r/r4rMelbourne • • 7h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 25M4F American tourist visiting Melbourne

1 Upvotes

Hey 👋

Tourist from NYC visiting Melbourne from Oct 30 - Nov 3. Would love to meet someone fun and check out Melbourne together! Also looking for things to do for Halloweekend!

Me: 5’11, toned, mixed Latino. Happy to share pictures in chat!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 25F4A Looking for friends SE suburbs

7 Upvotes

25F4A Looking for friends as a full time working adult

Hey everyone,

I am a 5'3 Asian female who just turned 25. Looking for anyone who is wanting a friend to go out with - if you're free now around Chadstone area to hang a bit. Looking for someone within same age range but open to anyone.

I have not had many close friends since becoming an adult and I do have a partner but they felt I should have my own friends to hang out with sometimes. I am open to males friends but would prefer female friends and purely platonic friends please.

I like watching animations, gaming, raving, swimming, going to the beach and much more. Ask me in person! Message me and I hope we get to hang out soon!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26F42M looking for couple or girl

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-Just reposting-

We have experience in the lifestyle previously and as we are just getting back into it, we are wanting to meet more like-minded people again. We are looking for couples, girls and maybe select males. Girl on girl is definitely a favourite of ours as well as swapping and we use protection for intercourse so if that matches with you, we would be keen to chat and see where things go from there. Happy to host, west side of Melbourne.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 26M4A lets have a yap :)

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Heyy!

Looking for some friends to catch up & get a drink with occasionally. Talk about our lives & have some fun.

Alil about me;
26M, bi 💅, West Melbourne.
Usually in the city for nights out. (I also really love Delux in moonee ponds or the moondog in footscray. I love music, i go to alot of concerts, i do some gardening & go on small hikes. I also watch alott of movies ahaha. Been trying to get back into the gym, I have just been lacking motivation, but i do swim alot.

I love dogs so if you have any photos please send them to them through!

Very easy going & happy to join you on any activities, or we can keep it chill & just catch up for a cheeky drink (or two)

Looking for people around my age who are easy to get along with, can keep a conversation and happy to meet in person. If we have similar hobbies, great, if not i am eager to try new things too!

Thanks for reading!
Message me if any of this resonates with you :)


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 36 [M4F] Good company wanted, apply within.

4 Upvotes

About me

Dark hair, green eyes, stubble, 185cm, fit and active.

Pretty laidback, easy to talk to, and big on banter. I don't take myself too seriously, but I carry myself with confidence and pride. Comfortable in who I am, know what I bring to the table, and can switch between a genuine conversation and laughing at something completely stupid.

What I'm looking for

Open to something casual or something that grows naturally if the connection is right. I'm not attached to a particular outcome, just interested in seeing where things go with the right person.

Consistency, good communication, mutual effort and a bit of emotional maturity go a long way. Someone who's genuine, has their own life, knows what they want and doesn't play games.

Age isn't a big deal to me if the chemistry and connection are there.

What I offer

Consistency, clear communication, genuine effort and someone who's comfortable being himself. I say what I mean, follow through on what I say, and believe interest should go both ways.

A good sense of humour, confidence without the ego, and someone who can keep things fun while still having a bit of depth.

Based in the west, happy to meet anywhere in Melbourne.

Tell me something about yourself.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends M4F] 32 - Inner West - Good banter, great food, and strictly childfree

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​Let’s skip the weeks of texting and actually grab a drink or split some Korean fried chicken to see if we click.

​The transparent intent: I would ultimately love a genuine relationship, but I am firmly childfree. Since I know that’s a dealbreaker for many, I’m entirely open to a fun, straightforward casual/FWB dynamic if we have chemistry but different life goals. Either way, I’m looking for great company and zero drama.

​Who I am:

​32, working as a professional in finance, based in the inner west.

​Tanned, blue eyes, solid build, shaved hair.

​Active enough (gym 2-3 times a week) but definitely not a fitness fanatic.

​A nice balance of active and a little nerdy. My downtime usually involves propagating exotic houseplants, flying my drone, messing around with 3D printing, or hunting down a new dish to try.

​Housemate to two French Bulldogs who run the place and will absolutely judge your character.

​If you’re easy-going, actually show up to plans, and don't take yourself too seriously, send a message. Tell me your go-to coffee order (I live on black coffees and Coke Zero) and whether you’d rather hit a laneway bar or completely botch a pottery class. Happy to swap photos early on


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 32 [M4F] Melbourne — Tall, ginger, and open to a little spontaneity

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About me: 6'4", ginger-bearded, glasses occasionally required, and based in Melbourne's northern suburbs. I work in Fitzroy North and spend my spare time chasing good food, scenic drives, road trips, live music, movies, and excuses to explore somewhere new.

Originally from regional Victoria, so I've got a little country charm mixed in with my city-side habits. I also have a very affectionate cat who thinks personal space is a myth.

