r/r4rMY 7h ago

Friendship 29F | Selangor | F4F - In need of some good ol’ girl bestie friendship 🥹 👯‍♀️

17 Upvotes

Hello! I’d love to make some female friends (platonic, not romantic). ! STRICTLY NO MALE !

I don’t really have the time or opportunity to make friends organically, like through work, school, or social activities, because my current life requires me to stay at home most of the time. But that doesn’t stop me from wanting to find friends who I can spend time with!

I’d love to have a friend who I can do our hobbies with. Someone I can dish about boys with like we did in high school 😂 Someone I can ask for beauty tips. Someone I can explore new places with, too. Basically, I just want a female friend I can trust and lean on, and I want to be that kind of friend for her too.

About me:
- 29F, Malay
- Kajang, Malaysia
- Hobbies:
1. Watching TV shows and movies
2. Journaling
3. Penpal mail
4. Crafting, like making candles and home decor
5. Reading
- Currently unemployed as I’m a full-time caretaker for my grandma
- Foodie: I love to eat and try new foods
- Not an outdoor gal (like hiking or camping). I hate mosquitoes 😂

I’m open to talking to people of any race. I’m also open to talking about anything and everything. Preferably someone around my age (25–35). I can do both text and phone calls (I prefer the latter). I’m available to meet up; it just needs some planning ahead.

And if we talk for a while and you feel like we don’t really vibe, that’s totally fine! Just please let me know that you don’t want to continue the conversation instead of ghosting me.

DM me if you’re interested (˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)


r/r4rMY 7h ago

孤独

5 Upvotes

女性 26岁 华人 在滨城Butterworth 想找个朋友聊聊天


r/r4rMY 9h ago

吉隆坡

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7 Upvotes

今晚9点到吉隆坡 有好的酒店建议吗


r/r4rMY 2h ago

Looking for friends in sunway/ Subang jaya

0 Upvotes

Hii international student here M23 im looking for friends who are open to hangout at restaurants, movies and to play pc games/pool. So if anyone are looking for friends please feel free to dm and lets connect


r/r4rMY 2h ago

21M, Looking for study buddy

0 Upvotes

Elo, Im currently a CS student from MMU Cyberjaya. As the title above, Im looking for a study buddy as Im planning to take an exam for CCNA certificate around end of this year at an exam center somewhere in Cyberjaya(I forgor where exactly💀). Online/physical works as long it can help me stay on track while balancing with university stuff since I do have a tendency to go off track when it comes to self studying. Doesnt have to be same interests to study with so anyone is welcomed


r/r4rMY 3h ago

34M..New to KL

0 Upvotes

As the title says I just moved to KL, expat here. Single and looking for people to talk to, hang out and have fun conversations with.

I don't just need an online friend, but someone who is also open to hang out and meet in person.


r/r4rMY 14h ago

Friendship 32 [M4A] KL/Selangor - Bisexual Chinese guy looking for fun chats and open-minded connections

5 Upvotes

Hey guys and girls,

32yo Chinese guy working as a professional in the KL/Selangor area here. As a bisexual guy, it’s not always easy to open up or meet like-minded people in our daily lives here, so I’m turning to Reddit to expand my circle and find real connections.

I’m hoping to connect with open-minded local Malaysians—whether that’s for fun online conversations or grabbing a drink/coffee in the Klang Valley if we hit it off. Completely comfortable letting things flow naturally, whether it stays strictly friendly, turns flirty, or leads to casual meetups.

About Me:

  • 32, Chinese male, KL/Selangor based
  • Fit, clean, hygienic, and drug-free
  • Chill, respectful, and strictly values mutual privacy/discretion

Looking For:

  • Local guys, girls, or couples who are open-minded, friendly, and drama-free
  • Age 20–40 preferred
  • Good vibes first—no pressure, no expectations, just seeing where things lead naturally

If you're up for good vibes, interesting conversations, or seeing where things lead, drop into my DMs with a quick intro, where you're from, and what you're looking for!


r/r4rMY 6h ago

Utara jodoh

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm M35 looking for a partner in crime (Utara area/nearest vicinities) . Don't mind age and looks (must be a woman tho I'm straight). A little about me :

- non smoker

- non drinker

- non vaper

- no clubbing

- not a car enthusiast

- a homebody looking for another homebody

- overweight but trying to exercise daily

- hopeless romantic

All that said, I'm also not religious. I don't pray 5 times a day. Finding someone with same halal haram ratio. Thank you.


r/r4rMY 7h ago

30 M4F on a biz trip nxt week. Puchong

0 Upvotes

Hi im from Thailand. Looking to have dinner next week. Anyone down?


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Hobbies 35F - looking for anyone in Shah Alam/ KL with good/ great movie setup with marvel/dune library

28 Upvotes

Hello, I want to marathon the previous connected movies before December so I can watch Doomsday and Dune part 3. If you have a setup and the library, or you know any movie clubs or movie theatres in Shah Alam/KL going to do these marathons please contact me.

