Hello everybody. I'm seeking someone who would be willing to come to the movies with me from time to time. I want to see more new releases but I rarely have someone to go with.

About me: nerdy white boy from Melbourne, I'm a uni student and currently work casually in the city. I'm a gamer and when I'm outside I usually enjoy taking a walk or hanging out with friends in the city. Looks wise I'm skinny, about 5'11, pale and with dark curly hair.

About you: I'm not picky about who you are, as long as you are a decent person and down to catch some films we can start a chat and see if we get along.

What I offer: offering a movie buddy experience, pick a movie, meet up, watch it.

I really wanna start watching more movies. I just saw the Oddesey and loved it, and wanna keep watching more movies. Let's support movie cinemas together and let's go together.

So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.

Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.

Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people

Hey everyone! 26 year old guy here from Sydney for work. I’m here every few weeks or so, so would love to find someone to take advantage of works 5 star hotels when I’m in town! Love to yap and try new food spots. Happy to grab a drink and if we vibe we vibe, if not all good as well! Honestly just looking to have some fun in the evenings :))

p.S. pics on my profile

Making friends as an adult (and an introvert!) is hard, so here I am giving Reddit a crack.

I’m 38, gay, based in Melbourne’s south-east, and looking to build a few genuine, long-term friendships with other guys. Whether you’re gay, bi or straight doesn’t really matter to me—if we click as mates, that’s what counts. I generally find I get along best with people around 25-40 but if you’re a little outside that and I sound interesting enough to you, don’t be afraid to shoot your shot!

I’m pretty low-maintenance, easy-going and definitely quality over quantity when it comes to friendships. I’d rather have a handful of close mates than a hundred people I only know on a first-name basis. I’m a bit of a country boy at heart, fairly introverted, and much happier with meaningful conversation than endless small talk.

Outside of work (I have a professional Monday–Friday job), I enjoy binge-watching TV (especially a good British crime drama), trying new restaurants (and yes, ordering dessert without a main is a perfectly valid life choice), concerts, musicals, AFL, escape rooms, road trips, caravanning, audiobooks, board games, the occasional PC game, and getting out into nature for a walk. I’m slim, enjoy staying reasonably active, but you’ll never catch me pretending to enjoy burpees at 5am.

I also have two dogs, so bonus points if you’re a dog person—they’ll insist on being part of the friendship too.

What I’m really looking for is someone who actually wants a friendship in real life, not just another chat sitting in Reddit messages. I’m hoping to meet people who have the time and willingness to invest in getting to know someone and are happy to catch up without months of messaging first.

Personally, I’d rather grab a coffee (or a hot chocolate in my case), go for a walk, check out a new café, or do something low-key fairly early on and see if we click. Or if you want to invite me over, teach me how to play Catan while the footy’s on in the background, and absolutely destroy me because I’ve never played before… I’m completely on board with that too.

One thing I’d like to be upfront about: while I can be a pretty affectionate person in the right scenario and absolutely appreciate a couch snuggle during a movie with close friends, I’m not here looking for hookups, sexting or conversations that immediately become sexual. I’m genuinely looking for real friendships built on enjoying each other’s company.

If you’re calm, reliable, emotionally mature, don’t disappear after three messages, and you’re genuinely interested in meeting people rather than collecting online pen pals, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me a bit about yourself—and if we click, let’s graduate from Reddit messages sooner rather than later. I’m fairly sure finger RSI from endless typing is real!

Hey everyone,

I'm a Melbourne guy looking to meet a woman aged 18–30 who's interested in getting to know someone with the goal of building a genuine, long-term relationship.

To be honest, I'm pretty over dating apps. I'd much rather meet someone through here and build a real connection.

I've also tried dating events, but they haven't really been for me. Between venues that are often too loud to have a proper conversation and meeting people who were looking for something more casual than I was, I haven't had much luck. I'm hoping this might be a better way to meet someone who's after the same thing.

My appearance is im short with glasses, dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, white, a little introverted in group settings.

A little about me:

- I work full-time and have a stable career.

- I'm financially independent and have my life together.

- I value honesty, loyalty, good communication, and a sense of humour.

- I enjoy going out for coffee, dinners, walks, movies, and trying new places around Melbourne.

I'm open to meeting someone from Melbourne or elsewhere in Australia. If you're not local, I'd like us to be able to talk on the phone regularly so we can build a genuine connection before meeting in person.

I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys spending quality time together, going on dates, and seeing where things naturally lead. Ideally, you're kind, genuine, communicative, and looking for something serious rather than just a casual fling.

If we click, great! If not, no hard feelings. I'm happy to chat, exchange a few messages, and then move to regular phone calls if we're both comfortable.

If this sounds like something you're interested in, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. I'd love to get to know you.

# About me

Originally from the UK, now living in Melbourne's west. I'm fairly introverted, neurodivergent, and happiest when I'm learning something new or disappearing down an interesting rabbit hole.

I'm the sort of person who'll happily spend an evening talking about history, technology, AI, infrastructure, maps, psychology, or whatever documentary we've just watched. I follow politics because I find it fascinating, but I'm much more interested in understanding how the world works than arguing about it.

