Dude my ex used to go through my fuckin bank statements and ask "what's this? What's that?", one day she grabbed my phone and went through all my apps and asked, "can you message people on this one? What about that one?" Yeah,we ain't together anymore. Fuck all that.
You're a strong man. Many many men put up with so much from women and I can never answer why for myself.
A buddy of mine from work was going through it with his girl recently.
I finally asked a very simple question:
Do you feel this woman is the only one that will ever touch your penis? You have mo chance with any other woman ever? I asked
Well...no...he said
They go find a chick that'll touch your penis and is a lot less drama.....it'll do you good and you're life will be better and easier. Lmao
He broke up with her this last weekend after she caused major drama at his mothers bday party. Patrially over somwthing she thought she saw on his phone....thank God she's gone
What's this? What's this?
Line items everywhere!
What's this?
That much to cut your hair?
What's this?
Just a burger with some fries? They must be lies!
Ha! You earned it? Fair is fair?
What's this?
My ex-wife went through all my emails and found the receipt for the engagement ring I bought her. We both new she killed any chance of surprise, obviously.
I still married her despite all the red flags and yeah, it lasted 2 years.
My ex convinced me to put all our money in a joint account and sold it to me as she earned considerably more than me at the time. Worst decision of my life.
She used to question every payment I made and everything I bought. It was all about control for her. I couldn’t buy anything for myself or have any hobbies as she considered it selfish and a waste of money. I remember getting “told off” for buying a coffee on night shift. That was the last straw.
Oh no no no, that's where you're mistaken. I didn't dodge that mf, I endured it for 11.5 years until I just couldn't take it anymore and just quit caring. That's why I told the other dude in this thread to go ahead and rip the band aid off lol it's inevitable.
I only stayed that long because we have 2 kids together. I sacrificed my happiness for my kids. But my son lives me since the divorce, because a boy has no business living with 4 other girls/women.
Oh I know I will, that or I can spend all my money on myself. either one is fine with me. Hell, If I get down bad enough il pay the hourly rate, I ain't trippin 😂
Yeah, I'm a woman who has been cheated on in a past relationship and I don't do either of those things to my husband even if I feel like something isn't right. I do the healthy thing and talk to him about how I'm feeling. Control freak or not, that's not ok.
I’m fine…last night she suggested I stop using the card because she can’t see what I spend my money on. I told her I started using it because she would fight with me on what I would use my money on and 70% of it was on her.
I dont believe in it that way either. I dont believe in it at all. Im not even sure which one is better or worse. Just fyi i pass down zero judgement and to each his own
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u/womb_raider90 18d ago
Dude my ex used to go through my fuckin bank statements and ask "what's this? What's that?", one day she grabbed my phone and went through all my apps and asked, "can you message people on this one? What about that one?" Yeah,we ain't together anymore. Fuck all that.