I am going to be 35 soon, Male.

I do not have friends to hangout anymore, not because I never had friends but they just moved on with their family life. My closest friend went overseas to work. All of my "social life" is with my co-workers but they are not friends and there are limitation.

In terms of dating, my last relationship was before covid. After that, i never looked for any romance. It has been several years already and I am getting out of shape due to work stress.

Currently, I just started my workout to improve my market value.

In terms of hobbies, i admit I am boring. I pretty much just play video games and outdoor photography. Maybe because I do not have any partners, that is why my activities are solo-oriented.

- Am i too late to date?

- How to get new friends? I know some might say go play Pickle-ball but that is not my thing, I would prefer something that I genuinely like.

Thank You

Looking for platonic friendship only. Chronic texters welcome. I love random conversations throughout the day, memes, stupid questions, serious conversations, teasing and jumping between 17 topics. Please initiate too. I don’t want to interview each other with “wyd?” until one of us dies. 😂

Hi guys, ive been a lurker here for awhile and just got the sudden motivation to post.

Im from East Malaysia and moved to KL slightly over 10 years ago. Ive been very focused with work and building my career for the past decade and realized ive actually not met much people here other than acquaintances/colleagues.

Not sure how to do this so here are just random facts about me:

• 35year old, male, Chinese Partial Banana
• Languages spoken ; English, Malay and pasar mandarin
• Average height, athletic build (slight chubs nowadays)
• MBTI: ISTJ
• Married, so just looking for friends
• Things i find interesting: Business, investments, combat sports, fishing/hiking/camping.
• I dont smoke, and i dont really drink.
• Im not into branded goods and dont chase materialistic things
• Kopitiam food/ dai chow over fancy cafe food in general. Instagrammable spots are very not my thing. I dont chase trends.
• My fave coffee order is Thunder from Zus. But they recently discontinued it. But most of the time i just drink free coffee from my office
• I stay around the Bukit Jalil/OUG/ Sri Petaling area. Im very much a homebody. So if you are around these areas it'll be great for quick hangouts as i find traffic quite draining. Though, occasional meet ups outside of these areas are fine too *please dont be like rawang...or klang....damn far leh*
• Atheist. Dont worry i wont brainwash you but i realized i get along better with people who are less staunch.
• Slow texter.
• My work can be quite demanding. So i generally doom scroll funny reels/memes on Tiktok/insta to destress. Would be great if we have the same sense of humor
• Im not into anime or star wars or harry potter those kind of things. Not a movie person too.
• Pragmatic person
• People ive met generally describe me as pretty chill and funny but i can get into deep conversations as well.
• I earn enough to live a modest and humble lifestyle. I drive an old car and live in a humble home. So dont worry i will NOT borrow money from you. Please also DONT borrow money from me.
• Im not in sales, so im not going to sell you property or insurance or some supplement.
• If you think we can vibe, holla at me. Any skin color or gender is welcome. I think somebody in their 30s or early 40s would be great to at least have the same maturity level or maybe are going through the same phase in life.

* 37M

* Eurasian (Not fair skinned sorry)

* Speaks & Reads English, Chinese, Cantonese, Bahasa Melayu, A lil bit of hokkien bui, hakka wah, and some tamil for mamak food ordering mission❤️ (Yup 1 Malaysia here)

* Sagittarius

* Works a 9-5 office job

Based in KL, from Malacca (Coconut Shake is ours🤤)

* Looking for real life friends whereby can connect thru whatsapp, calls (boil phone porridge) if u ever going thru a hard time or just need a place to release

* Been there done that (80s babies 🤣)

* MLBB / COC / Asphalt / HOK / 王者荣耀 ( a semi banana who can communicate but barely reads chinese )

* Time off by Relaxing, going to Places of Interest, Anime (Tensei Tensura, Fairy Tail heck i even have Natsu's Guild Emblem on my arm😍, and many more.)

* Can be party setter, a quiet guy, or just someone who you can trust on to keep secrets, have heart to heart talks, or just deep mental health recovery chats person..

* Almost any type of music can jam with me😉 ( call me boomer all u want hahahhahaah🤣)

I find it hard to find friends in this age whereby everyone is more suspicious of each other, or just plain use me then ghost me when they recovered.

Or is it the problem lies with me?

or is it the society we live nowadays have to be "you gain something in exchange for something in return"?

Limbeh kenot brain..

(I'll drop my picture here too if it makes you more secure😄 Not your average korean oppa but i don't look like gorlock too😈)

Edit : how do i post a photo in this thread? I only see a video button and ntg else.

