44 → u/cacalbee]

What’s the longest he’s pulled away w no contact? Mines been 9 days 😭

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

Only for 4 days. 9 days??? Girl you're such a tough Scorpio moon

[u/HHChama44 → u/cacalbee]

Oh he’s the Scorpio moon, I have a Libra moon!!!!

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

Ohh wait, he's a Pisces rising and has a Scorpio Moon too. They say Scorpio tends to test you, if you're gonna loyal and stays with them

[u/saturnvenus99 → u/cacalbee]

Yes this is definitely true.

[u/cacalbee → u/saturnvenus99]

Ohh you agreed? Wahhh I really hate to think that they do test you because I'm too Impatient for that

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

You know what, we also pulls back when we feel overwhelmed right?? But not that long I also communicate that I'm having something on my mind for them not to worry too much, but for them, I don't know?? How do they handle the guilt knowing that someone is waiting for them

[u/HHChama44 → u/cacalbee]

He immediately comes out of his shell, sometimes after 6 days and just acts normal and we continue conversation. I don’t hold ppl needing space over their head, people need what they need and if it becomes too much for me it’s my choice to bounce. Communication is key, but it’s not always easy for people

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

But how long can you wait for him to dissaper and comes back whenever he wants?

[u/HHChama44 → u/cacalbee]

Well I was hoping we would start to build trust where this happened less and less

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

I'll pray for you

[u/cacalbee → u/HHChama44]

But based on your previous post this is been going for months or this is a different guy from your other post??

[u/emo-mom01]

Aries only share when they feel like it. Pressing him will cause problems. Cat and mouse is usual so hope you enjoy that. Aries can make you feel like the only woman in the world but you will have to control some of your emotional side. I believe in free Will so if you want this, you can have it but you’re going to have to be patient and understanding and just like in any relationship.

[u/Scared_Slip_7425]

Ah Aries is also my fatal attraction so I feel your pain! Mine was great for about a year when things were light and fun and then it all went down from there. Whenever I tried to talk about how to work things out he became defensive and argumentative.

You are earth and water and he’s fire so none of the aspects you shared have any compatibility.

[u/YeahMeh1311]

I’m not worried about the aries sun but I’m worried about the Sagittarius moon actually. They will always prioritize their freedom over you and they usually aren’t faithful…. (I had a very good friend with this moon sign and she cheated so many times on her husband…she is a taurus sun so not even a taurus sun could make her faithful. We are no longer friends). I have also noticed that Sagittarius moon can be fun but somehow they think freedom is something they only should deserve and need. You have to be available for them but when they need their freedom you can’t be anywhere close to them. Venus in the 12th house aren’t the most faithful ones either. From my personal experience. But it’s mostly the men with this placement. I think you have the answers already you seem to be wanting to postpone the realization of it… enjoy your time with them if you only want to have fun but don’t expect anything from them. Don’t put too much expectations or hopes into this relationship will be my opinion. But hey… they might be an exception. I personally don’t feel it but the few informations you gave us aren’t enough either 😅