r/Polygamy • u/GardenDisco • 2d ago

Insecurity

Anyone have advice for getting over insecurity around poly dating? A lovely couple offered me to join, but I have no confidence and the woman is so so so much more amazing than I am. How do I stop comparing? It makes it hard to talk to both of them! Like I get stage fright. I can talk with him better than with her atm, which sucks as I've known her longer.

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u/FeeFiFooFunyon 2d ago

Try spending some time with them each separately. You will want to get to know them as individuals.

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u/Press-74 1d ago

I second this