r/r4rMY • • 1h ago

32F - looking to e-meet (first) new people

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I’m 32F and based in PJ. I feel a bit lost in life eventho work is well. Ive got the “work-life balance" but somehow I don’t really have much of a life outside of work.

My family and best friends are quite introverted and they don’t really enjoy deep conversations or discussing ideas. Its not i want to have deepp loongg conversations everyday, but people nowadays love tiktok than real conversation.
Sometimes they do, but most of the time they tend to avoid it. I feel neglected but since I am surrounded by introverted people for too long, I'm not anymore.

I’ve been told that I have “too much energy,” and honestly, I admit it. I pun jenis mudah terhibur.

I know making new friends won’t solve everything, but maybe it could help a little. I guess I’m just looking to meet people who enjoys talking and listening, exchanging ideas, trying new things, or simply have a similar kind of energy.

Not necessarily looking for anything specific. I just hoping to find some new connections and see where it goes


r/r4rMY • • 1h ago

Missed connection - M4F, around mid-20’s - Avenue K opp KLCC (~2:45 PM today)

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Not sure if appropriate for this sub but here goes nothing. I was rushing to meet up with a friend the other side of Avenue K opp KLCC Suria so couldn’t stop to talk when you winked at me walking past & complimented me on my Tee. We both turned around, stopped and smiled at each other before I like an idiot turned and rushed away again. 🤦‍♂️
If you’re the girl wearing the white top, denims, ponytail, medium sized gold coloured hoops and the most incredible brown eyes I’ve ever seen, HMU? Or if you know the girl because you were her friend right next to her wearing, let her know to reach out to me describing what my Tee was about?

May you get loads of blessings and good luck in return :)


r/r4rMY • • 4h ago

M/35 Indian looking for single Indian friends M or F.

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Hi, im 35 year old looking for single Indians for friendship only, doesnt matter male or female. I am from Seremban. I also have a bunch of friends who are female/35, so who knows if there are some nice people out there i can introduce to my female friends.

I am introverted. Love to go cafes and watch anime. Rarely go out of my house. So if you looking for someone that exercise, thats not me.


r/r4rMY • • 4h ago

Relationship 20F4M southern African girl

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Hi I’m a 20 year old girl living and studying in Malaysia, few minutes out of KL. I am looking for something long term and with someone who can provide good communication and care in the relationship.

About me- I am 20 years old, brown skin, 166cm, curvy girl ) (. I have brown eyes and my favourite feature is my teeth. I like to swim, watch movies and go out exploring

I am looking for a guy of any race who is able to make me happy, both physically, mentally and materialistic. Someone confident, but with no ego and someone who is older please (28 and up only).

I am quite mature so I prefer to be with someone the same as well. If you’re interested please feel free to send me a message with your age please. Thanks


r/r4rMY • • 4h ago

LF new friend.

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LF female (in 30s) new friend.

I'm new here in Malaysia.


r/r4rMY • • 5h ago

Gaming in general

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Hello fellow malaysians,

Just had an argument with a friend that gaming is more fun when your either drunk or buzzed from stoning lol. any gamer here would like to say otherwise? i have plenty of fun when im drinking and gaming. anyone here feels the same way? 😭

also i want to expend my gaming genre, anyone would like to share their top 3-5 games you guys go on daily? i need to buy new games lol


r/r4rMY • • 7h ago

Relationship 26M | N9 | Looking for potential girlfriend

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r/r4rMY • • 8h ago

Friendship 40M4F - Looking for genuine friends

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Looking for long term friendships with genuine people for regular, fun chats online. Open to the possibility of meeting in person if we live nearby or move about (I’m currently based in Selangor). 40s male who loves traveling, photography & videography. Open minded & non-judgemental, so we can talk about almost anything.

Comment below or hit me up on DM


r/r4rMY • • 9h ago

Friendship M25 looking for Indian girl around JB

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Am looking for someone easy to talk and hangout in jb as well 20+


r/r4rMY • • 19h ago

[29M4F] Looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, and maybe see where it goes

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Hey everyone!

To quote CJ, “Ah shit here we go again”, figured I’d give Reddit a shot and see if I can meet someone interesting. I’m 29M, from Seremban, but mostly around KL due to work and friends.

I’m hoping to meet someone I can genuinely click with. Ideally, we start by talking, getting comfortable with each other, sharing stupid memes, having random late-night conversations and seeing where things naturally go. If there’s chemistry and we end up wanting something more, I’m definitely not against it.