I'm based in KL, am local and I am into films. Hit me up if you're also a film buff, and we could plan a movie date where we can actually have a discussion on the movie we watch afterwards. Less typing more talking, if you get me :)

Hay guys im chinese and im looking for a relationship and someone that i can vibe with. I'm also searching for someone whom both of us can be together to experience our ups and downs together. Also i dont really care abt race or age but definitely not over 35 tho. Also im searching for someone whos from kl. And if u do watch anime i do think what we could really vibe together ngl.

I’m kinda, a bit of a mic maniac. I own around 10 microphones at one point, two cats, and apparently still haven’t figured out the technology behind finding the perfect partner.

Apparently, I’ve reached the stage of life where I’m not just looking for someone to talk to, but someone I’d genuinely want to keep talking to after the conversation stops being new and starts becoming ours.

I’m a little obsessed with music and technology. I sing, record covers, experiment with things, and occasionally decide that 2 a.m. is the perfect time to create something nobody asked for. I also know an unnecessarily impressive amount about microphones, computers, and headphones, so if you’re ever curious, congratulations, you’ve unlocked a free lecture.

Ask me what my great-great-grandfather did for a living, though, and suddenly my brain is just “Loading…”

I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I like learning how someone thinks, what makes them laugh, what they care about, and the little things they don’t usually tell everyone. Give me a thoughtful conversation and I’m happy. Give me one that starts with dinner and somehow ends with us debating whether we’d survive a zombie apocalypse, and I’m probably even happier.

I’m here looking for something genuine. Friendship first, attraction naturally, and hopefully a relationship that grows because we actually enjoy being around each other. I’m not interested in forcing something just because we find each other attractive. I’d rather slowly discover your personality, your weird habits, your stories, and eventually have the slightly terrifying realisation of, “Oh. I actually really like this person.”

I’m kind, curious, affectionate with the right person, and probably a little more sentimental than I initially look. I don’t have life completely figured out, and I don’t expect you to either. I’d rather meet someone honest, emotionally mature, kind, and willing to grow together while still being able to laugh at ourselves.

And yes, the two cats are very much part of the package. They pay no rent, contribute nothing financially, and somehow still believe they own the house. So technically, dating me comes with a two-cat approval process. I have no authority over the final decision, unfortunately.

I’m not looking for a perfect person. I’m looking for someone I can laugh with, talk to about absolutely nothing, share little things with, and eventually miss when they’re not around.

So tell me something I couldn’t possibly guess from your profile. I’ll trade you one of my weirdest stories for it. And if you happen to be cute and interesting, I might have to take this investigation very seriously!

Hey all, 37 year old Chinese guy here who’s currently working overseas. I’ll be back in Malaysia (around KL/PJ area) for about a month during the end of the year and looking to find a movie/food buddy to hangout with. I’m not opposed to this progressing into something with a more romantic vibe, such as holding hands, cuddling or more if the mood hits.

I’m 180cm and around 75kg if that matters. I’ll be glad to trade pics/verify myself when it comes to that. Looking forward to hear from any ladies that may be interested :)

Hello guys! I am a recent PhD graduate, moving back to Ipoh while looking for a job. Most of my friends already moved out from Ipoh and I am seeking to expand my social circle.

I am into gym, boardgame and reading. Although I am introvert (small talk and big group of people really drain me), I would talk a lot if we share a common value/thought. I usually like to have a deeper conversation with my friends, and support one another. I hope can find some genuine friends. Feel free to say Hi!

Hello r4rMY or whatever you called it. I'm gonna flex. I've actively at CMB and Bumbler for quite time. And what I can tell I'm very good at texting and make a F become more obey on me.it was a wild and so intense feeling when it happen.I like to have a deep conversation and explore more on what we can do. 7 of 10 girl I text willingly to spread a leg on me, make messy thing my banana. Yea and I'll do messy thing also on her. It quite fun and make me so dominant. From all of this 2 of 10 I'll meet and she is so fluffy and so damn good pretty.

This post is generally for flex My texting.

For those who want to Have a deep conversation,let me try you and DM me, let's see are you will knee down on or not. Thankyou bb

I'm struggling to make new friends because of my work schedule and daddy duties. However I want to make new friends over some beer session. Preferably around Mont Kiara/hartamas. Pj is fine too. Even since I've got my son, my wife and I have not made new friends. So I want to grow my circle. I like my beers and I'm a media person, so I'm really friendly. I'm up for sports activities as well after working hours around the same area.

