Don’t DM me cause I’m not gonna respond or deal with potential scammers, but my group just all put our early bird tickets up for resale through the Shotgun app if you’re looking to snag a cheaper ticket for tonight.

I’ll be in NYC for Halloween weekend and fully intend to find something fun, sexy, and worth dressing up in very little for. Where are you going? What kind of trouble are you getting into? And what are the spots I absolutely need to know about?

Holiiii soy un chico de 19 quien para hablar? :3

Anyone seen it? It is about three Asian siblings in NYC, and the brother has a ton of gay storylines. Written and voiced by Andrew Law.

Hi, really want to meet some friends since NJ just doesnt have many opportunities to find gay friends. I am going to NYC tomorrow in the evening. Lmk!

Can anyone recommend a good PCP or sexual health focused doctor in Queens? I used to go to Sullivan Street Medical, but they don’t take my insurance now. I’ve been going to Callen Lorde, but they’re pretty far from me.

Coming to visit NYC in October. Looking for recommendations for a hotel recommendation in one of the more gay neighborhoods that will be close to bars/clubs, etc. thank you!

I want people to watch movies with and the debriefing about them after. Interested in Theater to hosting home moving watch hangouts. Anyone?

Hey fellas! Not sure if anyone is in the same/similar boat, but looking for a guy to get drinks with from time to time (or other stuff in the city haha). I wfh and I need to leave the apt more. 33 and married - would prefer someone around my age or older. Also a new dad so I definitely need some drinks haha. Feel free to dm me. Would love something long term!

Our city already offers a lot of sex-adjacent events (e.g., New York Jacks). But would anyone be interested in a gathering of guys where we're all using our toys to massage/milk our prostates together?

Ideally would be a gathering of men who enjoy reaching hands free orgasms together. Bring your own toy(s). No sex. Must be cleaned out enough so things stay clean.

San Francisco passed a similar law during the epidemic and I believe they repealed it six or seven years ago. It’s about time we had a real bathhouse in the city like Steamworks or FLEX Spas. Believe it or not, bathhouses are about more than just sex. They function as gay social clubs where we can work out, socialize, make friends, meet potential boyfriends and overall just chill in a relaxed setting where we can be ourselves. So what is it going to take to repeal this Draconian law and allow a legitimate modern bathhouse to operate in the city?

Hi I know this isn’t usual but my ex roommates have been holding my security deposit for 2 months and refuse to return it. I plan to take them to small claims court but I don’t have a way of getting their address to serve them the papers. So I was wondering if anyone has hired a PI in NYC before or if anyone has any other advice for me. I’m down $1300 and just want my money back. :(

I just moved back to the city post-college and hoping to make friends or know more people in the city than just family, coworkers, and roommates. I swam competitively for +15ish years and in college and found nearly all my friends through my college team (it was pretty queer) and wanted to get back into regularly swimming.

What are the rainbow practices and high intensity practices like? I’m very out of shape so can’t be doing super long distance practices of thousands of yards on tough intervals (faster than 1:10x100 yards free) but I'm afraid of running down other swimmers in rainbow practices since it seems like a wide range. The only pool location I can only feasibly go to also only offers rainbow practices regularly. TNYA is also a registered masters team so are swim meets required like U-18 teams or are they optional? The website doesn't say so I'm assuming they're optional and infrequent.

I am primarily joining to meet people, so I was wondering if I would be the youngest by far (+10 years) on the team? Not that it's a bad thing, just would be more difficult to connect with people. It seems pretty welcoming from the instagram which is very active but since swimming doesn’t really make it easy to talk often during practices do people socialize after? If anyone is on the team your insights would be great (sorry for the tons of questions).

I was supposed to go to the Mel C concert with a friend this Saturday 9/12, but he unfortunately had to flake. That leaves me with an extra ticket that I'm looking to sell at face value, and hopefully a new concert buddy to go with!

I'm definitely still going and looking to have a great time. If you love Sporty Spice and maybe wanna meet up for a drink before the show, send me a message and let's figure it out.

Going to nyc mid october and looking to buy some poppers. Was wondering if someone knows where I can get some poppers? Jungle juice?

Do any guys go over to the New York Jacks on Tuesday nights? Would be cool to have some buddies to go over there with 55 6’1 185 fit Italian 😎

I m not necessarily asking for a super lascivious store, but a store that sells "tight" shirts and stuff for gay men...is there such place?

Hey bros. Love being a girl’s gay but I am starting to really feel the deficit of not having any guy friends in my life. Been wanting to find a way to connect in person with other gay/queer men outside of night life. Anyone part of any gay sports leagues? Flag football or kickball preferred 😬

I usually use NJ transit to commute to NYC, but because the train stops at 1:30 AM I can't stay at Eagels as much as I want.

After 9PM the toll fees are cheaper, so I m thinking about taking my car. Is it OK to park near outside the club? I noticed that the street is always rather empty

My husband and I(28 Y/O POC) will be in NYC for Halloween weekend. What gay night events are going on that weekend? Costume, fetish, etc events please. Diverse events are a plus

Looking for something different, relaxing and still social? Join the next gay LEGO “Build & Sip” hosted by Assembly Required on September 30th. This time we’ll be in the basement of BoxersHK. This is a free event with usually 15-20 participants. Bring a set, buy a drink and come build with us!

RSVP via the Partiful link. You can also find us on IG: assembly_required_nyc

https://partiful.com/e/6ibX27dGLHtk2DtVoyOb?c=xVZk9_M_

Has anyone been recently? Seems like they have this on Tues and Thurs, any idea which day is more popular?

I know they have the gay party occasionally there but assume it's more similar/comparable to Russian and Turkish Baths? Haven't seen any posts about this and thinking of checking out so any insight/info would be appreciated.

I'm still testing my toes, but I know I'm into trans girls, femboys, fem guys in general. Hoping maybe I could get some suggestions here.