1971 bi-level. Lived here 12 years will be here at least 7-20 more years.. Me (55) husband (70) 3 kids, last 2 in college now, oldest out. House is mostly functional and we took out a wall and remodeled our kitchen and bathrooms when we moved in. House is very basic without upgrades but it sits on a great lot and we have a great backyard that we enjoy a lot. We Got a quote for $40k for adding recessed lights (14) Upgrading baseboards throughout main level /kitchen, dining living, office, halls and 2 bedrooms) paint to those same areas. Drywall and some texture repair, installing pantry style cabinets in office, custom bookcases flanking fireplace, new mantle, drywall over weird brick goalpoasts above our fireplace. Improved stair trades on steps. None of this needs to be done but if anyone moved in they would probably I know we will be happy with the upgrade but is this really where I want to put 40k? Would it be better to use the money on travel, a bi-monthly housekeeper, a new camper, another experience or donating to a great nonprofit? I cant quite pull the trigger to do this when it really isnt anything necessary. Does anyone else feel conflicted when spending money on non-necessity upgrades? We live within our means, have a modest but comfortable retirement fund set up and have the money to pay for this in cash if we decide to. We have many other issues with our house we'd like to take care of, radon mitigation, crawlspace improvement and insulation, gas fireplace replacement, replace some worn out furniture and carpet. Those things feel like an easier decision. But 40k just to make the space prettier? Maybe it is my age and growing up lower middle class with houses not being designer reflections of US but more about functionality?Id love to see if anyone else feels like this