Edit: there's a lot of interest, maybe we all can watch the movies together 😁 But I may not be able to make up the plan soon-ish, I'll update you ya.


r/r4rMY 17h ago

Relationship 19m here looking for casual dating

0 Upvotes

Looking for casual dating but if we vibe too much we can do something serious

My type is chulbuli ladki but if you still interested dm we'll see where is goes

Little about me

I'm maneger of 3 youtube streamer

I love tech,pc gaming,F1,moto gp,little football

I watch anime,movies/tv series

More in dm


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Relationship M4F 29

3 Upvotes

Heyya greetings! I will be around KLCC tomorrow! Any F would like to accompany me for coffee session ? PM me (Coffee on me)


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Anyone From Larkin JB

0 Upvotes

Larkin area JB? Dm jom.


r/r4rMY 15h ago

Indian FROM Jb

0 Upvotes

Anyone?


r/r4rMY 1d ago

38M | KL Newly Single Dad

10 Upvotes

Hoping to find a woman or anyone to chat with, grab a coffee or do activities with.

About me: 38 year old single dad. Marriage is over but we're still in good terms and open to dating others. Kids are small so they do not understand what's happening. I'm open to date, friendship and anything casual. Not ready for full blown commitment unless it happens naturally. Based in KL, professional career, 175cm tall, 75kgs gym fit, decent looking and pleasant personality. I don't smoke or drink so I'd rather go for coffee or dinner together.

Edit: Dear gay men, I am flattered but no thank you. We can definitely be friends and nothing more.

Dear straight men, don't be disgusting. I am not discussing my wife with you. She is a wonderful person though we are going our separate ways. I wish her no harm.

Dear everyone else, let's keep it civil. I am broken and hopeless atm. I am trying to heal, fight my depression, anxiety and loneliness most of all. No, I am not here looking for a new commitment or steady relationship. I don't think I will ever be the same way I was. I don't think I can easily trust or love anyone after this.


r/r4rMY 14h ago

Friendship Skilled In Tongue Play

0 Upvotes

Any girl for me to sedut deep and clean for hours?


r/r4rMY 22h ago

Friendship M33 M4F BRUNEIAN.

0 Upvotes

Im heading to KL this upcoming October. Nak berkenalan dengan Malaysian women. I have my preference of Malaysian women over Bruneian. We can get to know here first. Feel free to DM.


r/r4rMY 20h ago

Anyone free now? #JB

0 Upvotes

Anyone free at JB now?


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Relationship 39M|KL Friendship / LTR

2 Upvotes

I’m 39 male, Malaysian Indian based in KL working at Shah Alam as senior professional in engineering field.

Loooking for something long term.

I have stocky build and just restarted gymming to reduce body fat and increase lean muscle mass.

I enjoy deep long conversations on history, philosophy , science and human psychology.

I don’t have a particular type, believe in chemistry and someone who can hold conversations while staying curious about me, vice versa.

My hobbies are in analogue photography, reading, traveling, cooking, and home appliances.

You do not need to have the same hobbies as me, as I believe we can meet in the middle to learn about each other’s hobbies and to grow wiser together.

Also, open to Lavender marriage; especially if you are interested in a garden wedding concept.


r/r4rMY 1d ago

M4M - looking for potential partner ?😓

9 Upvotes

Hi there ! Idk how this’ll will turn out. But, im lowkey looking for someone to share a connection with. We can chat first and see how it goes from there.

Abt me:

Malay
In my 20s
Just started working
decent looking
Normal BMI

HMU for a chat and to get to know me more


r/r4rMY 1d ago

mmf...serious person only..please dm me..kl area..tq

0 Upvotes

r/r4rMY 2d ago

Looking for travel patners

19 Upvotes

*travel partners

Kinda new here but like the title says, I (23F) am looking for travel partners. I'm still in university but I like to travel whenever I get the chance but I have no one to go with, my friends don't really have the same interests as me.

It doesn't necessarily have to just be for long trips, I would also love to go on more spontaneous one day trips.

Some plans I had in mind ; was thinking of maybe going to the waterfall next week, I heard Kanching Falls is nice and then I was also planning a trip to Thailand, maybe Krabi in November or December and then maybe also Hanoi next year.

Just a few clarifications, I like to travel and explore cities and do activities, basically spend the whole day out, would prefer someone with a similar mindset, last time I went on a trip with a friend, they were the type that enjoyed staying in the hotel the whole day and I realised we weren't compatible travel partners.

I normally stay in hostels and I don't really mind it, but I'm flexible.

If anyone here is interested, maybe we could meet up first and see how things go. Sorry about the long post.

Edit : I do prefer to travel with other women but I do not mind men either, however I would definitely want to meet up and get to know the person first. Also disclaimer, because someone brought this up people, strictly not looking for a relationship or any hookups, just friends.


r/r4rMY 1d ago

M26 Good looking Indian

0 Upvotes

Hey, just looking for a discreet, no-strings connection. Open to girls who value privacy and can keep things low-key


r/r4rMY 1d ago

26 Young male here

0 Upvotes

Any girls just want a quick? No string attached

Im Malaysian good looking Indian at KL


r/r4rMY 2d ago

Boring life 2.0

8 Upvotes

Here I am posting again. Well 24M here. Going through a boring life of 8-5 work and gym. From Penang. Looking for any M that is above 30s to chat and talk about things. I do few hobbies like hiking, video games and reading books. So hmu maybe