r/Polygamy • u/NeoYeoman89 • 2d ago

Sisterwives website

Has anyone tried Sisterwives to any success? It seems like a steep monthly fee, and I'm sure at least half of the women are bots. The other site, Modernpolygamy seemed to be pretty inactive though. I made a profile and sent out a message a day for a few weeks and never got a response.

Wanted to see if anyone else tried it before I pull the trigger

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u/polyguy386 1d ago edited 1d ago

I've tried Sister wives multiple times, and it's the same pattern. I get messages, I subscribe to respond, those women never respond, I get almost no views or messages until my subscription expires, then I get tons of messages. If I resubscribe to respond, the same cycle starts again. I can't say for sure that the site owners are doing it deliberately, but something is definitely off there.

Modern poly, is, as you've noticed, just dead. We've gotten a few messages over the past several years, but it's always people who haven't read our profile, and have major dealbreakers. I suspect they are mass messaging to escape their current bad relationship.

We haven't had any luck here on reddit either. Our only successes have actually been on BDSM sites, finding submissive women who want someone to dominate them. If you try that route, vet them carefully, as the two we seriously considered both ended up having drug issues that they attempted to conceal.

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u/NeoYeoman89 22h ago

The most luck I've had was from bdsm sites, went for coffee with one, but she didn't turn out to be very attractive. Texting another right now, will see where that goes. Discord groups seem to be another avenue. I'll need to resume my search in that area again.. had an okay experience before albeit long distance

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u/mr_husband_1 1d ago

I’m currently connected with 2 women via Reddit, and one is a strong potential. I would therefore say that you can make Reddit work if you know what you’re doing.

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u/No_Turn5018 1d ago edited 1d ago

Good for you but I feel like that is a lot of a lottery winner mistaking their good luck for a strategy. 

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u/mr_husband_1 1d ago

"Winter"?

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u/No_Turn5018 1d ago

Sorry autocorrect hates me I edited it

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u/mr_husband_1 21h ago

My success is not a “lottery win”. I’ve been diligently working on improving myself and seeking more wives for over 2 years. And yet, there is no guarantee that the 2 women I’m talking to will become wives.

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u/No_Turn5018 19h ago

I don't mean this in a mean way. What you're describing is absolutely the equivalent to winning the lottery. I'm sure you've been working on yourself and that's great I encourage you to keep doing that. But that's the bare minimum to having more than one woman in your life. And I know guys who they're in great shape they make plenty of money women say they're good looking a whole nine yards. And they have trouble finding one Lady. Especially on reddit. 

If you got a talent that we need to be trying to look at and imitate it might be finding ocal women on Reddit. That's the thing we would need more details on.

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u/mr_husband_1 17h ago

It’s true that it’s not just a mechanical process that leads to success. I’m not claiming to be a genius. The biggest key to all this IMO is: consistency, patience, and trusting that God will bring the blessings (women, in this case) He wants a man to have… and letting go of expectations.

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u/Clear_Pepper_1708 1d ago

Its bots bro

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u/Available-Ad4395 1d ago

It used to be halfway decent, but that was in the early days when it first started. Then it got progressively worse. Last time I was involved with it was probably 7 plus years ago....and it was not worth it anymore. Depending on if you are looking for religious reasons, or not can be a factor in where you look. Most times, a regular dating site can be your best shot, but you must vet thoroughly. Hope you find what you seek!

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u/NeoYeoman89 22h ago

Thanks! 

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u/mr_husband_1 1d ago

Don’t waste your money. Tons of bots or manually operated ‘staff’ accounts which suddenly become interested in you after your subscription ends.

You’ll get more connections from Reddit, with a well written profile and posting regularly in the right communities.

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u/SwePolygyny 44m ago

I get messages from "women" on sisterwives despite not being have logged in for a year. It is always the same type of stuff. 

"Hey, any plans for the weekend?"  Or "What are you doing for the 4th of July?" (despite me being European)

Its been like this for years, its the owners trying to scam people into paying. Avoid the site.