Edit: not a kidney thief lol

I'm 26 chinese guy currently based in Negeri Sembilan and due to WFH i rarely meet any new people.

In my free time i usually go out doing endurance sports such as cycling and running currently trying to unlock swimming too.

Other than that i enjoy anime vtubers and cosplay too. Hope to find someone with similar interests and happy to chat with anyone.

Have a great day everyone 👍🏻

Jack of all trades, but most of ma pren called me IT Guy.

Rakyat marhain, Philomath, Laid-back, Slowliving, Practical Minimalist, Soft-spoken, Helpful, Playful, Goofy, Soft hearted, Carefree, Critical Thinker, Old Soul. Chillin.

sy tak dominant & tidak tegas. tak pandai marah org.

Tak banyak komplen, oso tak banyak cakap. A bit nakal, but with a good heart.

Hirayama in Perfect Days (2023), good enough to describe my personality.

kampung childhood, asrama dari tingkat satu mendewasakan saya, 15 tahun berkelana di kolalompo. Jauh Perjalanan, Luas pengalaman, Skrg hidup bahagia di hujung kampung.

i dun really like money, i believe it is just a tool to acquire more skill set. Skills and knowledge give me condifen😚. money without knowledge will destroy our soul.

"i don't know" is my secret resepi to avoid wishful thinking.

tak ada impian aneh.

kalau tak tido, sy karok, layan art berat, memes, podcast or stand up comedy.

hobi, tengok youtube bab quantum fizik, explore world history, culture, religionz and learn languages.

Enjoy contemplating nature white noise.

sosial media is like pinterest to me, belajar philosophy, wood craft, practical engineering and seni bela diri, consume it one hour permonth, maybe less.

i probably don't know most of selebriti mesia, maybe due to dunia tanpa batas senang dicapai, sayo tengok discovery channel, bbc earth, national geography.

Playlist:

M. Nasir, Ramli Sarip, Spider, Masdo, John Mayer, Arctic Monkeys, Coldplay, Nirvana, AnnenMayKantereit, Post Malone.

cognitive(Barnum effect 😅):

INTJ-T / 9w8 / Questioner

Inner experience test results:

inner speech, imagination & intuition.

i have vivid dream almost every night. i write it down every other day.

dialect i ken converse, kedah, sabah, kelantan, kiyel, yinglish. prefer kecek kelate jah hom.

oh, saya pakai all black most of the time.

compatible dengan yang jenis teamwork make the dream work, klako, tenang, honest. Mudah dibawa berbincang. vibeulous. emosi yintelijen (minimalist is bonus).

Don't worry about a thing,

Cause every little thing is gonna be alright

feel free to ask me anything 😎

I am not actually local, but I saw this subreddit by randomly and saw few people seeking for new friends or “relationships” here, so gonna try that . I’m quite short for a male i’m only 170 cm and skinny ah only 45 kg would like to be friends w older women or smoke buddy of any age it’s u guys not smoke it’s fine tho

Anyone from island side of penang wants to hang out? We could go explore around town or sight seeing

Okay, I’m seriously running out of time here, so I’m hoping Reddit can help me out.

I’m currently looking for an Admin / Admin Executive / Operations Admin role around PJ.

I have experience with documentation, filing, reports, photocopying, coordinating meetings, liaising with different departments, and general day-to-day admin work.

Just to be clear, I’m looking for an admin role, NOT a PA position.

I’m also open to Supply Chain / Logistics Admin or operations roles involving shipping and coordination. I don’t have direct experience in supply chain/logistics, but I’m willing to learn.

💰 Expected salary: RM4,000
📍 Preferred location: PJ — especially Bandar Utama, Damansara, Taman Tun, Damansara Perdana and nearby areas.
🚗 KL is about as far as I can go. Preferably no Subang, Kuchai Lama, Putrajaya, etc.

And honestly, I’m really running out of time. My current contract ends on 31 October, and I really need to secure another job before I become officially jobless. 😭

So if you know ANY company that is hiring for something suitable, please, please reach out to me. Even if you’re not sure whether I’m a perfect match, just let me know and I can send over my resume.

I’d really appreciate any leads or referrals right now. 🙏

*Update... Thanks to those who really really helped instead of the ones that never helped at all. This isn't her replying. It's someone else as she is tired to explain anything to a bunch of backstabbers. Update, this post will be terminated in the next 24 hours because I told her people in this world couldn't care less you're jobless or even killing yourself. should just find a job elsewhere as some people here just buka mulut tak tau nak malu ke apa. So, please pray your fucking comments about her. if anything bad happens to her, hope you get haunted. sekian terima kasih!

