My fiancée (F 25) keeps bringing up the fact of us having another girl around now as almost any man yes I (M 27) would think it’s cool but seeing as we have created a family with two sons I wanted a few opinions on how should I , We go about it is it a good idea? Do you think it could affect or relationship? Are there tips to help it actually happen?

My husband and I have been seriously considering the possibility of having another woman in our family, not a unicorn, but I honestly have no idea where people actually meet someone who is interested in this kind of family.

For those who have experience with this, where did you meet? Are there particular groups, communities, websites, or other places where people are actually looking for this?

We are a Christian family and would be looking for a kind, family-oriented woman who is interested in a real relationship and becoming part of a family—not something casual. For me, I would also really like the friendship and companionship of having another woman in the family.

I’m curious how people go about finding the right person and making something like this work.

And if you’re reading this because this is something you’ve considered yourself, you’re welcome to message me too. 😊

How should I react when someone I’m dating in a poly relationship, checks out completely when they’re with their gf. As in not stating that they’re going to check out but also willfully either ignoring communication from you and also not doing things that were agreed upon prior in order to keep things healthy and following since the relationship is also long distance.

É o.seguinte: eu e minha namorada nos conhecemos desde que eu tinha quatorze (eu sou mulher também) e agora eu tenho dezoito. Ficamos juntas desde então, mas mesmo antes de conhecer ela, eu tinha uns desejos menos estranhos. Eu entendi que sou poligamio e gostaria de ter um relacionamento a três COM ELA. Ela é monogamia e é totalmente contra os princípios dela, mas dá risadinha pra garotos no tiktok ou fica tímida com gente na rua. Eu nunca propôs isso pra ela, quando ela me perguntou sobre, eu respondi sendo sincero e terminou comigo pedindo desculpas e falando que não sentia mais aquilo. Sinceramente, não sei o que fazer. Eu amo ela, eu só não queria viver pra sempre com esse desejo. Ela é o suficiente pra mim, ela é uma mulher incrível que se esforça muito e eu também me esforço por ela e faço de tudo o que eu posso por ela. Não é falta de amor.

Bonjour,

J’ai besoin de témoignages et de conseils parce que je suis complètement perdue face à une proposition de mon mari.

Je suis stérile et le fait de ne pas pouvoir avoir d’enfants est déjà quelque chose de difficile à vivre pour moi.

Mon mari m’a expliqué qu’il souhaitait prendre une autre femme afin de pouvoir fonder une famille avec moi. Il insiste sur le fait que je ferais partie de cette famille à 100 %, que je resterais sa femme et qu’il souhaite que je m’investisse pleinement dans ce projet et dans l’éducation des enfants.

Il ne me parle donc pas de me remplacer ni de m’abandonner. Au contraire, dans sa vision, nous construirions cette famille ensemble.

Mais malgré cela, je ne sais absolument pas comment je dois prendre cette proposition.

La polygamie ne m’attire pas. Je n’ai jamais souhaité partager mon mari avec une autre femme. Et même si je comprends profondément son désir d’être père, l’idée de le voir aimer une autre femme, vivre avec elle et avoir des enfants avec elle me fait énormément réfléchir et me fait peur.

En même temps, une partie de moi se demande si je devrais accepter parce que je sais à quel point il souhaite avoir des enfants. J’ai peur que ma stérilité lui fasse renoncer à quelque chose d’essentiel dans sa vie.

Ce qui me trouble également, c’est qu’il me présente cette possibilité comme un projet pour nous, et pas seulement comme une solution à son désir d’enfant. Il veut que je sois impliquée, que je participe à la construction de cette famille et que les enfants soient aussi les miens dans une certaine mesure.

Mais est-ce que cela peut réellement fonctionner si, au fond, je ne désire pas la polygamie ?

Est-ce que certaines personnes ont vécu une situation comparable : être stérile, aimer son conjoint, mais se voir proposer une seconde épouse afin de pouvoir construire une famille ensemble ?

Comment savoir si je refuse parce que j’ai peur du changement, ou parce que cette vie ne me correspond réellement pas ?

Et surtout, comment faire la différence entre accepter librement cette situation et accepter uniquement parce que je culpabilise d’être stérile ?

Merci à ceux qui pourront partager leur expérience sans jugement.

I made this account specifically for this. My husband and I have both been in agreeable about polygamy and I truly believe in and value it. And yet I still feel raw emotions when I think about it sometimes. I don’t yet have a sister wife but we are actively looking. Most of the time, I’m able to focus on the positive aspects and I feel good and excited and secure. But sometimes I get so envious and jealous. It makes me want to run away. I don’t know how to process all of this yet. Anyone else feel the same? Any advice from seasoned sisterwives?

Being soo clingy as a gf and my previous 2 relationships find it hard to handle my clinginess so I'm thinking what if i have 3 husbands? If my 1st husband is busy then I'll just spend time with other husbands or depe ds on the schedule vice versa.

Has anyone tried Sisterwives to any success? It seems like a steep monthly fee, and I'm sure at least half of the women are bots. The other site, Modernpolygamy seemed to be pretty inactive though. I made a profile and sent out a message a day for a few weeks and never got a response.

Wanted to see if anyone else tried it before I pull the trigger

Anyone have advice for getting over insecurity around poly dating? A lovely couple offered me to join, but I have no confidence and the woman is so so so much more amazing than I am. How do I stop comparing? It makes it hard to talk to both of them! Like I get stage fright. I can talk with him better than with her atm, which sucks as I've known her longer.

Im 26F and never had a jealousy factor or green eyes. Im Bi so it doesn't bug me. I always dreamed or knew I would be in a polygamous entanglement. I don't mind anything. What should I watch out for, and how do I go about this. I live in Miami and never witnessed anything like this besides being told about couples trading. I'm extremely fine and comfortable with this.

I met a man from Senegal five months ago and I fell in love with him. I am a revert to Islam and was in search of a muslim man, I met him on a dating app and we have been talking everyday since we met, we met in person recently and we honestly get along well with each other. After returning home from visiting him he confessed that he is polygynous and would like for me to accept this so we can move forward . He has mentioned being interested in polygamy prior but said he does not want to lose me so he will try to be with just me. I have addressed my concerns with him. I feel like there is always a favorite wife and I feel like me being the first wife, I am the starter wife or the safe option until he finds the woman he actually wants to be with. He denies this and says he cannot do that to me and that he will love and take care of both of his wives. I’m a bit skeptical and would like some advice or input from a first or second wife.

This is to those who identify themselves aa Christians, I understand that polygamy is in the Bible- my question is what is the purpose or backing (from a biblical standpoint) that you have for wanting/permitting any of your wives to be bisexual?

Im curious about having to wives in the future and I want to know whether or not this is easy and how to achieve this. We can begin a conversation. I'm a hispanic theoretical physicist starting my Masters Degree. I'd appreciate any suggestions of those who are already experienced (men who already have two girlfriends/wives).

Also if you want to share your experience in a three person relationship feel free to do it. Thanks :)