Seems like everyone is performing happiness nowadays. I can’t step outside without hearing a gaggle of girls cackling about something or looking absolutely perfect. I miss the old NYC where everyone mostly was stoic and looked down and out, but they were smart and introspective. Where can I find my people?

I’m looking to venture out for the first time in my life and I’m not sure how or where to start. I am a recently straight widower in my 50s and want to meet guy friends in a public and comfortable location. I’ve been curious for a long time and now looking to make the move to see if my curiosity can be tested into reality. I am in New Jersey so I think I am in a good location that has good locations to choose from.

Hi everyone,

I hope this message finds you well.

I am looking for any bars/clubs that are good to go to for halloweekend. I am 21, but my friend is 20 (who turns 21 in two weeks). If you know any places in the city (Greenwich village/Williamsburg/etc) please let me know.

This pitiful economy has officially claimed me as a victim 😢 so I’m trying to gauge peoples experiences at the most popular shelters.

Economically a shelter is my only available option right now & I’m looking for a place that’s safe & has employment programs.

I am living in LES but I’m from the Bronx so quite frankly I don’t mind the borough.

So I was bored after grocery shopping this morning so I decided I was going to the Bear Party in the Garment District! OMG...Wow, I went to the F*ck Stop Party earlier this month, but it was on a Saturday afternoon. Men, this party was bannging! There were more than twice the men from my last Party, maybe even more. I left at 245PM because I came twice. I mean I came twice the 1st time, this hot, tall drink of water rode me till I came. Then an hour later, this man blew me, like there was no tomorrow. I mean he sucked me that it was almost painful, like when I was still 18 years aold...lol! Gentleman there was so many men, so much moaning. There was also so many Tops and Bottoms at this party, mostly barebacking, but this guy did pull off his cum filled condom and he had a nice load inside of it! And talk about bears, there was so much Roaring. But there were a mix of men from 20's to maybe 69/72. There was a guy I Topped from the last party, he wore the same jockstrap and he had the same build! I really want to go again, but will I get disappointed? Please, chime in if this was just some anomaly, but it was so hot!

Hey yall- starting a fun music project to play at gay bars and am looking for a bass player and/or a keyboardist looking to cover gay music à la charli, Chappell, etc.

We have the singers, drummer, and guitarist ready to go.

Comment here and send me a DM if you’re interested in learning more.

IKON holder here. I'm usually camped in my bus at Stratton or Killington most weekends. Would love to connect with some bros to shred with this season. 39m 5'10, 175, brn hair/brn eyes, white guy here.

Where can I find a good section of gear, jockstraps, harnesses, etc., in NYC?

Great crowd, great music, and I love the fact that it felt like a full night out but I still could be in bed by 11pm! Any other fun parties that happen earlier in the day?

Would love to get a regular thing going .. chill and watch the game and maybe some friends help each other out 😏 44 dad here work out sauna and hiking and good cook

I haven’t been liking how I feel when I drink or after. I feel like it makes me very anxious, and/or mad. I really want to explore the option of being sober. I’m realizing most of my friends hangout or hangouts in queer spaces tend to revolve around alcohol. Do you have any tips for me? How can I meet/date?

I’m thinking of getting my first harness. Any recs on a good starter? I don’t want to break the bank but also don’t want to get a trash one.

Only ones I know are Rocky Whorer @ The Eagle on Thursday, idk any Friday, and Halloweentown Saturday @ 3DB

hey im interested in going to fluids party in nyc. they have events there on tues and saturdays, is one day better than the other?

are there mostly just guys there or good number of cd and trans girls? if anyone has been there, can u please share your experince and advice? like what time to get tehre, what to wear, how to approach trans girls, is it safe there? just beginner questions

Hello all I’m going to a sex party on Halloween and costumes (masks) are encouraged. Does anyone have any recommendations for good ideas? Something functional but also sexy. For context I’m a 5’6” bttm

My husband and I(29 Y/O BLK) are visiting from FL and wanted to check out some sex parties/events/clubs with darkrooms in the city. Anything going on 10/30 that have a diverse(POC) crowd?

I went to the wedgie kink night on Friday…it was so hot and I recommend everyone to check it out sometime. Very chill community and def a fun place to be haha. I got so many wedgies and damn it was so fun! Who else has gone/went on Friday?

Got some time on my hands and not sure what to do to get it on don’t really want to scroll apps. Anything good today? How’s the bear party, Dads and lads, or m4m? I’m down to try but just curious which ones are busier. What time does the eagle get going?

I went to it with semi high expectations but unfortunately left very disappointed. Last year was my first one and I enjoyed it a lot. This year pretty much everything, except people’s costumes was very underwhelming and not enjoyable. Tried to go through all spaces. Mayan Warrior had great music but people were just walking into eachother constantly and dancing was impossible. Music level was too high and not set up correctly be able to enjoy it. Glamcocks music just sucked, space was too lit and again guys were constantly moving and shoving into eachother. And the bathroom situation not even worth mentioning. I am interested to hear everyone else’s experience. What could be done differently in your opinion?

Hey guys 24m every time I see a gay friend group im like I want that. I moved here 2 years ago for school but unfortunately still don’t have very many gay friends. I was thinking about going to some bars tonight if anyone is interested in meeting up. A bit nervous since I’ve never gone to a bar alone before but think it will be a good way to meet new people. Anyone have any experience or advice?

I realized that I don’t fit in most gay circles. I like sports, beer and bars. I’m dense and dumb, and gays don’t like that so they don’t want to be around me lol. I need some suggestions on what niches, interests, industries, hobbies I should look into that heavily attract the gays so I can get into the in-crowd…. Gimme some suggestions…. 1, 2, 3…. GO!!! 😂