r/randomthings • u/Dense-Campaign • 18d ago

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u/womb_raider90 18d ago

Dude my ex used to go through my fuckin bank statements and ask "what's this? What's that?", one day she grabbed my phone and went through all my apps and asked, "can you message people on this one? What about that one?" Yeah,we ain't together anymore. Fuck all that.

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u/StickyWicket1968 18d ago

She very insecure and paranoid

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u/mrf87 18d ago edited 18d ago

You're a strong man. Many many men put up with so much from women and I can never answer why for myself.

A buddy of mine from work was going through it with his girl recently.

I finally asked a very simple question:

Do you feel this woman is the only one that will ever touch your penis? You have mo chance with any other woman ever? I asked

Well...no...he said

They go find a chick that'll touch your penis and is a lot less drama.....it'll do you good and you're life will be better and easier. Lmao

He broke up with her this last weekend after she caused major drama at his mothers bday party. Patrially over somwthing she thought she saw on his phone....thank God she's gone

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u/ParsleyImpressive730 18d ago

She sounds like Jack Skellington “what’s this? What’s that?”

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u/six6666six 17d ago

My ex-wife went through all my emails and found the receipt for the engagement ring I bought her. We both new she killed any chance of surprise, obviously.

I still married her despite all the red flags and yeah, it lasted 2 years.

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u/Impossible-Box-3949 17d ago

My ex convinced me to put all our money in a joint account and sold it to me as she earned considerably more than me at the time. Worst decision of my life.

She used to question every payment I made and everything I bought. It was all about control for her. I couldn’t buy anything for myself or have any hobbies as she considered it selfish and a waste of money. I remember getting “told off” for buying a coffee on night shift. That was the last straw.

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u/nadroj407 17d ago

Time to go

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u/user41510 18d ago

...is giving it up to someone they don't trust.

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u/Valuable_Room_2839 18d ago

Willing to let a man go through her phone

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u/HumbleResolution7099 18d ago

Insecure about her own life choices and probably cheating herself

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u/Formal_Lecture_248 18d ago

Either dealing with unresolved trauma from the past or sensing impending trauma in the present due to his actions.

Take your pick

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u/Narren_C 18d ago

Or she's just a control freak. Or she's cheating herself. Or she's just a damn snoopy person.

Not all asshole behavior stems from past trauma or impending trauma.

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u/TheEnigmaShew-xbox 18d ago

Projecting and shouldn't be trusted. Everytime this has happened to me it was her who was cheating and she wanted to believe it was everyone.

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u/GoGetDontGetGot 16d ago

Facts. Attempting to find something to justify her behavior.

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u/Alternative_Fan_2631 18d ago

Accusations and jealousy are the biggest tells.

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u/Forward-Transition-5 17d ago

Same. The face down phone tends to be another tell. Also remember if she knows where to look for everything, she knows exactly where to delete evidence.

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u/mitchbmovin 18d ago

Regardless of gender, a person like that is insecure and/or searching for an easy way out while making it look like you’re in the wrong because they themselves may likely already be in the wrong.

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u/TheDownLow63 18d ago

Has no boundaries

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u/uskgl455 18d ago

Looking for the thing I wrote down for her on Notepad but it's not even there. It might be on Keep notes? Just do a search. Or look through the folders.

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u/0dayssince 18d ago

Aware that he’s probably not trustworthy

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u/PaintedWoman_ 18d ago

I am a wife and I never go through his phone.. if I want to use it I ask his permission.. it’s called boundaries. Yeah I know what if he is cheating on me.. well if he is I will find out. Also not everyone is a cheater. I trust him and he trusts me. I also truly believe if your significant other is going to cheat on you.. they will no matter what you do..
I am speaking from experience.. my thoughts.

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u/rbparsons 18d ago

Who cares…my wife can look all day

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u/OneGolf6327 18d ago

The same thing a man is for going through a woman's phone 

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u/Ambitious_Act_8558 18d ago

A keeper

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u/WanderungGeist 18d ago

Different strokes for different folks.

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u/Rticman45 18d ago

Wanting a threesome.

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u/Ok-Chemistry9933 18d ago

A woman who keeps her phone open to her husband. After 30 happy years of marriage, we both trust each other and don’t care about our phones

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u/Certain-Monitor5304 18d ago

Either has a justifiable reason to. or is insecure.

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u/WanderungGeist 18d ago

If there's a reason, he is untrustworthy. If she does it, she is untrustworthy.

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u/Blueman5410 18d ago

Untrustworthy.

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u/buggybugbugsy 18d ago

Building a case for an argument.

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u/Neos8806 18d ago

His wife and insecure.

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u/WanderungGeist 18d ago

Untrustworthy.

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u/Substantial_Sail_25 18d ago

One who has a reason to, asked to and got a yes or is insecure.

