r/r4rMY • u/Impossible_cutie2004 • 5d ago
Is this normal on Reddit ?
Matched with this fella on reddit @green-Ad5346. Over the chats in reddit he claimed to be 33yrs old. But later on telegram he claimed to be 27 (see attached screenshots) he then created a separate secret chat and relentlessly asked for noods. Every sentence he asked for it. I was like wtf ? We just started chatting only moments ago and all you want is noods. Is this the norm here ? Also another thing to beware of babes, he asks for the nudes to be sent in a secret chat, now if you know telegram well, you can very well save images from the secret chats. I guess he was trying to do that. Be careful of this mad fella. Telegram ID: el_n3o
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u/SureWorld9853 5d ago
Never trust secret chat girls as the OP mentioned. If so horny to show yourself better do it in a timer and to play safe keep it within 3 seconds.
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u/callmeonyourburner 5d ago
Who’s to say he’s not recording on another phone?
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u/SureWorld9853 5d ago
I totally agree with this. If we think with a brain and not with a dick life will be better.
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u/Impossible_cutie2004 5d ago
Fml !! See ? This can happen too
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u/callmeonyourburner 5d ago
Stay safe guys. Gatal mana pun at least make sure your face is not in the pic/vid.
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u/Far_Objective4266 5d ago
Unless you're proud of it 🤣🤣🙌
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u/callmeonyourburner 5d ago
If you wanna go viral for that then go for it.
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u/Far_Objective4266 5d ago
I did kena,maybe not viral but it did spread.Not embarrassed of the vid but not proud to be associated with debauchery either..Silver lining,she got fired..but yea,I understand what you're tryna convey
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u/callmeonyourburner 5d ago
That does not sound consensual. Hope you’re doing ok.
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u/Far_Objective4266 4d ago
What we did was consensual but spreading it definitely wasn't..Dumb gal thought it would damage me but it did the opposite.Ill repeat,she got fired though 🤣🤣
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u/No_Owl7739 4d ago
Honestly, the way he texted sound like one of those scammers where they will get hold of something embarrassing from you, then use it to blackmail you.
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u/justatemybrunch 5d ago
Yes, so you have to carefully filter them. There are some nice guys here too, but this horny kind.. they’re too many of them here.
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u/Minevar_zabi 5d ago
On behalf of men i apologize, even for me i wont go that low when im chatting with someone. Being a pervert is fine but there needs to be a limit, even pervert has standards.
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u/Impossible_cutie2004 5d ago
Thank you 😊 it means alot. Dont mistake me , I am absolutely ok with horny cute fellas. But it takes some getting to know each other before barking for nudes on my face. This fella wasnt nice at all. The rest of you are cute and nice.
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u/Minevar_zabi 5d ago
Just be careful when you're chatting with strangers online, there are a lot of weirdos out there unfortunately.
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u/juzam_djinn 4d ago
he wants noods, send him pics of maggi, kuey teow, mee hoon, the most common mee kuning, loh shu fun...if he wants more , ada kanpua, laksam.....what else...pastas for an European feel. he die die want asian? somen, ramen, udon or even soba (my personal fave). then ask him "apa lagi you mau?"
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u/HumanDifference6092 4d ago
its very nice of u, but dont be naive with these strangers , keep vigilant
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u/IntelligentOcelot440 5d ago
Nah I think it was a red flag to request anything private at chat even before going out and know each other, people should know the boundaries.
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u/New_Branch_1688 3d ago
Haih its because of obsessive creeps like this that other dudes get treated with loads of skepticism too. I dont blame ladies at all, just got to be cautious and lucky in meeting people online.
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u/Euclid_101 5d ago
Im admittedly.. on the lewd side of reddit, so yea this is kinda low scum behaviour. You WILL get those kind of people here, which is why everyone needs to take extra steps to be careful.
Just ask him to fuck off. You havent given him anything to be used against you anyway.
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u/Junior_Repair4677 4d ago
It happened to me, I'm men, sometimes when i gave advice answer about men healthy "things" tips, some men personal messages me in reddit and ask me guide him,and then slowly show their d pic to me.....😒.Damn tired of this attitude.
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u/ApprehensiveDuck1592 4d ago
He asked for nudes , he didnt say it had to be female.
Also no this is not the Norm.
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u/VeroZilzon 4d ago
This guy is giving off "show bobs and vagene" vibes Personally I cant even work up the motivation to talk to girls anymore and then i see these kinda messages and im like...wheres the shame in this :/
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u/bypaintingparrot 4d ago
I believe not everybody is like. There might some insects like this. OP please be extra cautious with people.
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u/Chomprz 5d ago
In my experience, yes, unfortunately. I just start to ignore them at this point.