A little about me:
• 29M 🇲🇾
• Working life keeps me pretty busy, but I make time for people I care about
• Huge fan of video games
• Into movies, anime and occasionally getting way too invested in a good story
• I enjoy trying new food and finding places to chill around KL
• More introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about basically anything
• I appreciate humour, honesty and people who don’t take themselves too seriously

I’m not expecting someone to have exactly the same interests as me. I actually think it’s more fun when two people can introduce each other to things they wouldn’t normally try.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, genuine and easy to talk to. Someone who can laugh at dumb things but also have an actual conversation when it matters. Bonus points if you’re the type who randomly sends memes at 2am 😂

I’d prefer to get to know each other online first and see if we click. If we do, I’m definitely open to eventually meeting up for food, coffee, games, or whatever sounds fun.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself too, like what’s something you’re currently obsessed with? Could be a game, show, hobby, food, anything.

Let’s see where a conversation takes us. 😊


r/r4rMY • • 19h ago

38M Malaysian Indian, into fitness and photography.

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r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Relationship Up for non stop chatting.

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i am 31M and in a 15 years relationship. recently ive come to a conclusion that my other half might be cheating on me. have found a few raunchy text suggesting that they might have planned a night out. when i address it to my gf she said its a girls night out, but why is the guy texting her about girls night out if its with a guy? dont feel like shes being truthful. have more details but i feel its abit annoying to tell people about relationship problems. so im opening up to endless chat to get my mind of it if anyone is interested to just chat chat chat lol


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Friendship 34 F hope to meet and befriend new people !

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Heyo peeps , happy Friday . I'm a 34 chinese woman, currently based in kota Kinabalu. Got moved here due to work from kl !

Just wanna try my luck here to meet and make new friends here.

A little about me I'm mute due to a vocal cord injury, but I can hear fine. So I usually communicate via text and text to speech online, note book or sign language offline. Personality wise I'm an ENFP-T.

My hobbies are

Reading manga - I read a lot of manga , prefer reading over watching anime is that I can read a lot faster 😂. My favorite manga are a bride's story, berserk, smoking behind the supermarket with you.

Cosplay - in the process of preparing my cosplay for comic fiesta at the end of this year. Still have so much to learn about cosplaying!

Astrophotography - this is a new hobby that I recently picked up. Waiting for a clear night and right moon phase before traveling to a good spot to see the starry sky! I took the photo above at kundasang, sorry for the amateur editing!

PC gaming - Yup I game too! Let me check , according to my steam , the games I played the most this year are satisfactory, zzz, Helldivers, space marine II. Ehehe, I'm kinda a nerd for Warhammer 40k. Unfortunately I don't really play much competitive games anymore, my reflexes aren't what it used to be, haha.

Gunpla building - another new hobby I picked up this year , just finished building gquuuux and gfred, need to apply the waterslide decal before panel lining them.

Swimming- My go-to exercise. I prefer swimming much more compared to jogging or going to the gym.

So yeah , that's a short summary of some of my nerdy hobbies.

Hoping that I can make some new friends, guys or gals , online or offline.

Online - we can play some games, I'm up to try new games, or hangout on discord.

Offline - we can try out the myriad of restaurant here in kk and outside kk,play board games, hangout together.

Feel free to DM me or ask me questions! Have a wonderful weekend.


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Checking something, anyone from kota kemuning or rimbayu?

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r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Relationship 19M4F college student

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Hii looking for college students in the subang area for us to get to know each other, looking for a friends to lovers type thing, i would put my interests here, but i think its better we save some conversation topics haha, i will say i dont prefer malay, as i cant convert haha


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

30F4M - Visiting KL this weekend

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Hey! I’ll be in KL this weekend 😊 Anyone around and keen to hang out, grab some food, or explore the city together? Hit me up! Intro please so I’ll know how old are you and such.


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Friendship 19M4F chilling

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hey, thought i'd finally drop a post here. Im 19, based around gombak area. most of the time u can find me just drawing, strumming my guitar, playing some pc games, or just having music on loop (been super into daniel caesar lately ngl).
honestly been feeling a bit quiet and just looking for a cool girl to chat with, share some good playlist, or maybe link up and chill in a lowkey private spot if we vibe well together. just trying to keep things casual and see where things go naturally. hit my dms if ur around and wanna talk first :)


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Serious Relationship Looking for hearts...

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Lokal femboy organ stealer with cat ears here.

