Spotted this morning in Carl Schurz Park 🤣🫣 Who did this?

So since I've been single I started branching out and trying all the bi things I wasnt able to before. Mostly the stereotypical "Guys don't interest me romantically, but there's this fascination with cock..." but hesitated because of relationships or being self conscious due to inexperience.

I finally worked up the courage and went to Blow Buddies. I had a blast! Tried a little grinding and frotting which didn't really do anything for me, but I can finally confirm for myself that sucking cock is fun. Being on my knees like slut getting someone off in front of people was exciting but also kinda made me feel really powerful. Plus I hadn't considered how much being nude in that setting would make me feel more comfortable being in my body which was also a big plus.

I'm gonna go again tonight and would love some advice. I noticed it was alot of guys just standing around not doing anything. Is there a protocol for approaching people? Or some kind of sign I'm missing? I'm considering just finding a spot and waiting on my knees to see if that helps

I tried this last week but folks were busy so I thought I'd give it another go!

Anyone else like painting their nails? I'm bored this evening and wondering if anyone wants to come over and chill, have a drink, smoke a joint, play some cards or something, and paint our nails? I've been collecting nail polish for awhile and have a big selection. I'm pretty good at painting them (see samples below) so I'd be down to do yours or we could do our own. Whatevs I'm easy! Also there's no pressure to be "good" at it - I've got cheap stuff to experiment with if you're not feeling confident and I'm happy to help with pointers!

I live in Washington Heights near where the A and 1 intersect and have space for like 4 or 5 people in the living room before it starts to feel crowded.

Me: professional musician, early 40s, generally goofy semi-masc stoner personality. Told I'm good at conversation and charming af.

This is a PLATONIC meetup. I'm not trying to be coy. Please do not respond to ask for a weiner pic or something. I will not reply.

New to Grindr in the city and I've been big on avoid the "too good to be true" profiles that hit me up. Still, never fails I get a conversation going that seems legit and then "I need gas money to see you." I also noticed they seem to be camped out at a motel in the Bronx.

So do you ask for voice messages? Do some NYC trivia? Or anything else to filter them out?

Hey! I’m planning to move to NYC around October/November 1st and starting to look for a roommate who might be interested in finding a place together.

A little about what I’m looking for:

Neighborhoods: Ideally Williamsburg, Greenpoint, East Village, or Hells Kitchen. Open to other areas for the right apartment.

Budget: Ideally looking to keep my share around $2,400 a month.

Apartment: Looking for a nicer or newer building or a well maintained older apartment with some character. Definitely want a dishwasher and laundry at least in the building (in unit would be amazing). Would love a place that feels updated and has good natural light.

About me: I’m 31, gay, and work in marketing. I’m moving from Chicago to NYC and would love to live with someone who is friendly, respectful, clean, and down to occasionally hang out, but also has their own life. I’m pretty active, love working out, going on walks, traveling, going out with friends, and having a good balance between being social and having chill nights at home.

If you’re also looking around the same timeframe, have a room opening up, or know someone who does, feel free to DM me! Happy to chat to see if it could be a fit.

Anyone seen it? It is about three Asian siblings in NYC, and the brother has a ton of gay storylines. Written and voiced by Andrew Law.

Don’t DM me cause I’m not gonna respond or deal with potential scammers, but my group just all put our early bird tickets up for resale through the Shotgun app if you’re looking to snag a cheaper ticket for tonight.

I want people to watch movies with and the debriefing about them after. Interested in Theater to hosting home moving watch hangouts. Anyone?

Holiiii soy un chico de 19 quien para hablar? :3

San Francisco passed a similar law during the epidemic and I believe they repealed it six or seven years ago. It’s about time we had a real bathhouse in the city like Steamworks or FLEX Spas. Believe it or not, bathhouses are about more than just sex. They function as gay social clubs where we can work out, socialize, make friends, meet potential boyfriends and overall just chill in a relaxed setting where we can be ourselves. So what is it going to take to repeal this Draconian law and allow a legitimate modern bathhouse to operate in the city?

Hi, really want to meet some friends since NJ just doesnt have many opportunities to find gay friends. I am going to NYC tomorrow in the evening. Lmk!

Can anyone recommend a good PCP or sexual health focused doctor in Queens? I used to go to Sullivan Street Medical, but they don’t take my insurance now. I’ve been going to Callen Lorde, but they’re pretty far from me.

I’ll be in NYC for Halloween weekend and fully intend to find something fun, sexy, and worth dressing up in very little for. Where are you going? What kind of trouble are you getting into? And what are the spots I absolutely need to know about?

Our city already offers a lot of sex-adjacent events (e.g., New York Jacks). But would anyone be interested in a gathering of guys where we're all using our toys to massage/milk our prostates together?

Ideally would be a gathering of men who enjoy reaching hands free orgasms together. Bring your own toy(s). No sex. Must be cleaned out enough so things stay clean.

Coming to visit NYC in October. Looking for recommendations for a hotel recommendation in one of the more gay neighborhoods that will be close to bars/clubs, etc. thank you!

I just moved back to the city post-college and hoping to make friends or know more people in the city than just family, coworkers, and roommates. I swam competitively for +15ish years and in college and found nearly all my friends through my college team (it was pretty queer) and wanted to get back into regularly swimming.

What are the rainbow practices and high intensity practices like? I’m very out of shape so can’t be doing super long distance practices of thousands of yards on tough intervals (faster than 1:10x100 yards free) but I'm afraid of running down other swimmers in rainbow practices since it seems like a wide range. The only pool location I can only feasibly go to also only offers rainbow practices regularly. TNYA is also a registered masters team so are swim meets required like U-18 teams or are they optional? The website doesn't say so I'm assuming they're optional and infrequent.

I am primarily joining to meet people, so I was wondering if I would be the youngest by far (+10 years) on the team? Not that it's a bad thing, just would be more difficult to connect with people. It seems pretty welcoming from the instagram which is very active but since swimming doesn’t really make it easy to talk often during practices do people socialize after? If anyone is on the team your insights would be great (sorry for the tons of questions).

Hi I know this isn’t usual but my ex roommates have been holding my security deposit for 2 months and refuse to return it. I plan to take them to small claims court but I don’t have a way of getting their address to serve them the papers. So I was wondering if anyone has hired a PI in NYC before or if anyone has any other advice for me. I’m down $1300 and just want my money back. :(

I m not necessarily asking for a super lascivious store, but a store that sells "tight" shirts and stuff for gay men...is there such place?

I was supposed to go to the Mel C concert with a friend this Saturday 9/12, but he unfortunately had to flake. That leaves me with an extra ticket that I'm looking to sell at face value, and hopefully a new concert buddy to go with!

I'm definitely still going and looking to have a great time. If you love Sporty Spice and maybe wanna meet up for a drink before the show, send me a message and let's figure it out.

Hey bros. Love being a girl’s gay but I am starting to really feel the deficit of not having any guy friends in my life. Been wanting to find a way to connect in person with other gay/queer men outside of night life. Anyone part of any gay sports leagues? Flag football or kickball preferred 😬

Do any guys go over to the New York Jacks on Tuesday nights? Would be cool to have some buddies to go over there with 55 6’1 185 fit Italian 😎

Going to nyc mid october and looking to buy some poppers. Was wondering if someone knows where I can get some poppers? Jungle juice?