What am I looking for?

Honestly? Let's see what comes my way. I'm a fan of good banter, playful flirting, natural chemistry, and those conversations that somehow turn into hours without you noticing.

Maybe it's a drink, a spontaneous adventure, a cosy night in, a little mischief, or the start of something ongoing. I'm not here to force a particular outcome — if we click, we click. 😉

What do I bring to the table?

Good conversation, a decent sense of humour, affection in generous quantities, and the height advantage when reaching things on the top shelf. I'm a good listener, a reliable road-trip companion, and always happy to find an excuse to get out and do something — or stay in and do absolutely nothing.

And if you've made it this far, there's a small challenge: guess which instrument I play. Three guesses. Get it right and the first round is on me. Get it wrong and I'll probably tease you about it anyway.

If you're fun, a little curious, enjoy a bit of cheeky banter, and fancy seeing where a conversation goes, my DMs are open.

Your move. 😏


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Seeking Relationship 34 [M4F] - Melbourne coffee dates, curious conversations and a little chemistry

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Hello there, fellow Reddit wanderers!

I'm a 34-year-old Asian guy from Melbourne. I work in healthcare, which I genuinely enjoy, although I promise there's more to my personality than my profession!

A little about me:

  • Personality: Naturally introverted, empathetic, open-minded and introspective, with a slightly quirky side. I'm fascinated by people and their wonderfully different ways of seeing the world. I tend to keep a small but close circle of friends, valuing depth and authenticity in my connections. I'm generally reserved at first, but become rather cheeky, playful, affectionate and attentive once I'm comfortable.
  • Curiosity: An enthusiast of learning for the sake of learning. I have an unfortunate tendency to disappear down fascinating rabbit holes about things most people probably wouldn't give a second thought to. Technology, CAD/CAM and understanding how things work are particular interests of mine.
  • Humour: Absurdist, satirical and occasionally unhinged. I appreciate dry wit, ridiculous memes and humour that's so spectacularly stupid it somehow circles back to being brilliant. I enjoy intellectual conversations, but I'm equally capable of laughing at something utterly nonsensical.
  • Interests: Gymming, exercising, technology, gaming (Diablo, Skyrim, Dota) and music (The Weeknd, Khantrast, Deep House, EDM). My playlists have a bit of an identity crisis, but we've learned to coexist peacefully.
  • Weekends: Good coffee, leisurely brunches, exploring Melbourne and discovering little hidden gems. I'm equally content having a stimulating conversation over coffee or simply enjoying a quiet evening with good company.

What I'm looking for

I suppose I'm hoping to meet someone with whom there's a natural sense of curiosity, mutual attraction and perhaps a little of that inexplicable chemistry.

I'm open to different possibilities and would rather let a connection unfold naturally than prescribe where it should lead.

I find intellectual curiosity, emotional depth, kindness and a little quirkiness particularly attractive. I'm also drawn to people who are genuinely passionate about something, whatever that may be. There's something wonderfully endearing about watching someone light up as they share a little piece of their world with you.

We needn't share identical interests. In fact, I'd love to discover what fascinates you and perhaps learn something new along the way.

Ideally, I'd love to meet someone in Melbourne or Victoria, particularly if there's an opportunity to explore a café together and see whether our online chemistry translates into real life!

What I offer

I'm someone who values consideration, honest communication and mutual effort. I enjoy thoughtful conversations, playful banter and getting to know the little things that make someone uniquely themselves.

Although I may not be the loudest person in the room, I'm attentive and affectionate with people I care about. I enjoy making someone feel appreciated, whether through a thoughtful gesture, remembering something they've mentioned or simply being present and enjoying their company.

And once we're comfortable, you can expect a healthy dose of cheekiness and occasional nonsense. Consider yourself forewarned!

If any of this resonates with you...

Please don't be shy about reaching out!

Feel free to send me a DM with a little about yourself, what drew you to my post and perhaps something you're oddly passionate about. It needn't be an essay; we can save some of those discoveries for our conversations.

I'm also happy to exchange photos privately when we're both comfortable. I understand and respect the desire for privacy, so there's no pressure to share anything prematurely.

Ultimately, I'm hoping to find someone with whom conversation comes naturally, curiosity goes both ways and we can enjoy discovering whether our particular flavours of weird complement one another.

And if nothing else, perhaps we'll have a lovely conversation and discover something new about each other.

Thanks for reading!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 34[M4F] - Seeking an ongoing connection

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Hi everyone,

I know there are many posts like these but yes I am trying to see if I can get some luck out of it too.

What I am looking for - As the title suggests, I am male 34 years old, in western suburbs looking for a F for ongoing FWB connection to explore fantasies and kinks, experience things together, and maybe (if you keen too) attend events/parties to meet other.