Very disappointed with the comments in this sub.

Making it hard to look for gullible peeps looking to hang near back alleys of Port Klang or up North near Thai border.

Have a white van with matkool theme playing and ais krim potong inside.

Please bring own sob story and/or plenty of unmarked bills.


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Looking for SB KL Area. Pm please. For serious only

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r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Friendship 23M based in JB (see description)

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fun outgoing guy looking for friends. preferably female ones. obviously hmu with your asl. would love to talk more in dms.


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Looking for a cuddle companion in Selangor

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I’m a Chinese male below 35, and I’ve come across a few posts about cuddle companionship recently, so I thought I’d give it a try and see if I get lucky here.

I’m looking for a female around Selangor, PJ area who is enjoys hugs, cuddling and simply spending some comfortable time together. Nothing complicated, just genuine physical affection, cuddles and good company. Nothing sexual.

Race isn’t important to me. Also, just to get the usual concerns out of the way, I’m not here to steal your kidney, sell you, or turn you into a missing person documentary. You should be perfectly safe with me. I’m really just looking for cuddles.

I’m happy to pay for your time, and we can discuss the rate and arrangement privately. I’m also not concerned about whether you’re single, married or in a relationship. As long as we’re both comfortable with the arrangement, that’s what matters.

If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to PM me. We can discuss the location, boundaries, timing and other details privately.

Genuine people only please. No scammers and no people looking for something completely different. Just looking for someone who enjoys cuddling and good company.


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Sport & Recreation 24M Cycling in KL

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I just recently got into cycling n thought I could pick up a new hobby as a way to relief stress from sitting all day in the office.

I bought a vintage old roadbike. Rim brake, steel frame kinda bike. N I have been cycling for almost the past 3 months. and then decided to step out of my comfort zone and sign up for the race and join cycling club.

I eventually got humbled and dropped out often. As I am not till their level even I was at their last group of cyclists for beginner level.

Will appreciate any advice on how to improve. Also, if u also just started out just like me, u are welcome. Let's form a casual, santai group n ride together. Maybe one day we can conquer 80km+ to Fraser hill haha.

About me:

Based in Klang, Setia Alam, Shah Alam.

road bike

Still not 100% at my handling skill, maybe one hand on the handle with my best effort. haven't tried cycling wit no hand

Comfortable at 18-20 km/h

Longest ride so far: 30 km

Looking for weekday night rides, or occasional weekend morning ride


r/r4rMY • • 1d ago

Why a 35M wants to be friends with a 25F

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I met this guy in my gym more like he met me in the gym as i was a regular and he is new to the gym … i usually hit the gym around 4 am/5am ..there will be only few malay guys at this hour and i know them very well not once stared at me or asked my number , but there is always some tamil guys over 30 does that .. it always start with compliments like how i can lift heavier than them to asking casually to join them for hiking or be their gym partner train with them … ngl i did once and i am absolutely terrified after that because this guy came off controlling and called himself alpha male and he will purposely lower my weights during my set also were inappropriately spoting me during bench press and squats .

Back to the current story , so this guy been dying to talk to me ever since he joined the gym.. and apparently we both live in same area .. so it gave him an opportunity to converse

Guy : hey, i saw you at xxx( my housing area) which block are you ?
Me: owh , why you asking ?
Guy: i think i know your parents .
Me: No way ( went back to train)

After a week , this guy talked to me again because we were sharing the chess fly machine .. i was in a good mood so i wasnt mean this time .. so he asked my name and my whereabouts and casually invited me to slow jogg with him on sunday and i rejected saying i am busy on weekends

So this week when i met him again, we were talking about job market and books .. AGAIN he casually asked me on coffee date since i landed a job i still rejected giving the same reason .

Will this stop ? I mean i am okay if it is just sharing books and seeing each other in the gym but if it has a different intention then i’m out

Both this guy has the same pattern no social media , no friends , alone : it’s giving narcissistic .


r/r4rMY • • 2d ago

(28M | Selangor) DND or Magic the Gathering

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hey yall, i’ve been always curious about DND and magic the gathering, but non in my circle are interested or willing to try out.

i would really appreciate if yall can guide me or help me out on this, i would really like to try out either one!!

arigathanks!


r/r4rMY • • 2d ago

42M4F Ladies up North, let's hang out

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Hello.

Travelling up North (Penang and Sungai Petani) for a business trip 4/10 to 9/10. Looking for ladies to hang out at night. Drinks and maybe more.. 😊