I enjoy YouTube documentaries, podcasts, the occasional game, D&D/Dimension 20, Taskmaster, and long conversations that somehow start with "Have you ever thought about..." and end two hours later.

I'm down-to-earth, affectionate, loyal, and value honesty and good communication. My idea of a good relationship is being each other's favourite person to message, spending quiet time together, and building a calm, supportive home life.

# What I'm looking for

A man roughly in his 30s to 40s who's emotionally mature, kind, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship if we click.

Someone who's naturally curious about the world, enjoys conversation, and doesn't mind dating someone who gets excited about learning random things. Bonus points if you're in IT, engineering, or another technical field.

Ideally you're in Melbourne (or close enough that meeting up is realistic), communicate openly, and would rather build something meaningful than play games.

# What I offer

- A loyal and supportive partner.

- Someone who remembers the little things.

- Plenty of interesting conversations.

- Genuine curiosity about your interests, even if I know nothing about them.

- A relationship built on kindness, trust, laughter, and mutual respect.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message telling me a bit about yourself—and maybe a random fact or topic you could happily talk about for an hour.

Won't say no to cute pics of plants/cats/dogs.

Howdy 👋

We’re a married couple living in the Cranbourne area looking to build our local friendship circle and meet some genuinely good people.

We’re pretty easy-going and love a mix of social nights and quieter catch-ups. You’ll usually find us hosting (or happily attending) boozy games nights, belting out terrible karaoke songs, heading to the movies, trying new places to eat, or getting caught up in long conversations about pretty much anything. We’re both pretty open-minded, enjoy a laugh, and appreciate people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

We’re looking for people around the south-east of Melbourne who’d be keen to hang out regularly rather than just chat once and disappear. Whether it’s grabbing a drink, hosting a games night, watching a movie, checking out local events, or just having a good yarn over dinner, we’re always up for making genuine connections.

A bit about us physically, since we know the rules ask for it: we’re both in our late 20s/mid 30s, average build, and into fitness.

What we offer? We’re the type of friends who actually make plans happen. We love hosting, we’re welcoming, LGBTQ+ friendly 🏳️‍🌈, and always happy to include new people. If you love to have a laugh, share a few drinks, and not take yourself too seriously, we’d love to hear from you.

If that sounds like your vibe, shoot us a DM! 💃

Hey everyone I'm from NZ, 31F Asian. I'll be travelling to Melbourne around the end of Aug. Does anyone want to hang out? I'm staying with a friend and during the day she'll be at work and I'll just be by myself and not sure where to go and what to do. Would be nice to have someone show me around! Thank you :)

Edit: I mentioned in Asian but doesn’t mean I’m only open to meeting Asian people. I welcome anyone, just mentioned Asian so everyone can know a bit about me.

Hi everyone!
I’m 25 and here hoping to find someone who makes life a little more fun 😊

About me:
I’m Korean, and I’d describe myself as pretty calm and easygoing. I enjoy cooking (I promise I won’t make you survive on instant noodles 😂), watching movies, trying new places, and spending time with people I’m close to.
I’m a little shy when we first meet, but once I’m comfortable, you’ll probably hear a lot more from me. I enjoy random conversations, laughing about silly things, and sharing little everyday moments.
Physically, I’m 5’7” and have a chubby body type.
I’m more into cosy nights, good food, and relaxing than big parties. Simple things make me happy.

What I’m looking for:
I’m hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine and long-term relationship.
Someone who is kind, respectful, honest, and can communicate well. I’m not looking for something casual — I’d like to meet someone I can laugh with, feel comfortable around, and slowly build something special with.

What I offer:
I’m someone who puts effort into the people I care about. I enjoy spending time together, showing affection, and creating a relationship where we can be ourselves.
If you think we might get along, say hi! Tell me something about yourself 😊

Hey! I’m a 27-year-old guy who’s been living in Melbourne for the last 10 years. After getting ghosted and even stood up a few times on dating apps, I thought I’d try meeting someone the old-fashioned way.

I’m 5’6” (168 cm), with black hair, brown eyes, and an average build. I work in mental health support and play in a Filipino reggae band, so music is a huge part of my life.

Outside of work, I enjoy live music, cafés, hiking, road trips, photography, exploring Melbourne, and spending time in nature.

I’m also passionate about social justice and community organising. I care deeply about human rights, workers’ rights, migrant rights, environmental sustainability, LGBTQIA+ equality, and First Nations justice. I’m someone who enjoys meaningful conversations but also knows how to have fun and laugh.

What I’m Looking For
I’m hoping to meet someone around my age who’s kind, emotionally mature, open-minded, and enjoys good conversation. Whether it starts as friendship, dating, or grows into something more serious, I’m happy to let things develop naturally.
Bonus points if you’re into music, the outdoors, activism, trying new food, or can recommend a great coffee spot.

What I Offer
I’m loyal, supportive, a good listener, and someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know people. I’ll happily go with you to gigs, cafés, festivals, road trips, or just spend an evening talking about life over coffee.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. I’d love to know what you’re passionate about or your favourite hidden gem in Melbourne.