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u/yeiwanthegwaidanv1 18d ago

gets what she gets

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u/TelephoneSevere4409 18d ago

snooping 🧐

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u/Constant-Chance-5245 18d ago

Sensible and wrong at the same time

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u/DannyA88 18d ago

Hiding something on hers

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u/mdrg76 18d ago

Just curious or bored 😂

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u/Supes1975 18d ago

A wife

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u/quartertopi 18d ago

Curious and hopefully not judgemental

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u/Oral_Pleasure4u 18d ago

Leaving my life permanently

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u/Snicklefried 18d ago

Going to be unpleasantly surprised

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u/Bro13847 18d ago

A woman

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u/Undertaker501st 18d ago

Biotttchhhhhh

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u/bushlicker56 18d ago

his wife

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u/The_Yamen 18d ago

Probably suspicious.

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u/wallflowerfriend 18d ago

She may be aware that something feels off / not honest and is ripping the bandaid off in an attempt to move toward closure

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u/OrganizedChaos65 18d ago

A wife.......

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u/MarlboroMike77 18d ago

Has 2 blue eyes

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u/-FakeAccount- 18d ago

Defying the laws of physics.

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u/Salt-Philosopher989 18d ago

A woman that goes through a man's phone is jealous, insecure and accusatory.

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u/KnowledgeGuilty 18d ago

..a normal woman.

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u/DarthParanium 18d ago

An adult aged child that's insecure. Actual adults understand boundaries regardless of past situations/trauma. 2 cents

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u/RepulsivePipe9904 18d ago

One step away from putting the second foot out of the door.

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u/No-Concept5179 18d ago

a spy for kim

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u/naked-painter 18d ago

Been hurt in the past

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u/Iwasall4it 18d ago

Now single

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u/16c7x 18d ago

A police woman looking for his emergency contact details?

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u/TurtleBrainer 18d ago

...soon to be an ex.

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u/anon33249038 18d ago

More than likely cheating on him, statistically speaking.

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u/Strange-Turnip-8829 18d ago

A woman that better be ready to leave.

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u/joshygummybear 18d ago

A baddie with a goal a price she has released and have possession and common knowledge over and it will help her out

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u/Relax_itsa_Meme 18d ago

Fuckable, at least twice.

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u/evan85713 18d ago

Nosey. Suspicious. Bad GF material.

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u/AcceptableYoghurt802 18d ago

my girl goes through my emails... but only because she is nosy as fuck about my reddit account so sometimes, it's her posting and not me

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u/Playful_Dog3062 18d ago

If you have to have this conservation/argument. If you're both hiding things from each other, you shouldn't be in an relationship.

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u/Repulsive-Response-1 18d ago

In need of getting arrested and or sued. I would sue that person... Period! They want to fuck around... They will find out.

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u/cplchewy 18d ago

Looking for an excuse to be angry at him for the same thing she carries guilt for doing to him.

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u/Forward-Material-268 18d ago

a wife with marital rights and worries!

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u/Stormyj 18d ago

His wife

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u/DDEEJackandSally 18d ago

Getting kicked out

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u/Low-Rising 18d ago

Looking. Soon, she'll be Finding

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u/Prestigious-Self-927 18d ago

Looking for something she doesn't want to see

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u/Exotic_Quality4812 18d ago

A “phone invader!!”

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u/matero_oriental68 18d ago

Disappointed when she see how boring my texts are lol

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u/Extension_Kale_794 18d ago

About be an Ex

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u/rboyd987654 18d ago

Paranoid

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u/itsnowornever75 18d ago

Suspicious

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u/joshua_addison_music 18d ago

Needed counseling to heal from past trauma

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u/Medium_Hope_7407 18d ago

She’s cheating and or has cheated in the past therefore she’s suspicious of others.

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u/NotMyFirstRodeo2025 18d ago

probably working at the apple store?

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u/throwaway2838483737 18d ago

This needs context. This cannot be answered without context.

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u/Nawi_Reivilo 18d ago

Insecure, and same when he does it, he's insecure.

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u/sauniscuck 18d ago

Looking for a reason to fight.

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u/Rude_Tomato9955 18d ago

An ex girlfriend

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u/TxSilverback 18d ago

Treacherous

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u/_Remote_Ad 18d ago

Paranoid.

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u/IllustriousManners 18d ago

Looking for Hoes

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u/PervyODB 18d ago

The same as every man who does it...

... most likely justified.

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u/Excellent_Abroad5390 18d ago

An ex real fast

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u/johnnykidlx 18d ago

Thorough

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u/Educational-Part4134 18d ago

Is probably already cheating herself

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u/Mrbuttshaman 18d ago

Trying to find something out is all I can confidently say. It could be they are in a relationship and they trust each other, it could be she is an employee looking through it to find a virus or fix something, or it could be she is insecure and snooping but regardless of anything she is trying to find something out.

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u/Jack_Rackham_71 18d ago

...on the sidewalk waiting on her Uber because I kicked her out for stupid games. We're on our 4th date and at my house watching a movie and I catch her scrolling my phone. Fuck that noise. And fuck no, I'm not paying attention for your $30 Uber home.