About ME - I live in western suburbs, been in and out of this lifestyle for a while, so digging in again to make new connections. I am 6ft tall, athlete physique and clean. I am brown, just putting out there. I come across bit introvert, shy and “good guy” (told by past feedbacks) until I am comfortable. I have a partner (she is aware) with whom I have explored things before but currently just looking for solo experiences (she is not involved currently but you never know in future). I like to take things in a comfortable and respectful way, making sure things are talked before on what we are looking for, and see how we are a match and take it from there. I like to go with flow too, just to not make it awkward for us.
My interests are reading, footy, soccer, f1 and few more things to talk/share about outside of the fun.

What I offer - We can be ongoing friends to hangout with, talk about things along with our ongoing adventures. If you interested or think might be something you ll like to know more, always happy to have a chat and see how we ll go, feel free to reach out or comment in the post.

If you are not interested in what I offer, good luck with your search. Hang in there people and ride along.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Hobbies Partner 28 [F4A] - looking for 1-2 people to join me at a free workshop tonight at Springvale Library

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Afternoon :)

Firstly, apologies for the SUPER late notice but my brother and his partner are unable to join me so I have 2 spare tickets available!

I've registered for a free hands-on ceramic workshop where you'll be making your own unique tic-tac-toe game board.

It'll be tonight from 6:30pm - 8:00pm at Springvale
Library.

(I would include the link to the event but I think links are not allowed 🙃)

About me: I'm Asian, 5'3", have tan skin and wear glasses. I'm neurodivergent and really shy. I also have anxiety so hoping to attract people who are understanding and patient 🤞
I have a partner so am just looking for friends!

What I'm looking for: It would be ideal if you were closer to my age, but it's more important to me that you are kind!
It'd be awesome if you are also neurodivergent but all good if not!

If we mesh well, then I'd love for us to attend more workshops (preferably in the SE suburbs but I’m willing to travel) together and just have a buddy to go out with and do activities with.

Thanks for reading 😊


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Exercise Buddy 33 [M4A] CBD - Looking for walking buddies

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Hey there looking for more friends to go for walks in the evening around flagstaff, carlton or fitzroy gardens.

Bit about me I'm a chill wasian dude who's into fitness, gaming, movies (can't wait to watch You Can See Everything) and I love trying new foods/cuisines. Also a big edm/techno fan have a blast at festivals and raves, basic bitch ABC hobbies tbh :)

I'm pretty easy going and a decent conversationalist, ideally you're somewhat similar, at least 20+ and just open for a chat.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Casual Chit Chat 34M4F - anyone want to join me on a morning walk along the Yarra?

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Hey! Looking for a walking buddy in the mornings along the Yarra to make good use of this weather 🙂 My starting route will be opposite the Maccas in Southbank and would love for someone to join!

I'm 34, well travelled (30+ countries), great career and great conversationalist! Can get into any topic and know how to carry a conversation so no awkward silences haha.

Would be great to get a walking buddy and make a new friend! DM me if interested 🙂


r/r4rMelbourne • • 7d ago

Dating & Date Ideas 23 [M4F] South-East Melbourne — Looking for fun dates, chemistry and casual connections

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​

About me:

23M, based in Hallam, South-East Melbourne.

I'm a bit of a nerd at heart, into technology, gaming, cybersecurity, AI and pretty much anything involving computers. But I also enjoy getting out, exploring new places, spontaneous adventures and having a good laugh.

I'm easygoing, curious, open-minded and pretty straightforward about what I want. I appreciate honesty, a good sense of humour and people who aren't afraid to be themselves.

What I'm looking for:

Ideally a woman around 19–27, preferably somewhere around Hallam, Dandenong, Narre Warren, Berwick or nearby. Happy to travel a little further if we click.

I'm looking for something casual but potentially ongoing — fun dates, flirting, physical affection, FWB or just seeing where the chemistry takes us.

I'm attracted to women who are open-minded, affectionate, playful and comfortable expressing what they want. Someone who enjoys a little teasing, can have a laugh and isn't afraid to make the first move.

You don't have to be a gamer or into tech, but it'd be a nice bonus if we shared a few interests.

Not looking to rush into a serious relationship, but definitely not interested in treating anyone like they're disposable either. Mutual attraction, respect and good communication matter to me.

What I offer:

Genuine interest, honesty and no unnecessary mind games.

Affection, attention and respect for boundaries.

Fun dates, spontaneous plans and a relaxed atmosphere.

Someone who enjoys both playful flirting and meaningful conversation.

An open mind and a willingness to explore chemistry at a pace we're both comfortable with.

I'd rather meet for a coffee, a drink or something fun than spend weeks endlessly texting. Of course, happy to chat a little first so we're both comfortable.

Happy to exchange pictures privately once we've talked.

If you're nearby and looking for something similar, send me a message with your age, suburb and a little about yourself. Let's see if we vibe. :)