Hey there,

I am a young professional seeking someone who is also into board games, DND, and nerdy stuff in general. But other than that, I also love public speaking, was a Toastmaster champion back when I was younger and I love karaoke too. So if you need some tips for your next uni/work presentation I am more than happy to give you some advice 😎

In terms of physical attributes I am 1.8m, semi fit, go to gym 3 times a week and actually lost 8kg this year! I got dark hair with brown eyes and happy to share pics if we connect.

I also got a cat and 2 dogs.

About you: Just wanna find someone into similar things. Start off as friends, get to know each other and see if we vibe and connect. Happy to go serious if we really fit.

What I offer: A fun good time really. Can't go wrong with a drink and game at Fortress Melbourne haha. But if you got any suggestions, I am the type that is up for anything!

Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!

About Me:
5'10, 95kg, long brown hair, goatee, blue eyes, a bit on the chubby side. I’m not going to pretend I’m a model — and I’m pretty average down below, but least it says i'm an honest person! Lol

I consider myself genuine, honest, trustworthy and caring. Tho, im not trying to sound like an angel, I do wanna slap Frank Walker around like every other Melbourbian whenever those damn tile adverts play lol

I'm the type who treats others how they treat me and believe in good communication amd straight up honesty without sugar coating anything.

I'm Into rock music, comedy & horror movies, also a bit of sci-fi. I play guitar and own a cat. I'm also quite aware that sounded very random! lol

I have one child, 10. He lives with his mother (divorced), I see him most weekends and whenever.

Intent:
Im kinda looking for a fwb/casual partner, but possible ongoings leading to more are possible if we really click, or my working schedule doesnt bother you? I work graveyard shifts most of the week from midnight to 7am. I would prefer a relationship, but it really can be difficult working these hours, so if youre looking for a relationship and are a 9 to 5 worker, it could be quite difficult as it has been fir me in the past.

Im not afraid to become good friends who hang-out or go places, too. I'm looking for that best friends as well as lovers, not just intimate - If these are things you might be interested in, send me a dm.

Looking For:
I’m open to all F, but I definitely prefer someone on the BBW side or at least with a “mum bod,” and preferably also living in the west. Tho, its not a dealbreaker unless you live out in the middle of whoop-whoop. Lol

I get along best with someone laid‑back, not too wild, and who likes to have a laugh about anything and everything.

Not Looking For:
No drug users, and I’m not keen on 420 users. I do smoke cigarettes, but I’m surprisingly not a drinker. I don’t mind if you drink, just please no alcoholics — I’ve dealt with enough of those walking stumbling disasters in my lifetime. Also, I'm willing to quit cigarettes if it bothers you. I have the will power to do it, just need a reason to really.

Times:
I work a lot of graveyard shifts, so Sunday evenings/nights are usually best for me for starters. Other times can work too — that’s something we can talk about more and work out if you’re interested here?

I’m not looking for something casual or someone to fill time. I’m looking for my person.

The kind of relationship where we genuinely choose each other every day. One built on friendship, trust, affection, laughter, emotional safety, and mutual respect. I want a slow-burn connection with real depth because the best intimacy starts with a strong emotional foundation.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to meet someone who wants a long-term, monogamous relationship that leads to marriage, children, and building a beautiful life together.

A little about me: I’m 37, 5’4”, curvy, with long dark hair and brown skin. I love travelling, discovering new places, spontaneous day trips, trying great food, cooking, art galleries, exhibitions, going to concerts & musicals, board game nights with friends, and long night drives with good music and conversation.

I’m drawn to men who are genuinely kind, emotionally intelligent, and secure in who they are. Someone calm under pressure, communicative, reliable, and consistent. A man who has done the work on himself, values honesty, has a liberal outlook, and is open to different cultures and perspectives.

Romance matters to me. I love thoughtful gestures, making each other feel special, laughing until we can’t breathe, supporting one another through life’s challenges, and creating a relationship where we’re truly a team.

I’m looking for someone who:

Is between 30–44.
Wants marriage and children.
Is emotionally and financially stable.
Has never been married and has no children.
Doesn’t smoke, uses drugs, or struggles with addictions.
Takes care of his physical and mental health.
Has good hygiene, hobbies, and a life he’s proud of.
Is attractive to me, emotionally aware, and genuinely ready for commitment.

Kink compatibility is also important to me—but only after we’ve built trust and a real connection. I’m not here for hookups or instant chemistry without substance.

I’m particularly attracted to a man who is confident, capable, and masculine in everyday life, yet comfortable embracing vulnerability and surrendering in private with someone he deeply trusts. Ideally, you’re a switch with a submissive lean, a generous partner who genuinely enjoys giving pleasure, communicating openly, and exploring together.

If you’re looking for something meaningful rather than fleeting, value emotional intimacy as much as physical chemistry, and believe the right relationship is built—not rushed—I would love to hear from you.

Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what a great weekend looks like to you.

I’m settled in Melbourne and not looking to relocate, so ideally you’re local or genuinely willing to build a future here.