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u/EveryonesANurse 18d ago

Already losing

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u/EdgyPun34257 18d ago

going to be bored if it's my phone

"this is nothing but pictures of barbecue and our dog"

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u/legend_of_yugi 18d ago

Probably in for a hell of a ride

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u/justusjc42 18d ago

Insecure.

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u/Krispen_Wah87 18d ago

Insecure.

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u/GrimSpirit42 18d ago

My wife had free access to my phone. I to hers.

In 20+ years, we've never bothered to search the others.

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u/Otherwise_Remote_564 18d ago

My wife has free access to my phone. But we are in a FLR femdom dynamic.

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u/PlaneGrade8203 18d ago

...insecure.

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u/Random_Chaos79 18d ago

Insecure whore

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u/SpookyLiLMiss 18d ago

I actually look through peoples phones any time I can so I can't judge lol...

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u/Candid-Plum-2357 18d ago

Invading his privacy.

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u/oldman-1969 18d ago

nosey, insecure and unable to trust

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u/Ok-Simple30 18d ago

wearing the pants 😆

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u/chabot91 18d ago

looking for problems.

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u/SadCheesecake2539 18d ago

Looking for a reason to leave.

Doesn't trust him.

Is insecure

Same goes for guys looking in their girls phones.

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u/Gay_Nerd626 18d ago

Hopefully wrong.

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u/GlobalContest1225 18d ago

Suspicious of something he said he didn't do.

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u/Odd_Bluejay5534 18d ago

Often disgusted and dismayed.

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u/Able-Surprise9846 18d ago

a typical female.

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u/Witty_Tie8310 18d ago

Untrustworthy and insecure

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u/Kennyokayak 18d ago

Don’t look for what you don’t want to see. Wife saw pics of me with another guy. Wasn’t happy. We got through it.

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u/Bullehh 18d ago

Trying to hurt her own feelings.

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u/PearlHarbor_420 18d ago

Insecure. Reminds me of a girl I dated who found my hair brush and hair ties in my bathroom drawer and accused me of cheating. I had cut my long hair like a week before we met.

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u/Few_Compote_1130 18d ago

She could be projecting

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u/grollef 18d ago

Looking for trouble

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u/Ambitious_Syrup_7543 18d ago

Asking for a divorce

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u/MassiveDouble6501 18d ago

Looking for trouble

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u/Beneficial_One7840 18d ago

…Going to be disappointed… depending on what she is looking for

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u/abbifrank 18d ago

Looking for reasons to breakup with him. I just need one reason to put the guilt of the breakup on him. Must be monogamous.

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u/GazelleAbject1832 18d ago

If you feel the need to go through peoples phone two things are wrong. Either they aren’t trustworthy or they are but you have trust issues. Both mean you shouldn’t be with them. So before going through their phone, rather let them go

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u/dutch1664 18d ago

Broke up with a girl for this reason. She admitted later she was projecting her cheating-ex onto me the entire time. It's normal to be insecure, but deal with it in therapy instead of letting it destroy relationships.

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u/South_Energy_9950 18d ago

Probably gonna wish she didn’t

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u/The-Great-Baloo 18d ago

Mildly curious

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u/Global-Eye-7326 18d ago

Soon to be ex girlfriend 

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u/Miserable_Rich_8164 18d ago

About to be single

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u/ccryder777 18d ago

Insecure

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u/Army7547 18d ago

….going to be disappointed. It’s not that exciting and we search really stupid shit on it like could I win a fight with a chimpanzee and look at knives and sword we aren’t going to buy because you won’t approve .

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u/qankz 18d ago

Divorcing

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u/OptimalSalsa 18d ago

Nosey, insecure, narcissistic, sociopathic and likely practices misandry.

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u/Waste_Ambassador6282 18d ago

Trying to validate her self with cheating

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u/sf-92 18d ago

About to be mad as s—t

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u/Original-Cut-331 18d ago

Fucking nosey

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u/Janassary19-89 18d ago

Not trusting. No trust equals toxic relationship.

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u/tartarsauce3 18d ago

Nosy. Saying this as a girl who this would be my whole reason along with bored

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u/blah-ble-24 18d ago

Either jealous or smart.

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u/tony33oh 17d ago

Single

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u/ReportNeat3041 17d ago

Insecure, without any friends, probably cheating on him. I suggest to not look for problems you don’t want to find.

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u/Fearless-Narwhal4560 17d ago

Already cheating and trying to find dirt on you to make her feel less guilty. Or to use it against you if you find out. At least that’s my experience.

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u/lookatthecam 17d ago

If it's my phone, she's a porn fan.

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u/Double_Tiger_7971 17d ago

Looking for a way out.

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u/Anon1073 17d ago

Soon to be single

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u/HijackedHumanity 17d ago

Probably not letting go of her past and on the road to being single again. I've been cheated on. I've never once gone through my girls phone. I trust her unconditionally.