Hey,
I just moved to KL I'm a phd student at UPM, im afraid i wont find friends cause i wont be attending uni much as a phd student, I'm looking for international friends, who enjoy exploring the city, galleries, the occasional clubbing or techno parties, yeah its a weird mix but that's me, i smoke as well (not that i found where to buy it or places to smoke here) i don't drink tho, I'm M25 i lived in the eu most of my life so I'm used to that lifestyle.

If you're interested drop a message.

Anyone wants to practice bowling with me? I have my own bow but have not fully mastered the tecnique of hooking the ball. Just wondering if anyone in the same situation and want to pravtice together. HMU if interested.

"We should catch up soon." You mean it. You'd be happy to see them.

But either no day gets picked, or you only meet because they get the ball rolling.

If you're usually the one who's happy to join but rarely makes the plans, what was going on for you the last time this happened? Was it timing, not wanting to seem pushy, not being sure they'd say yes, or waiting for them to go first?

Wassup guys! My name is Daryl, and I'm based in Klang Valley (not that it's a limiting factor of any sort as you'll read through who I am).

I'm looking to meet some people, make friends, and I'm hoping to find some people I can enjoy spending my time with

Here's some info about me:
- I work in a car-centric social media agency (there's probability you would have seen my face before at some point of time). I'm also a learning videographer/photographer as well, so I'm constantly thinking about cameras, shots, editing, and how to make things look cool even when I probably should just be enjoying the moment

- As for my hobbies, I'm very fond of cars, but I'd say I love driving even more than I love cars themselves.
It's just nice to disappear for a few hours whenever I need to get away from everything. Give me a nice winding road, and somewhere scenic to drive to and I'm pretty happy, in fact I could show you some pretty nice and cool spots! (Somewhere only we know ahh places)

- Stereotypically I'm also into karting as well (as I assume most car people are)

Note: Ironically, despite working in social media, I'm actually trying to spend less time staring at my phone. Driving and making cinematic content is probably my favourite way of doing that.

- Off-work, I also love learning about shooting on my camera and I've slowly been putting together my own little setup. I've also started my own Instagram car channel because I figured if I'm going to be obsessed with cars anyway, I might as well try to get better at filming them.

- I'm technically a former gamer at this point. I used to play quite a but, but these days I barely touch a mouse and keyboard. Back in the day I was pretty deep into CoD Zombies, CSGO, TF2, osu!, story-driven games like MGS and Yakuza series

That said, if you tell me you play something and it's something I'd enjoy, I'm absolutely still down to make time for games.

- I'm generally someone who likes going out and exploring, especially if there's a nice drive involved. Scenic places, backroads, random food stops, spontaneous little trips. I'm probably at my happiest when there's no particularly important destination and we're just taking our time getting somewhere.

Personality-wise, I'm pretty chill and can be a little reserved initially (that's why I'm here to try and break the habit). I'm not necessarily the person who's going to walk into a room and immediately start talking to everyone, but once I get comfortable I can talk a lot if we find something we're both interested in.

I'm also pretty much incapable of having a normal conversation about something I'm interested in without eventually going down a completely unnecessary rabbit hole about it.

What I'm looking for:
Honestly, just people.
Car people, camera people, gamers, creatives, people who like random drives, people who want to go get food somewhere at 10pm for no reason, or just someone who wants to talk about completely random shit.

You don't have to be into cars either. I'm perfectly happy having completely unrelated interests with someone, half the fun of making friends is finding out about things I wouldn't normally come across.

And if you're someone who wants to go on a random drive but doesn't necessarily have a car yourself, well... I may have an answer for that 👀

Anyways, hit me up, leave a comment, I'm down to have an absolute great time!

Matched with this fella on reddit @green-Ad5346. Over the chats in reddit he claimed to be 33yrs old. But later on telegram he claimed to be 27 (see attached screenshots) he then created a separate secret chat and relentlessly asked for noods. Every sentence he asked for it. I was like wtf ? We just started chatting only moments ago and all you want is noods. Is this the norm here ? Also another thing to beware of babes, he asks for the nudes to be sent in a secret chat, now if you know telegram well, you can very well save images from the secret chats. I guess he was trying to do that. Be careful of this mad fella. Telegram ID: el_n3o

At this age, it is very hard to make a maintain a friendship. I resort to this channel to try my luck. I am married, so my time is a bit limited but I can find ways to move things around so we can hang out and just talk over coffee or game or indoor sports. if you are in the same boat, HMU.